Literal Trash Can.

Hey! Just a casual ace/aro person here to support other ace and aro spec people, and make my case for why we're included in the LGBTQIA+ community. Hope you enjoy yourself, and have a good day. (Call me Falco, he/him or they/them.) To the discoursers: If you tag more than one or two people on one of my posts, you and everyone you tag is getting blocked. I've got anxiety, and I rarely have the spoons to deal with that sort of thing.

[acepilotlombardi]

I've put this off for too long.

I'd like to give a proper apology for that post I made, you know the one. Nothing on my blog is getting deleted, in case someone wants receipts on me or some shit. The only reason it's taken me this long was because I knew that no matter what I say here, it will never be good enough for some people, and I'm not talking about the people that told me I was being racist and that I needed to stop in the first place. You guys were right, I fucked up, that post was about the single whitest thing I've ever done. I'm talking about the people who told me I should die for a post I made. What happened then has only just now stopped affecting me, and it was a while until I could safely say I wasn't suicidal. I'm sorry for making that post. I'm sorry for trying to defend it when I was clearly in the wrong. Y'all can say that sorry doesn't cut it or whatever, but this is what you asked for, and this is what I mean. I'm sorry.

[keebocourse]

don’t use gay, it’s a derogatory term that’s been used against us for years and still happens today!!! you can reclaim it for yourself, but there is no gay community because it’s a fucking slur, not an umbrella term.

[keebocourse]

teddyisabear said: I know this post is a joke but like you’re being really insensitive and ugly. Queer is a fucking slur and gay has never been a slur lmao get it together

have you perhaps been outside or at least in a public school or maybe looked at LGBT+ history

[crowslunasidhe]

growing up, gay was quite frequently used as an insult. Constantly used in a derogatory manner.

growing up, the word gay had negative connotations. Do I ask people to tag things as g sl*r? No, because that would be homophobic. So why the fuck is it okay for people to tag stuff as q sl*r?

[periegesisvoid-deactivated]

High school was a constant parade of people calling bad things “that’s so gay” meanwhile there were no publicly out students or any GSA type organization until after I graduated. But no one there was getting called queer as a slur, just gay. I recognize that use of negative meanings of queer is regional, but “that’s so gay” was pretty much universal for several years at least, in recent memory.

[wetwareproblem]

When I was in high school, I knew damn well who was gay or bi. But we literally didn’t dare utter the words. The only way I heard that word at all on school grounds was as a weapon, usually backed by a fist. But it’s never been a slur. Sure, kid.

[bemusedlybespectacled]

literally there were ad campaigns about using “gay” as a derogatory term. in 2008.

[acepilotlombardi]

The time I spent in public school taught me 6 neat ways to remember the formula for calculating speed, and that if you don't like someone, the first thing you do is call them gay.

[acepilotlombardi]

@teddyisabear Gay is literally a reclaimed slur. I'm not kidding, you can look it up. Gay is still used as a slur, today, even. Queer is virtually unused.

[sissy-butch]

This was a bad post so it’s my post now. Reblog with ur favorite kind of candy. Mine is sour patch kids and anything pink lemonade flavored

[cripplequeer]

aren’t you classy

[sissy-butch]

I haven’t heard of that candy

[acepilotlombardi]

Butterscotch, and also bothering to make an argument rather than pulling this shit.

[lesbianpeachs]

Oooo how bout a movie where only the white straight ppl die. Poc queer characters survive to the very end.

Bring it!!!!!!

[acepilotlombardi]

In the end, it's revealed that the killer was the real ally, rather than the straight white cis friends.

[acepilotlombardi]

Hey, I saw what's happening to you and I'm so sorry about that. I don't think you were completely right in that post, but one post is not a reason to bully someone into suicide. Please take care, and don't hurt yourself. Your life is precious.

Yeah, I absolutely wasn't in the right, but neither was fucking-deactivated.

[acepilotlombardi]

hey friend! have a great day!

