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han darcy | 20s | he/her | aroace & trans | former polygon blog, current silly goose | yes I know my pfp kinda looks like jerma

[peach-pot]

my posts may not always be good but each one is full of love ❤️ also lots of letters and even numbers sometimes

[peach-pot]

it’s kind of awesome having a big number of followers and regular flop posts 4 likes no reblogs. like, I might feel overwhelmed with so many people here in my house (blog) but you are all clearly doing your own thing so it’s basically like I just have a few friends over.

[tlirsgender]

I feel like . A lot of Being Autistic is giving people way too much benefit of the doubt cause you're trying not to have a social anxiety paranoia doom spiral but sometimes they really and truly just are treating you like that & you have to be the crazy one & be like I know you're fucking lying to me

Like oh yeah no it's not that I didn't notice. I've just been ignoring it. Yknow. Which somehow feels worse and stupider than if I really didn't know any better

[lesbianmarrow]

free use is kind of a funny kink bc it relies on the idea that everybody wants to touch you and have sex with you but what if they don't. what if you tell everybody at the party you're free use but they all ignore you and mind their own business

[tunnaa-unnaa]

taking notes

[oonpy]

Dude last night was a one note post

[peach-pot]

sometimes halfway through the night my phone will just give up on charging. I look it says “sorry we stopped charging your phone due to X or Y” but these reasons are made up bullshit. I know this because one I get sometimes is high temperature and let me tell you my phone is never warm when it says this. I think my charger and my phone maybe are just not on good terms right now.

[peach-pot]

idk how the people who use tumblr on their phone’s browser do it, I try logging in on firefox from my phone and it starts trying to kill itself

[digitalmyyth]

everyone needs their own pet scientist

[ihatesnapchat]

listening to a song you've already heard 100000 times but this time you notice backing vocals you never heard before

[gondorrevealparty]

Polycules should be able to trade people like sports teams do

[gondorrevealparty]

Listen -- you're a good defender and your pussy is fantastic, but that's not what our team needs right now. We're trading you to Greater Boston in exchange for someone who has a car.

[greenbloods]

we are never going to be free until it literally doesnt matter whether a person is ugly or not

[achillesinhighheels]

my sexual fantasy Is to have someone notice my absence and wonder about me

[muppetshow2026]

[bookie-the-reading-junkie]

– Directors' Commentary, Project Hail Mary (edited slightly)

[2colde]

i love leaning into a bad feeling #mytwistingknife

[codes-and-stuffs]

i do think we should normalise being like. platonically enamoured with someone. perhaps i love and admire you dearly and there's nothing romantic about it

[ndnbutch]

I get in theory why people complain about het ships or whatever, I get wanting to watch queer media I really do, but I guess where y’all lose me is like. I saw some asshole on a post about Sinners complaining it was “hetslop”—this person was specifically doing so while also claiming Remmick was a queer character and thus they were justified in caring more about him than the Black protagonists. which is a whole other disgusting can of worms that has been well addressed by others at this point. but even in the absence of that part of the argument, like, no, i actually don’t think that a hunger for queer stories is an especially good excuse to deride and dismiss a piece of landmark Black filmmaking, especially as a non-Black person. I have a post that’s been going around encouraging folks to engage with more Native stories and characters, and I had someone come onto that post saying in the tags that they’d need these stories to be queer in order to care. and I just think that, you know, sucks! like obviously as a queer Native I also want to see more of those stories too. but idk how else to put it other than to say that Black people and people of color shouldn’t have to be like you in order for you to care about our narratives and experiences. and I think some of y’all are using this disdain for heterosexuality as a cover for your unexamined racial biases. it’s not okay to be racist to people just because those people happen to be straight, and you continue to be white before you are queer.

[ndnbutch]

on an even more basic level than that, also, I simply just think some of y’all NEED to learn how to interact with media and storytelling without ships and fandom in mind. like if not being able to write fic about two men kissing is genuinely going to be a dealbreaker for you I think that’s actually something you need to work on within yourself because at that point I think you’re no longer really interacting with art and themes and narrative so much as just kind of playing with toys. which is, like, fine I guess. have fun. but it wouldn’t kill you to disengage from that from time to time. especially if would allow you to actually appreciate rich and deeply moving cultural stories from communities of color that you desperately need to learn how to see as human