Wrigglin’ By

I’m not real and neither are you

[ysolt]

if pjackk can return from the dead then maybe there is hope for us all

[ysolt]

[corrucyst]

got bad news.

[ysolt]

[orteil42]

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

[a-cipher]

anon I want you to know that I am always thinking about this

[thickness-protection-program]

Unpopular opinion I support men in skinny jeans. You claim to love men dressing slutty and this man is showing you the whole form and curvature of his lady lumps ready to be peeled out like an unripe banana and you hate?? Fake fans all around me

[parakeet]

#MyCoin

[dragon-in-a-fez]

little kids are extremely correct when they go apeshit over seeing a Big Machine Doing Its Job

[recoveredcombatsister]

happy fucking pride month we should never have ceded to let drag queens speak for trans women

[recoveredcombatsister]

actually if she is speaking as a drag queen before a trans woman she does not have my respect

[valdis-kobold]

YES, THIS. As a transwoman, it has been a massive pain that they are just lumped into the same category as us. I don't even feel represented at pride events because drag queens are seen as the "more acceptable" one of the two for the public view/corporate shilling. People talk to me as if all trans women are just performers, and so they think bringing up "ru paul drag whatever the fuck" is how they can show they are an "ally" or connect with me socially.

While my brothers and sisters are being murdered and legislated in a genocide, folks are like "oh, you're a **t-slur**? I love the drag race show, you should go to **insert pride event** they have your kind performing as the main act"

Motherfucker, a gay guy in a ton of makeup, dressing up in over exagerated womens styling does not fucking represent me. It's in part why the far right thinks we look like what they think we look like. Drag is constantly used to pull us transwomen down.

And before someone attacks me, for soeaking about how something affects transwomen or makes it about themselves: YES, I know drag folks do charity work and advocacy, and not all are a gay guy, and all that. I don't have a problem with any specific performer, I'm sure the content is fine. I'm just entirely turned off of and dissinterested in it because of how sick I am of being spoken over by or earased for drag queens. I WISH I could feel like I'm a part of pride, instead of a refugee who had to flee their home trying to survive and escape those who assaulted me, who keeps running into LGB minus the T spaces.

DRAG. QUEENS/KINGS. DO. NOT. SPEAK. FOR. TRANS. FOLKS.

Happy pride I fuckin guess. Don't forget us.

[zhenya-grey]

Transfem is not the same as trans woman.

Transmasc is not the same as trans man.

[zhenya-grey]

transmasc and transfem are not catch-all terms.

They aren't umbrella terms.

[zhenya-grey]

I'm actually starting to lose my mind about this because I keep seeing it, it's so widespread now and I feel so bad for nonbinary people whose term was basically stolen to mean the entire trans community = transmasc and transfem, not to mention the audacity to leave out nonbinary in nearly every conversation using these terms too.

This of course does also affect intersex people but we all know y'all don't care about us except when it's convenient to use us as a token.

Ugh whatever I'm trying not to be angry actually

[zhenya-grey]

Transfem and transmasc are not shorthand for trans woman and trans man.

[zhenya-grey]

Happy pride to nonbinary specifically and let's get better at not abusing their terms.

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

I'm not mourning my teenage years because i falsely believe all girls have a magical adolescence I'm fucking mourning it because i didn't get to be a real person. I'm really fucking glad you can talk about how being a teenager wasn't perfect, i didn't exist.

[satanstrousers]

The thing no one tells you about achieving the dream of being a regular at a restaurant to the point where they know your order is that you're just locked into that order forever lest they start assuming you want some variety in your life.

[problemsynth]

[chustlingbungus]

Its just like marx said, they want to extract our amazing digital surplus.

[holespoles]

Haruka Kawakami

A cat trying its best despite its limitations ↔ A tired cat

かわかみはるか

出来ないなりに頑張る猫⇔疲れた猫

[mysharona1987]

[stoptheantisemitism]

Reminder that the NYT is trash and complicit in the genocide of Palestinians

[anistarrose]

if you are a parent, or may become one, or you are otherwise likely to arrive in the situation of caring for a child while they eat, promise me this: if a child doesn't like a certain food or food group, you will ask them WHY. and specifically, you will pay attention to either confirming or ruling out "it makes my mouth itch" or "it makes my stomach hurt," both of which are medically important info that children may not provide unprompted. which i know because this PSA has been brought to you by "i spent my entire childhood and much of my early teens eating peas and lentils while wondering why everyone else liked the Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation so much, like were they a bunch of legume masochists or something, before i finally realized that Violently Itchy Mouth Sensation was in fact a sinister demon appearing only to me, and her true demonic name was: Legume Allergy"

[fuck-customers]

[quantumshade]

also can’t get over that guy who said he WOULD just identify as a straight trans man but he doesn’t like straight women/thinks straight dating is “icky” so he identifies as a lesbian so he can date lesbians. how am i supposed to react to a guy saying that with his whole chest. what am i supposed to say to that

[mousidy]

man with a transphobic definition of lesbianism is transmisogynistic. more at 11