here i talk about myself, reblog funny things, and the occasional sh posting. so there may be some triggering posts on my blog ! proceed with caution <3
credit for divider goes to @cursed-carmine!
more about me below the cut ....
i am 18 years old !
i am queer. my identity is confusing, but i use she/it pronouns and feminine terms only.
i am radically inclusive and anti-harassment. i am pro-para, pro self-dx, pro sw, anti-ai, and other stuff. i don't associate with the proship community but i believe in anti-censorship for ALL dark fiction no matter what.
i have hpd, audhd, dpdr, ocd, fibromyalgia, and more. i am also a paraphile (one of the big 3) but strictly anti-contact !
my special interest is psychology. i also love mouthwashing, ninjago, tawog, bluey, demon slayer, my chemical romance, babymetal, twenty one pilots, and many more !
i am very friendly ! please feel free to dm me or ask to be moots <3
Questioning hpd culture is liking when people you don't care about talk shit about you because it's attention but the minute someone you like criticizes you the world has to end
hpd culture is hating couples with a burning passion for having love, flirting with everyone, then feeling NOTHING when someone actually likes you for once 😭
hpd culture is also feeling like a fraud for hating negative attention
Honestly the fact that so few folks can actually express why pedophilia and bestiality are harmful is extremelt worrying. "Because theyre attracted to kids/animals" thats weird, sure, but theres nothing genuinely morally wrong with that. You cannot control what you are attracted to, so it cannot be morally wrong. "Because sex with kids/animals" close! Can you express WHY thats wrong? <- and this is where I lost 70% of people because they just go 'its gross' or 'theyre kids/animals'. Which is not why it is wrong.it is wrong because kids and theriform animals CANNOT CONSENT. It is wrong because having sex with an animal or child, no matter what, is ALWAYS rape or sexual assault. It is wrong because sexual assault is wrong. Yes, you may think it is gross or abhorrent or disgusting, but dont you dare get your feelings mixed up with reality. It is not wrong because its gross to you, it is wrong because its rape.
This also ties into the weird 'discourse' with therian sexuality and animal packers. Ive never understood it because like. Its not rape. Its all consentual. The problem isnt 'oh no, an animal is doing something sexual', its that it is rape.
hpd culture is never being able to form your own opinions because you always want to draw from other people. and even if you do form an opinion, it's so simple to change it when you hear another person's strong opinion. at this point i hardly even know where i stand with some issues.