The absolute relief when a loved one helps you remove your armor. Not in a sexy way, noāyouāre sweaty and exhausted and covered in bruises, and you feel instant relief when the pauldrons are lifted off your shoulders. You donāt have to worry about keeping track of the various pieces, because theyāre already being lovingly wiped down and put safely away while you unlace your boots. The weight on your shoulders is replaced by a gentle touch, reminding you that someone is proud of you, and youāre safe to rest now.