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they/it/xe or pix , adult [Header ID: New disability pride flag. Grey background with diagonal lines. Lines are green , blue , white , yellow , red End ID] [Icon ID: Stylized picrew of pale person with long red hair. Wearing green dino hoodie. Have ear defenders , 2 chewelry necklace , wheelchair , and AAC tablet. Background is green with dino pattern. End ID.]

[p1xelpc]

Name: pixel / pix

Pronoun: they/it/xe or pix

Age: adult

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Context:

mid-high support need nonverbal autistic.

multiple disable ; affect mobility , cognitive , emotions , communication , energy , more.

AAC full time. majority time wheelchair , part time forearm crutches.

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Interacting:

please keep interactions in plain language and plain format or provide

ask anything okay , will tell if not want answer. will always keep asks and anon on. do not post chain mail or hate. responses may be delay for any reason , can send again or ask if went through.

if reblogs are on , can reblog. can tag pix in posts. not need be mutuals.

do not " translate " pix word unless specify okay. do not comment on writing , even if positive. if confused about something that pix say , feel free ask.

tone tag appreciate , spell out if possible. example: /genuine instead of /gen

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Accessibility and Tagging:

try to add or find media description when possible. try to tag for described image / audio / video or not.

try to add or find plain text when possible. try to tag for plain text or not.

try to trigger tag original posts for sexual assault , abuse , specific bigotries ( ableism , ageism , misogyny , antisemitism , homophobia , transphobia are ones usually relevant ) , hospital , vomit , needle. will not tag for symptoms , aids , or support needs ( i.e. seizures , diapers , help shower ). format will be " tw [word] "

will always tag flash as " flash warning " and eye strain as " eye strain ".

please let know if miss anything. please let know if need something make accessible will try best. please feel free ask for anything else tagged even if think too specific.

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DNI:

do not interact from blogs focused on self harm , eating disorder , unreality , dreamcore , traumacore , similar posts. will block others as need.

this not because think those bad , just cause stress. if not able tell if fit can ask and pix will have someone look at blog to check.

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Icon:

lillycrew

helloo :0) here is a picrew i made! it's pretty rad, so if you dig the art in this, feel free to follow my instagram @itslillyillustrates! (

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

Reminder that tumblr keeps banning trans women's accounts for no reason and actively stated that.

Reminder that this is not about a single event, this is a repetitive pattern that happens *regardless* of if the trans women's blogs violate tumblr's guidelines or not.

Reminder that if it's only trans women calling this out, tumblr has an easier time covering it up because they just ban them.

Reminder that you've got to speak up against this bullshit now, that you've got to be loud, that you've got to support trans women because the places where they can speak are dwindling.

Reminder that pride includes trans women and you cant celebrate pride while ignoring the way trans women are getting silenced.

Reminder that we've got to help each other. It's pride month. Transphobes keep getting platformed and able to keep saying every hateful stuff they want. Help the community any way you can. Be loudly supportive to trans women and loudly against this discriminatory moderation

[marxist--lesbianist]

Homelessness is state violence. The state is capable of ensuring universal housing, and actively chooses not to. Any decision made by the state that materially harms its people is violence.

[disabled-dyke]

i’ve seen some people (both on here and ig) minimizing ME/CFS like it’s no big deal (like how fibromyalgia was and still is treated) and if you think that, sincerely fuck off. and to do that during ME/CFS awareness month? cruel. after a man with very severe ME/CFS DIED? horrid.

ME/CFS is an extremely debilitating systemic disease with lethal potential. pwME have an extremely low quality of life and no approved treatments. the majority of people never recover.

take it seriously. this isn’t the “i’m tired” disease.

[disabled-dyke]

tag transcription: #saw someone call it “very treatable recently #like what planet do you live on /End

this was one of the things i had in mind when i made this post. i would LOVE to live on whatever planet where it’s ‘very treatable’. instead i’m being evaluated for palliative care. it’s such a punch in the gut.

i’m used to doctors and abled people not caring about ME, but seeing other disabled people not take it seriously is disheartening.

the ME awareness slogan being Millions Missing, 25% of pwME being severe-very severe, mild ME being a 50% reduction in function, that sure implies ‘very treatable’ i guess. /sarcasm

[comicallyqueer]

Some people in my position just go by "Queer" which I think is cool as well. It works great because it's a pretty wide umbrella term. I think I would call myself generally queer as well in terms of who I'm attracted to.

To be clear: I do have a label for my gender- just not for who I'm attracted to.

Also, if an unlabeled person DOESN'T define themselves as queer, that's cool too! It's up to the individual and their comfort.

[sakana-no-yama]

[this-is-trans-joy]

everyone loves to hate terfs until they realise that it actually entails rejecting bioessentialism entirely and then suddenly you’re “taking things too seriously” and you “don’t have a sense of humour” like i’m sorry but saying protect the dolls doesn’t make you immune to terfism it has seeped into every corner of mainstream feminism and unless you’re actively searching it out and checking your own biases you will always be at risk of sharing a space with terfs

[this-is-trans-joy]

“Only women can—” nope. “But all men—” nah. “The divine femininity of—” gonna stop you right there. “Everyone born ama—” if you finish that sentence I’ll kill you. “Men don’t experience—” you’re wrong. “Gender isn’t real but sex is imm—” *loud incorrect buzzer*

It also goes without saying that bioessentialism inherently can’t be trans inclusive no matter how hard you try. “All men including trans men—” probably not. “This is only a woman’s issue—” is it really? “Afabs only—” why? “All trans men are like—” what? what are they like? finish the sentence i dare you.

