He/none // <18 // Physically disabled, neurodivergent (All diagnosed) // Nonverbal , fulltime AAC user Blog not catered to <16 // No DNI, I don't use discourse terms // Sideblog, main: @loveelikeadog IC: Syllogical // Banner: Me :) [Profile picture ID: A bust shot of a demon coloured pink with heart glasses and grinning. /End ID] [Banner ID: Two people holding a banner flag, one is White with long hair as well as dog & whale shark features while the other is Black with short hair. The banner flag is the transgender blue, pink, and white flag with "T4T" written in bold, purple letters. The background is pink. /End ID]
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Soma, <18, he pronouns or no pronouns
White, disabled, queer. Nonverbal always, fulltime AAC user
My blog is a sideblog. My main is @loveelikeadog (for fandom).
My blog isn't catered to those under 16, but you can still follow if you are 15 or under. I post/rb sex ed & suggestive (not fully/heavily NSFW) posts sometimes
No DNI, however I have types of people I block on sight.
I am a leftist. I am pro Black Lives Matter, pro Land Back, pro Stop Asian Hate, and more. I am anti ableism, racism, queerphobia, & more. I am anti MAGA. I am pro Sudan, Ukraine, Palestine, Congo, & more.
I try to make My posts accessible. Posts tagged #no id don't have an image description.
You don't need to know My specific disabilities, however I do post about them somewhat often. If you're that curious, go look.
I don't care about nor do I have the energy for shipcourse, syscourse, queercourse, etc. Don't ask Me about it. (Radqueers are blocked.)
I am anti-psychiatry, anti-harassment, and anti-censorship.
Do not forget about Palestinians on this Eid, do not forget about Gaza, do not forget about the lives taken and homes destroyed, do not forget about the joy and life so cruelly snatched from them.
Eid means to us what Christmas means to most of you. And they're spending it digging through rubble and locating bodies to burry.
They have no chocolates, no new clothes to wear, no homes to decorate, they lost loved ones which would gather together, no Eidi to give to children to make them happy, no mehndi, no jewelery, no new toys.
Do not forget about Palestine.
Keep boycotting for them, keep protesting for them, keep donating to the families through the link tree, keep buying e-sims for them, keep sharing the truth, keep exposing Israel for their consistent humanitarian crimes.
Remember the Palestinians, especially today, on Eid, an occasion of joy.
May Allah make it joyous for them after everything they had suffered, may they be free from the Zionist occupation and genocide
Please do not ignore the exploitation and genocide that are taking place and consider helping two people who are from Democratic Republic of Congo and Sudan!
Eman (@emiiii980) is from Sudan! She is raising funds to rebuild her home, support her relatives, and help multiple families! Her fundraiser has been shared by @/el-shab-hussein here. [A friendly reminder to keep in mind with the currency exchange! $10 USD = $13 CAD!].
Please donate here.
Barnabé is a student from DR Congo and he has kidney failure! He is in dire need for a transplant! I've contributed €10, but you're more than welcome to give any amount! His fundraiser is legitimate! It has been set up by Agissons Ensemble, a grassroots organization in Goma, DR Congo. They provide aid and support to displaced families on the ground. Check out their link.tree!
Please donate here.
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btw i want to say that the entire tumblr community banding together is what got these changes reversed so i hope u all realise the power of a reblog and start reblogging posts instead of just liking them this is the reblog website so hit that button right now
White people are a privileged class. They would rather tear the world apart than ever share that power equitably. That's why they ignored BIPOC issues until it affected them. Concentration camps are nothing, especially for profit: Their problem is it happens to them.
Anyway, daily reminder from a culturally isolated Romani person.
Gypsy does not mean wanderer.
It literally means ‘people from egypt’ or similar, as europeans believed Romani people were from Egypt. It has become known similar to nomad due to how our ancestors have been forced to be nomadic due to racism and ostracization, but it is a SLUR.
Romani people are STILL being forcibly sterilized.
Romani people are STILL being forced into ghettos.
Romani people are still facing violence and danger in countless European countries- and recently, I’ve seen the beginnings of the extremes in the United States.
Have a little fucking respect and DON’T USE A SLUR THAT’S BEEN USED FOR CENTURIES AGAINST US.
And for the love of whatever’s up there, ESPECIALLY do not use it to describe your witchcraft. It is playing on the ‘magic gypsy’ trope, and is EXTREMELY insulting.
