aheartwithmanygenders

A microblog about contemporary interpersonal/relational psychoanalysis and related musings...

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‏ما كان مقدرا لك سيأتيك ولو كان بين جبلين، وما لم يكن مقدرا لك لن يأتيك ولو كان بين شفتيك What is meant for you, will reach you even if it is beneath two mountains. What isn’t meant for you, won’t reach you even if it is between your two lips.

(via sexual-feelings)

#destiny #will #conflict #grief #loss # fate #choice #acceptance #lettinggo # unknown #unconscious

[sh-02]

[dionysusbeauty]

Arab Women Artists: Suhair Sibai - Syria

[advntra]

[andyvantino]

Jouissance can be a protection against hardship. Pleasure in suffering is all too often the unsatisfying-yet-satisfying answer to the question of being.

(via andre-vantino)

[onewinged-sephiroth]

Catwoman black & white by Adam Hughes

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[aheartwithmanygenders]

That’s why he can desire women he doesn’t love, so as to get back to the virile position he suspends when he loves. Freud called this principle the ‘debasement of love life’ in men: the split between love and sexual desire.

Jacques-Alain Miller: On Love

[slavojquotes]

The effort to control sexuality sexualizes this controlling activity itself. ..Sacrifice of sexuality sexualizes sacrifice itself.

(via slavoj--zizek)

[andyvantino]

Seeing your shrink is a way of coming ‘to terms with’ your complexes rather than an attempt to eradicate these complexes, Freud says.

(via andre-vantino)

[aheartwithmanygenders]

When you are curious you learn, when you are desperate you discover.

Gurpreet awakeningwithgurpreet.com

[aheartwithmanygenders]

If you don't lose "your ways" you cannot be in what is Higher within you because "my way" is always holding comfort and security. That is why from your own heart you open to lose, from your side, "your ways," so you can surrender yourself to this.

Gurpreet

[aheartwithmanygenders]

Dissociation is the deletion of imagination.

Donnel B. Stern (via aheartwithmanygenders)

[thecalminside]

And people get all fouled up because they want the world to have meaning as if it were words… As if you had a meaning, as if you were a mere word, as if you were something that could be looked up in a dictionary. You are meaning.

Alan Watts (via madseoulchild)

[aheartwithmanygenders]

If you are not lost, you cannot be found. Lostness is not a disease, it's a cure.

Gurpreet awakeningwithgurpreet.com

[wavemotions]

[aheartwithmanygenders]

#love

[bookowlnews]

isn’t desire always the same, whether the object is present or absent? Isn’t the object always absent?

Roland Barthes - echoing Lacan (via alterities)

#absence #lack #Lacan #Barthes