!!! Thank

[acepilotlombardi]

A brief summary of my lovely encounter with fucking-deactivated

What I've learned about them -IP addresses are a foreign concept -So is human decency -Mostly annoying once I got on my meds -Definitely have enough info and cause to at least sue them, or convict them of cyberstalking (which does also cover harassment) given state law What they've done -Made at least two people suicidal -Proven that it's safer for everyone if they could find a good therapist -Have been a bad example of a human being overall -Made me concerned for what aliens will think of the species

[acepilotlombardi]

Hey please please don't kill yourself please there are so many people who care about you please don't do this for some fucking scumbags on this site please don't

It's cool. I'm mostly fine.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

“I accidentally made a vaguely racist post” This is why white people need to stop. The post was blatantly racist, and when people explained to you on multiple occasions with specific, explicit examples about how it was racist you backpedaled, deployed the EVER so common intellectual dishonesty, threatened suicide and played the victim. @acepilotlombardi

The old and tired innocent white person getting bullied for having an opinion archetype is getting real fucking old you ugly freak.

[acepilotlombardi]

It was an accident. Simple as that. You want to kill me? Do it yourself.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

Nah, your weak ass is gonna have to do what you promised, I’m not babying you through killing your racist self.

[acepilotlombardi]

Fuck no. You believe in your cause, do your own work. If this is really important to you, you’ll do it.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

Right so the racist is gonna decide what the guidelines for caring about racism are

Nah you can kill yourself though!

[acepilotlombardi]

Uh... no. I mean, you're the one who defined caring about racism as wanting to kill all racists. It's on you to actually follow through.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

“I accidentally made a vaguely racist post” This is why white people need to stop. The post was blatantly racist, and when people explained to you on multiple occasions with specific, explicit examples about how it was racist you backpedaled, deployed the EVER so common intellectual dishonesty, threatened suicide and played the victim. @acepilotlombardi

The old and tired innocent white person getting bullied for having an opinion archetype is getting real fucking old you ugly freak.

[acepilotlombardi]

It was an accident. Simple as that. You want to kill me? Do it yourself.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

Nah, your weak ass is gonna have to do what you promised, I’m not babying you through killing your racist self.

[acepilotlombardi]

Fuck no. You believe in your cause, do your own work. If this is really important to you, you'll do it.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

“I accidentally made a vaguely racist post” This is why white people need to stop. The post was blatantly racist, and when people explained to you on multiple occasions with specific, explicit examples about how it was racist you backpedaled, deployed the EVER so common intellectual dishonesty, threatened suicide and played the victim. @acepilotlombardi

The old and tired innocent white person getting bullied for having an opinion archetype is getting real fucking old you ugly freak.

[acepilotlombardi]

It was an accident. Simple as that. You want to kill me? Do it yourself.

[acepilotlombardi]

Threatening suicide over being called out on racism is like twelve to eighteen levels of irresponsible and bad and I think you should drink some orange juice and own up to it

I was actually planning on committing suicide, and I was planning on such because fucking-deactivated so kindly informed me that not only was I unloved and unwanted, but that I should kill myself.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

Trust me shithead, you caught me on a good day.

[fucking-deactivated-deactivated]

Oh and by the way, being blatantly racist makes you unloved and unwanted make no fucking mistake mate.

Millwall bricks were made for bashing in skulls of people like yourself.

[acepilotlombardi]

I made a single fucking mistake, and your immediate response was not to educate me, but to try to kill me? Look, asshole, you want me dead? Come fucking get me. You can PM me. I'll give you everything but home address. I bet your mom'll be real pleased with you.

[acepilotlombardi]

Threatening suicide over being called out on racism is like twelve to eighteen levels of irresponsible and bad and I think you should drink some orange juice and own up to it

I was actually planning on committing suicide, and I was planning on such because fucking-deactivated so kindly informed me that not only was I unloved and unwanted, but that I should kill myself.

[acepilotlombardi]

I have compiled a list of reasons to live. -I still haven't played Rhythm Heaven -Star Fox Zero exists -Neil Breen is making a new movie -My AO3 shitpost just got popular (it's called Gore Boys, TW for body horror and all that entails) -My mom is a super nice person and I don't want to hurt her -there's more stuff but excuse me I have to bask in my new fame And here are reasons I shouldn't live: -I accidentally made a vaguely racist post Death is cancelled.

[falco-lombardis-guyliner]

Keep reading

[acepilotlombardi]

Please don't. Let's only give them the satisfaction of one life taken.

[acepilotlombardi]

I didn't fucking need this. I so didn't fucking need this tonight. I got home from an appointment with a therapist more focused on "fixing" my orientation than helping with trauma recover to like 10 suicide baits. I cannot fucking believe this.