"support all queer people yes even Those ones!!!!' coming from white ppl has always been annoying to me becuz theres countless examples of white queers on here being blatantly racist and it gets swept under the rug and forgotten in a week and black queers like me are just supposed to let it slide becuz theyre trans or gay or bi or have bpd or depression or
so annoying that in 2026 mono queer people will still try to justify hating polyamorous people on poly-positive posts by randomly bringing up how badly they were abused and traumatized by a poly ex. which is genuinely awful so not to sound callous but when i’m like ‘stop hating on poly people for no reason’ and ten people are like ‘uh my poly ex abused me!’ i’m like okay. good point. i forgot that monogamous relationships are inherently and historically safe and free of abuse. can you imagine if domestic abuse happened in monogamous relationships? that would be so scary…
hey boy don't kill yourself. green's dictionary of slang is available online and allows you to explore 500 years of english vulgarity. you can search by part of speech, source, time period, etymology, and usage. there's a whole category for gay slang. they even have specific citations listed so you can see the exact context for yourself. boy did you know that in 1927 "to kneel at the altar" was slang for "to sodomize"
Princess: an effeminate and relatively youthful male homosexual or lesbian (1931-4)
Daffodil: effeminate young man (1925)
To throw a fuck into: to have sex with (1919)
Top sergeant: a masculine lesbian (1939) [‘she takes command of the girls’ privates’]
Lily: penis (1919)
Wolf: sexually aggressive man (1847); a homosexual top (1918)
Soul kiss: a deep kiss, involving putting one’s tongue into one’s partner’s mouth (1907)
Tom: a lesbian (1909); [in 'old tom'] prostitute catering to lesbians (1966)
Church mouse: a male homosexual who frequents crowded churches in order to fondle any potential sex partners. (1941)
Discover one's gender: to accept or acknowledge one’s homosexuality (1941) / Lose one's gender: To return to living as a heterosexual
Minty: a masculine lesbian (1941)
Also a lot of early 20th century vulgarity is recorded in Letter from My Father, which is a collection of letters published by a man who's dad was, in short, a major slut and human disaster who wrote about his sex life for his son. It's insane. You can find copies of it online & it's a wild fucking read (literally!) and I think a really interesting look at the life of a person who goes against our stereotypes of what people in the past were "supposed" to be like.
Anyways feel free to add y'all's favs to this post. & if you use this for gay historical fanfic please share with the class
#OH THIS IS EXTREMELY EXTREMELY HELPFUL#writing#resources#saving for later#maybe i should move my 1920s story from '25 to '27 because..... bro..........
note for writers: these are dated to the first time they were recorded, not necessarily to their first use. I imagine for many of these, they came about naturally through spoken language before they were written down anywhere. This is especially true of more underground slang because it's probably being recorded (in ways we still have) the least. So if you wanna use a term but it's a little off date-wise, give yourself some wiggle room.
also gonna take this moment to highlight two more i found recently:
Best boy: a sweetheart, a boyfriend, a husband. (1893) [w the obvious equivalent term 'best girl']
Honeydripper or honeydrips: a sexual partner (1917)
Like. Honeydripper?????? That's so horny I can't stop thinking about it. We need to bring THAT back
I will not forgive or excuse anyone who sees this post and ignores it without even helping by sharing it. I am facing a real danger because of severe anemia that is exhausting my body and causing frequent dizziness and fainting.
Doctors recommended that I follow a specific diet to help my body fight this illness, but sadly I cannot afford it due to the high prices and the closure of the crossings. Every day I feel helpless as my health continues to worsen.
On the heels of my poll that had tumblr showing as 76% White, I’d like to tell y’all about the BIPOC Attention Tax.
The BIPOC Attention Tax is the penalty that non-white folks pay in engagement for being non-white on social media sites...
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The BIPOC Attention Tax fucks up all BIPOC, but it fucks up trans BIPOC in particular due to being multiply marginalized. It’s the penalty you pay in engagement for being non-white on social media, taken in less shares/visibility.
While the BIPOC Attention Tax affects most BIPOC, it affects SWers, content creators, and those who rely on mutual aid the most. You have to share our stuff more than you think. You have to reply to us more than you think. It’s in how we watch smaller white accounts double our size in no time at all but if our accounts show any sign of being BIPOC we lag behind.
We’re societally conditioned to pay more attention to the thin, white, conventionally attractive folks and amplify them. While this ain’t their fault, it does mean *you* need to put active effort into subverting that urge and be conscious of who/how you’re interacting with.
Don’t just like posts from BIPOC folks, stop worrying about your “profile aesthetic”, sharing a post literally takes 3 seconds and especially in the case of SW and MA can literally keep folks housed, fed, alive. Our content, our art, our lives and survival fucking matter.
White trans folks have more options to leverage their whiteness to escape the states criminalizing transition, medical care, existing in public while trans. Not only do TBIPOC suffer the effects of poverty more/worse, but the BIPOC Attention Tax makes crowdfunding/mutual aid much harder as well.
Even in terms of just bullshit discourse, TBIPOC will often get higher rates of harassment at lower follower counts than their white counterparts, without the “benefits” of easier/more successful SW or MA that come at the higher follower counts, increasing the toll for staying.
Many of the white folks I see on social media (including tumblr), especially white trans folks, will have one or two token BIPOC moots they keep around because they’re hot or funny, and otherwise have no BIPOCs in their groups, networks, etc.
Ask yourself, how many BIPOC folks would call YOU their friend?
I know shit is hard right now and we wanna escape and pretend things ain’t happening but the longer we do that, the more of us die or disappear without anyone knowing or noticing. But we can at least be more intentional in who we engage with and support, even if it’s just sharing/boosting.
I wish people didn't find it funny when AAC users misspeak but don't find it funny when speaking people misspeak
Why is it specifically funny to you when we point at the wrong thing or press the wrong thing then say "I misspoke and did not mean to say that". Why is that so funny to you compared to speaking people getting their words mixed up and say "I misspoke and did not mean to say that". Do you view us as a joke?