[agressivelyaro]

everyone get more normal about casual sex right now. it's not morally wrong. sexual attraction is not evil. take a deep breath

[differentlylimbed]

"why don't you just walk" my braces cause muscle atrophy and crutches do not

"why don't you just walk" wearing braces in the heat is barely tolerable

"why don't you just walk" because i'm in a rush and i'm twice as slow when walking unaided

"why don't you just walk" because crutches let me pass off my disability as a temporary injury, whereas unaided i am very obviously congenitally disabled and experience far more ableism

"why don't you just walk" because if i don't take breaks i will lose most of my existing function in both my legs

"why don't you just walk" because i'm going shopping/to a museum/catching a train and i cannot stand for more than 3 minutes without my legs giving way

"why don't you just walk" because i'm fucking tired

this post is about limb difference do not derail

[asexual-amanita]

Happy pride month! Please remember to include disabled people in your festivities this year! This includes:

- Hiring sign language interpreters

- Ensuring venues are step free

- Making dedicated sensory safe spaces

- Providing free masks

- Including braille or audio described signage

- Using plain language in speeches

Yes it’s more work, but pride is for everyone, it’s needs to be inclusive.

[asexual-amanita]

Also, if you are a non-disabled person reading this, please help advocate for accessibility. It gets tiring being the only person fighting for basic access rights.

[mini-wrants]

The thing that’s always missing from the “women didn’t fight for the right to work they were already working they fought to get paid” is that many women also very much wanted to work.

Women wanted to be lawyers and engineers and chemists. They wanted to use their brains in challenging and interesting ways. They wanted to get the satisfaction from solving problems and inventing new shit and getting attention for it.

I know not everyone is born with intellectual curiosity or drive or determination but some people are and many of those people are women.

[mini-wrants]

[mini-wrants]

Literally.

[sapphireh3arts]

i know folks are gonna call me a pedo for this one, but i grew up seeing my mom and grandma naked. they had health issues and at times needed care and help showering. and i truly think more kids need to be shown the nonsexual reality of naked women at a young age. there is nothing sexual about my grandmothers breasts, they were simply body parts. more women die of heart attacks because people are too afraid of breasts to do real chest compressions, because they are scared to touch their breasts. the sexualization of our bodies literally kills us. i need people to be more normal about naked bodies and i'm 100% serious.

[scarsofmybliss]

I grew up around naked old people who weren't even my family! Gasp! And it was a good thing. I grew up around old-school hippies at a place called Lothlorien (in Indiana) and one of my friends dads held a sauna day every Sunday in the middle of the woods (like you cannot drive to their house, you park about a quarter mile away and walk into the woods kind of woods). All day random old people came to get naked, high (pot), and sweaty. Just random old peen and boobs swaying with the leaves. No big deal. These are things that I believe made me more at home in my body, made me more excited about aging, made me more willing to fight for my security and safety.

[dee-the-red-witch]

Bodies are just bodies. Nothing sacred and nothing inherently shameful or sinful either. The fact that we still can't get that through everyone in however many years it's been is just fucking idiotic.

[this-is-trans-joy]

shoutout to black trans people!!!

black trans men don’t ever cut your hair just because someone said you need to to ‘pass’

black trans women dont ever let racists make you believe you aren’t feminine enough just because you’re black

black enbys dont ever be discouraged by the fact that most androgynous rep is skinny white/east asian people. you are valid and gorgeous

This is trans joy!!!

[wizardarchetypes]

i think avoidance is such a little-recognized ocd compulsion. all the time i talk to people with ocd who are like "i was always having intrusive thoughts about using kitchen knives and harming myself or others but i'm okay now because i just stopped using knives ever 👍 so i'm good now"

and i'm like unfortunately i have bad news.

[wizardarchetypes]

if you don't know why this doesn't work, the issue is that ocd never stops when you implement a compulsion. it evolves. today you've "solved" it by never using a knife again (and losing access to an important cooking tool, thus limiting an aspect of your life) but in a few months or a year it'll be that forks are dangerous too. and hey, isn't it risky to use the stove? avoidance will even begin to manifest in places you might not recognize.

the point is that OCD compulsions are never solutions, they're actually the problems. the intrusive thoughts SEEM like the problem and the compulsions FEEL like the solution. and that's how it getsya.

[thedreamthieves]

i think one of the worst things the left wing internet ever did was push the idea that oppression is basically a virtue, and being oppressed is a sign of your morality. it has made it like…impossible for some of you to hold the idea that most people are privileged in some ways and oppressed in others. AND a lot of you seem to have it in your mind that terrible people cannot be oppressed, and that oppressed people cannot do terrible things, which is a dangerous rhetoric to hold imo.

[hellish-undeath]

disabled people who do not directly "contribute" to society and need large amounts of care and resources to survive deserve not only to survive but to have comfort, stability, and fun within their lives while they do. no compromises.

[asexual-amanita]

Happy pride month! Please remember to include disabled people in your festivities this year! This includes:

- Hiring sign language interpreters

- Ensuring venues are step free

- Making dedicated sensory safe spaces

- Providing free masks

- Including braille or audio described signage

- Using plain language in speeches

Yes it’s more work, but pride is for everyone, it’s needs to be inclusive.