do men have resting bitch faces as well or do they not have negative characteristics ascribed to them for putting on a neutral rather than a deliriously happy facial expression
Yes, Black men in majority white spaces do. If I don’t smile every single second of the day my coworkers become in intimidated and start asking me what’s wrong, telling me to smile, make jokes about how I’m trying to be a thug/act hard, why am I angry, etc. And it’s not just white men at my job God FORBID I my large Black ass makes a white girl feel threaten because I’m sitting down with a neutral expression.
I’m not trying to take this post away from women and make it about Black men but I want to point out that wether it’s patriarchy or white supremacy; those who feel as if they have power over you HATE to see you not smile. They are so used to people like you smiling to gain their approval that when you don’t there’s a cognitive dissonance that makes them extremely uncomfortable.
That’s why “angry Black women” is a thing. They have to put on a smile for everyone (yes even feminist white women) or we all get uncomfortable.
stack 1 - knight of wands, vii of chalices, ix of chalices
you have achieved so many of your goals, and you should be proud of that. however, don't become overconfident. this may be a time to be more conservative with your choices: stick to what you know works
stack 2 - vi of chalices, xvi the tower, page of coins
this is a period of change for you. much is crumbling down, and you may feel nostalgic for the past. however, the future is looking bright! you are likely to succeed through this adversity and build something new and beautiful
stack 3 - vii of wands, i the magician, reversed xv the devil
now is the time to be dutiful. focus on efficiency and good planning, have restraint, and get things done. everything you sacrifice for your future will return to you tenfold
stack 1 - vii of swords, iv of swords, ii of chalices
now is a time to trust yourself, as there may be someone in your life who is keeping something from you out of their own self-interest. however, you have the mental power to protect yourself and your peace.
stack 2 - reversed xvii the star, x of wands, viii of swords
this is a difficult period for you. you may feel fatigue, clouded thoughts, and depression. it's time to walk away from whatever in your life is holding you back: while you may feel trapped right now, there is always a way forward.
stack 3 - knight of wands, xvi the tower, reversed vi of chalices
there is someone in your life who you have been putting on a pedestal. they may be charming and adventurous, they seem perfect to you. try to look past the rose-colored glasses.
you are at the beginning of a journey. people may doubt you at first, but remember who you are: trust yourself. however, do not let your stubbornness keep you in self-destructive patterns. it's easier to be selfish than selfless.
stack 2 - knight of wands, i of wands, king of chalices
charming, adventurous, perfection is an illusion, energy, new growth, diplomacy, open-mindedness, insecurity, arts
you find yourself brimming with energy, ready to take on adventures and expand your horizons. this is a period of personal growth, especially if you make use of your interpersonal abilities: keep an open mind and don't let your insecurities hold you back.
stack 3 - x of swords, xxi the world, iv the emperor
the troubles you have been facing may soon be over. you have been in a cycle of backstabbing and drama for a long time, and it's time for that to end. embrace your strength, protect your energy, and find the sense of harmony you have been missing.