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ASEXUAL PEOPLE ARE AMAZING!!!!

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64bitwar

Declaring yourself asexual is actually a form of self-diagnosis.

You have no business diagnosing yourself. You are not qualified to evaluate your own biology or psychology. It’s literally equivalent to just deciding you’re bipolar. It’s not a personal identity decision.

You have no business diagnosing yourself.

ishipitlikeups

Are you… Are you implying that gay people cAN’T IDENTIFY AS GAY THEY HAVE TO BE DIAGNOSED HOLY CRAP THIS IS COMEDY GOLD THERE’S NO WAY YOU AREN’T A TROLL.

pl3as3br3akmyh3art

“Tim, your results came back. You’re gay.”

ishipitlikeups

“Thanks, Doc. There’s absolutely no way I could have possibly known that on my own without your official diagnosis.”

ceptonum

“I just got back from the doctor, Barbara. I… I’m gay.”

*sirens blaring* *red lights flashing* *homophobes come crashing through the walls*

mmccubbing

If you’re not ready to have a gay kid, a trans kid, an autistic kid, a disabled kid, then you’re not ready to have a kid.

If you’re not ready to love and care for them unconditionally, you aren’t ready to care for them at all.

Sorry to tell y’all this, but I’m no homo

I really don’t like Homo Sapiens

#no homo #no homo sapien #no humans #asocial

seashellronan

Sharpay Evans was a lesbian

malviebertha

what do you mean “was”? she’s still a lesbian

seashellronan

wow you’re right, i guess i’m not used to lesbians being alive at the end of a movie

toogaytofunctionnn-blog

Explain?? How??

seashellronan

weak ass crush on the most conventionally attractive boy in school despite having nothing in common with him.

obsession with the girl he was dating, thinking she hated her when really she was jealous of him.

theatre is gay

she loves drama

high femme

never ended up with a boyfriend because she was gay

best friends with her gay brother

only sings romantic duets with her gay brother because she’s also gay

determined to “stick to status quo” due to internalised homophobia

bop to the Top = she’s telling us she’s a top

feelingcerulean-blog

Her interest in Troy Bolton was a power move, which would also help keep her closeted

The sexual tension between her and the piano girl Kelsi???

Her disapproval of Ryan getting close with “the straights” in hsm2 because “they don’t understand us”

Girls who want to be doctors? Gorgeous 💕💖

Girls who want to be engineers? Wonderful💗

Girls who want to be models? Beautiful💜💝

Girls who want to be mothers? Delightful💗💛

Girls who want to be athletes? Splendid💙💓

Girls who want to be musicians? Fabulous❣️

Girls who want to be entrepreneurs? Sweet💚

Boys who want to be artists? Lovely🧡💕

Boys who want to be fathers? Marvelous 💞💘

Boys who want to be writers? Spectacular❤️

Boys who want to be cosmetologists? Great💓

Boys who want to be teachers? Awesome💛

Boys who want to be dancers? Delightful 💞💙

Boys who want to be gymnasts? Terrific💖💜

People who are neither of these genders but want to do one of these (or anything else)?

So cool💞💚

Be whatever you want to be no matter what society says💖💖💖💖

#positivity #positivevibes #feminism #feminist #positive #lgbtq #stereotypes #defy stereotypes #be yourself #be your own kind of beautiful #you are beautiful #you are valid

skjdghskghoueragkjlm

asexual sirens getting real fuckin pissed about all these sailors interrupting choir rehearsal

triprobellant-deactivated201709

sirens are already asexual they dont have sex with the men they kill them

faardyn00-deactivated20180523

well no wonder they kill them they keep interrupting choir rehearsal

the-magical-crawdad

Asexual sirens being really pleased when an asexual sailor begins singing baritone counterpoint.

wanheda-trikru

Please reblog if you wouldn't act differently around a friend if they came out as bisexual, gay, lesbian, asexual, pansexual, polysexual, or admitted to being trans, agender, genderfluid, or bigender.

bessibel

My ace pride includes disabled aces. My ace pride includes asexual abuse survivors. My ace pride includes aromantic people. My ace pride includes sex-repulsed and celibate aces.

