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If you need advice on any issues big or small, PM a message and I'll get back to you.

[amargedom]

[radicalgraff]

“If you promise to stay alive just a little bit longer I promise that we are going to make this world a place worth living in by any means necessary. I ain’t giving up. I swear.” 

Spotted in Clackamas, Oregon

[lotsarecoverymemes]

[softheartttt]

Guys, please be there for eachother okay?

Please, don't forget to check in with everyone.

Get into conversations, remind them the times when you had fun with them.

Send memes or a very old picture to someone to lighten up their day.

Stay calm and collected.

I know its difficult, believe me I know. But please have love, respect faith and kindness in you heart.

Help in whatever way you can either by donating or by just spreading positivity and happiness.

Always remember that there is so much love in this world. So so much love, that can absorb you whole.

I just wanted you to know this. I love you.

Take care my loves💗

[timbllr]

[adviiceandstuff]

This isn’t a question, but I just wanted to say that your posts are really well-meaning and lovely. I’m sure that your kindness is something that lots of people appreciate. I wish you the very best and I hope you stay strong and wonderful and keep doing your best!

Thank you! I do have many blogs so I wonder which blog your referring to as I haven’t posted here in a while. But I’m happy you like the blog :)

[becausebirds]

[marcitlali]

this made me so happy lol

[adviiceandstuff]

Something to relax you. :')

[novice-heartbreaker-deactivated]

You really are 💕

[givenwings]

[adviiceandstuff]

[boots]

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[adviiceandstuff]

I was so sad to read about the really nasty things listeners have said on blah therapy. I hope that anyone who gets that kind of response tries to connect with someone else because it could be really dispiriting to end your chat on that kind of note. I have been a listener on there before and it BLOWS MY MIND that anyone would be a listener and be anything other than considerate, respectful and kind.

I agree completely! Thank you for your response :) I really don't know why people do that but I guess it's because they know the venter is vulnerable. Luckily I wasn't that hurt by it but it still was disappointing to find out the listener wasnt genuine. I prefer blah therapy to 7cups of tea but sometimes the blah therapy experience has been bad. Anyway thank you for your message and being a considerate listener ;)

[in-my-hanging-basket-deactivate]

i know it sounds insensitive, but im on blahtherapy and sometimes its hard to take the person seriously when they have a chat name like luxuriant beef or slightly-impressionable jeans. 

[thebigpotatoqueen]

BlahTherapy and 7CupsofTea are amazing 

[adviiceandstuff]

So I tried out blahtherapy today as a venter. This is the response I got from a listener. I told the listener I didn't like the mentioning of "freak from fight club" as that's not helpful at all. Especially if another venter was in vulnerable position or place. Yes even though I wasn't so vulnerable it still wasn't very pleasant to here. They then responded with disgusting remarks like in the second picture. I appreciate and support 100% the idea of blahtherapy but sometimes the listeners are seriously awful. I tried listening a few times, and I'm not a professional but I try to at least help in a way that I can. It might not be the best advice but I would never offend someone, or write nasty things like this. I think the site needs to clear out some of these people. If there was a rating service it might be helpful in this situation. Like was this listener helpful, yes or no ? And if the listener gets more than 10 nos then they are banned from being a listener..? Anyway I just thought id post my experience.. And maybe other experiences to come..

[hi-aj-deac]

Leave, if you're unhappy,

[adviiceandstuff]

Don’t hurt yourself over someone that simply doesn’t treat you right. Don’t stay in a relationship/friendship when all you do is cry yourself to sleep. Stop letting the other person point out your mistakes and blame everything on you. You deserve so much better, someone that understands you. Someone that accepts you and your mistakes and is patient with you through everything. Someone that truly loves you and shows you that.