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we're not kids anymore.
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@ace-thinks
For those of you wondering if you’re ace
If identifying as asexual makes you breathe a little easier...
If it feels like a weight being lifted off your chest and shoulders...
If it feels like it just makes sense somehow...
If it makes you happy...
If it sounds right in your head...
Then use it. Claim it. Make it your own. Even if only for a day. A week. A month. A couple years.
Labels aren’t tattoos. They don’t have to be permanent or perfect.
i didn't have "i'm broken" teenage asexual angst i had "i'm literally being the only reasonable one about this concept and the rest of you are behaving like fucking freaks" perception issues
When I was a kid, like 6 or something, adults would talk about weddings and marriage in the way that made me think it was unavoidable thing that would happen to me whether I wanted it or not, so I used to console myself like "Oh don't worry, you only have to do that for a little bit and then you can get divorced and live alone forever". Incredibly funny early aro experience.
But also, it sounds like a sketch. Like imagine a scene with bunch of little girls imagining their dream wedding, but one of them is just sitting there daydreaming of divorce.
Brother (gender neutral) I've been dreaming of getting a divorce SINCE FOREVER and I'm only ace
Bruh did I just get clocked wtf
I have been attacked. A sniper, so very accurate omg. It’s me!
hope this clears it up!
This made me smile ☺️
As an aroace person I actually never had that feeling of being broken. I thought everyone was the same way and some people were just dramatic 😭
THIS IS SO FUCKING FUNNY THATS EXACTLY HOW I FELT WATCHING ATTACK OF THE CLONES FOR THE FIRST TIME LMAOOOOO 😭😭😭😭
I think people who consider aromanticism as "basically straight" underestimate how noticeable absence can be to those around you.
Whether you're a kid in school with classmates who won't take "no one" as an answer to who you have a crush on or an adult whose coworkers have picked up on the fact that you've never mentioned a romantic partner; after enough time, a lack or insufficient amount of romantic interest will raise the antennae of friends, family, coworkers, etc... They will notice and they will speculate and they will ask.
It is impossible to meet the societal bar for straightness through inaction.
Today I was chatting with two guys and mentioned I was aroace. It went a little something like this.
A: wtf is that
B: it means she’s not attracted to people in that way
A: bro you can’t just not pick a side, that’s crazy
B: nah, it just means she’s spectator mode
A: OHHH IT MAKES SENSE NOW
I have never felt more validated or laughed so hard
I cannot begin to explain to you the disappointment I felt on finding out that “match my freak” was a sexual thing and not a level of how insane you are with your friends
i love this type of post
any s*xual intercourses would violate my oath as a paladin
I love finding out new things about Saint Robin Williams
#i think people forget sometimes that being a good ally #sometimes means guarding the closet door [via @anais-ninja-bitch]
BEING A GOOD ALLY SOMETIMES MEANS GUARDING THE CLOSET DOOR
this is really weird but part of my aroace experience is viewing allo people like a scientist would view a living specimen in an experiment
its like. they do something and i observe and note their behavior. i know this sounds super fucked up but here is something that happened today:
my sister was showing me her texts from her boyfriend and he was saying stuff like "if u want i can spray a shirt with my cologne to give to u" or "i'll give u my hoodie to wear"
and i just looked at her and said "people exchange clothes because they like each others scent? fascinating." and i felt like a freaking scientist observing a new species' behavior. i promise its not as weird as it sounds. im not uncomfortable with romance/sex (for other people), i just have no idea how it works.
im curious do any other aspecs have experiences like this? or is it just me?
“they were flirting with you” and how was i supposed to know such a thing when everyone speaks in codes and puzzles
you are doing some sort of riddler shit to me.
I think some of you people need to google amatonormativity… and like, think about it.
you can actually desire a traditional romantic relationship AND unpack amatonormative ideas within your mind and life. they are not mutually exclusive!
”Guys and girls can’t be just friends—“
respectfully, stay the fuck away from me
My experience with being oriented aroace is basically just not sexual or romantic attraction but a secret third thing but idk what the secret third thing is and tbh I don't care what it is, I just know that Women