My ace pride doesn’t encourage aces to “compromise” in romantic relationships by agreeing to sex. My ace pride doesn’t present this “compromise” as something non-aces can reasonably expect or ask for from ace partners. My ace pride doesn’t prioritize the able-bodied, the romantic, or the sane.

featuresofinterest

it seems so strange to me that the only people it is socially acceptable to live with (once you reach a certain stage in life) are sexual partners? like why can’t i live with my best friend? why can’t i raise a child with them? why do i need to have sex with someone in order to live with them? why do we put certain relationships on a pedestal? why don’t we value non-sexual relationships enough? why do life partners always have to be sexual partners?

greenjudy

My grandmother and grandfather more or less adopted my grandmother’s best friend back in the 50s. After my grandfather died (before I was born, back in 1968 or so) they continued to keep house together, platonic best friends, and they hung together until they died, a few months apart, in 2007.

It’s quite recently, as far as I can tell, that living arrangements like that have stopped being regarded as normal.

deathcomes4u

It’s absolutely a new thing to find this stuff weird, and it has a lot to do with media pretending that the nuclear family and marriage are the only reasons to live with other people.

I’ve lived in a 3 adult household my whole life. My parents and their best friend. This was never weird to me, even though everyone my age thought it was because the media never portrayed these kinds of housing arrangements. As far as i was concerned, I just had an extra non-blood parent.

According to my parents, it was very common in the 70′s-80′s to buy houses with your friends, because it was financially smart to do so (so long as you were certain they were close friends who wouldn’t fall out with you and fuck everything up). Houses and house payments are much more manageable when you split the bills 3-4 ways instead of just two.

Millenials aren’t the first to think it’s a great idea to just shack up with friends. That’s housemating without the hastle of living with strangers. It’s still a good idea to shack up with people you’ve known a long time so you know how you’ll get on living together, but still. In the current economy, it’s pretty much now our only option for affording anything.

I think, and I’m not researched on this, but I think conservatives probably tried to suppress images of non-nuclear families because they likely thought it would encourage ideas of polygamy, polyamory, open sexual relationships with or without marriage, as well as other relationship types they thought of as un-christian or unsavoury. I could be wrong, but that shit wouldn’t surprise me.

(And i want to make a note that there’s also a disturbing amount of asexual denial around that makes people go ‘if they’re living together they HAVE to be banging because why wouldn’t they?’ and that shit both creeps me out and annoys me no end. People can be in relationships without sex. People can live together without sex. Sex is not the be-all and end-all and people being taught to think it is really need to stop).

Don’t let the media fool you into believing you can only live with a sexual partner or blood family. Someone somewhere has an agenda for making these seem abnormal, when really it’s just practical.

curlicuecal

A lot of people acted like it was super weird when two of my brothers decided to move states with me when I started my postdoc. I got really used to giving a little canned speech about it because it seemed to bewilder people so much. (Their leases happened to be up! We could share rent! They wanted to try somewhere new!)

The notable exception was my grandma, who was just like, “oh, yes, when we were young my sister and I decided to move cross-country together and it was lovely.”

More of this kind of thing for everyone, pls.

magickedteacup

The implication that close sibling relationships must also be a warning sign for incest also peeves me off; what kind of society are we living in anyway

ineptshieldmaid

#my mom’s a historian#does a lot of research#one of the main takeaways from the census data of literally every US census since the beginning#is that the nuclear family has never been the actual norm#nobody really ever lived like that#and a lot don’t now#and it’s clearly artificial and not ideal for most people#every household in the census had at least a grandma#usually a cousin#some rando#someone living in the house who wasn’t mom or dad or kid#always someone#usually several someones#some uncles etc.#unmarried aunties#that sort of person#but often unrelated friends#we’ve never really lived alone#that’s not how families work#that’s not how humans work

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solarcat

Having a multi-adult household unit also just makes a shit-ton of sense, tbh. Much easier to split not only the bills, but also the housework and child-rearing responsibilities. Communal living ftw.