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@ahp-discourse
I HEAR THOSE SLEIGH BELLS JINGLING
RING TING TINGLING TOOOOOOOOOOOOO
COME ON IT’S LOVELY WEATHER
FOR A SLEIGH RIDE TOGETHER WITH YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
IT’S STARTED
IT’S BEEN NOVEMBER JUST FOR FEW HOURS YOU ANIMALS
IM SAVING THIS IN MY FUCKKING QUEUE AND EVERY FUCKING NOVEMBER AT 12:00 AM IM FUCKING POSTING THIS
IT’S GONNA BE MAY
that time of the year again
tomorrow
Always reblog NSYNC the day before May
Queueing this for next year
Happy April 28th
I have been waiting all year to post this.
omg
This has been in my queue for months.
I missed it last year and I vowed that would NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.
omg i didnt reblog this last year!
TOMORROW IS HALLOWEEN!!!
Tomorrow is March 28th
TODAY IT’S A GREAT DAY BECAUSE IT’S MARCH 15th THE DAY WHEN DENZEL CROCKER LOST HIS HAPPINESS AND IT’S ALSO ANNOY SQUIDWARD DAY
It’s also the day Marty McFly’s dad is murdered in the bad timeline
wow this is just a bad date in fiction
It’s the fucking Ides of March people. Todays the day Julius Caesar was stabbed like 23 times
42 times
beware the ides of march, thot
wuss poppin, 🅱RUTUS
happy Galentine’s Day!
bringing back for 2017!
2018!
2019!
I always have to start the New Years with this picture.
This is the new discourse blog; Send any comments, complaints, concerns, etc. over there. This blog shall remain up as an archive of sorts.
I’m baaaack (Kind of)
Since during my self-imposed exodus from discourse I discovered that I have a distinct lack of self control, I’m throwing myself back into this nightmare - but there will be a few changes.
I’m not going to be AHP-discourse anymore.
I’m going to leave this blog and the posts on it as an archive, of sorts. I don’t regret the things I’ve said or done thus far, but I also want to start fresh with a new blog. Now, I’ll be over at bi-on-main (yes, I know the person running that blog - and yes, she’s fine with me taking the URL). I’ll be sharing a link after this post.
I’m done being nice to people who have no intention of being nice back.
I hate the phrase “No more ms. nice girl” because I’m generally not all that nice of a person - but I have had it with being polite to people who are only looking for an argument. Too often, inclusionists are expected to bite their tongues and offer only civil debate while we have our identities invalidated or our very existence debated. No more. If you’re going to be an argument seeking prick, that’s exactly what you’ll be getting in return.
Hate Anons will be answered with ridiculous gifs
Don’t expect me to take you or your argument seriously if you can’t even have enough dignity to put your name/face next to your hateful opinion.
it's kinda ridiculous that you're blaming ari @traggotry for simply interacting with a post that included ableist language when all blogs that deal with bigotry have to discuss or interact with such language. ari didn't say that comment and didn't endorse it. ari's outspoken against ableism so why does this one instance where she didn't make her a bad person?
didn’t endorse it? she reblogged it in full agreement lmaooo this “one instance” was someone saying something disgustingly ableist and her agreeing and acting like it was a sick burn. £50 and my right lung says she never actually apologised directly to the person on the receiving end of that comment or directly confronted the person who said it…
Yeah, @fuck-cistrenders - I am the person that the ableist comment was about and no, the apology was never made to me nor did they ever confront the person who made it. In fact, dozens of inclusionists had approached them directly after they reblogged the post - and traggotry only “apologized” after someone on the exclusionist side of things told them how shitty it was.
To @crowlore - They didn’t just interact with the post, like a reblog without having paid attention. They added gifs and tags that insinuated that they agreed and thought it was fucking hilarious and only when fellow exclusionists called it out did they realize “Oh shit, I’ve fucked up - Let me flip this around so I am the victim somehow”. I was harassed for WEEKS after that fucking reblog.
To date, this and the one of them saying they were sorry for reblogging uncritically are the only “apologies” I’ve seen from them (and it wasn’t made to me directly)
Here’s another ask that someone sent them (that they posted and laughed about), accusing me of faking being disabled for discourse points (and to address the “there’s nothing stopping her from seeking treatment”, I was actively trying to get back into counseling. I lived in a small town where my options for counselors specializing in agoraphobia were incredibly limited; Medications have been proven to not work for me)
So you’ll forgive me if I don’t believe a word of their “anti-ableism” bullshit when they openly reblogged shit like this for WEEKS and only stopped when I blocked them and they started to catch flack from other exclusionists.
I’m coming back long enough to address this bullshit that has apparently decided to circle around again:
First of all, my name is “Debi” - not debbie, not debie, not deby. I’ve told you this a dozen times; Quit being a fucking asshole for the sake of being a fucking asshole.
Second of all, I AM disabled BECAUSE of my agoraphobia. I am about 110% over you being a fucking douchewad who refuses to acknowledge that there are forms of disability that are NOT physical. Agoraphobia prevents me from leaving the house to earn a living, attend medical appointments, etc. Working from home isn’t always fucking feasible so maybe take two goddamned seconds to realize that you’re fucking wrong instead of doubling down on your never-ending ignorance of life outside of your little bubble of devoted followers.
Third, you apologized ONCE - and it wasn’t for reblogging the post in the first place, it was for doing so “uncritically”. That apology? It was never made to me, the person the post was fucking made about, the person who was told that I would be crushed by the cogs of capitalism, which would be it’s only success. Instead, I got to spend the weeks following being harassed on a regular basis and called a “Fucking freak” for being offended about it. You don’t have to like me, but you have to at least have enough brain cells to recognize that that was an incredibly fucked up line of thought to perpetuate.
Fourth and finally, I’m glad that you can continue to brush it off as “Oh, it was so long ago” - but for people like me, those who are disabled by invisible illnesses, it is our daily reality. We don’t just get to laugh it all off and move on with our lives. The dangerous stereotypes of “Oh, you’re not REALLY disabled” is something we have to fight against every. single. day. So maybe to you, this is all said and done - but for us, this is our daily reality.
So here’s the deal...
I’m unhappy.
I know, I know - this is a coffin of my own making. I created this hellhole by getting involved with discourse in the first place, made it worse by STAYING involved for as long as I have been and not heeding the warnings of those who told me that I needed to focus on my life offline as much as I was worried about the one online.
Discourse was never fun, was never something that I did because it entertained or amused me; It was something that I felt like I needed to do. Sure, I was a “baby bi” when I first got involved, but I felt like I owed it to those younger than me, those in a worse mental position than I was in, to stand up and fight for aces/aros right to be respected. I would absorb some of the bullshit that exclusionists were slinging gleefully in an attempt to protect those who weren’t as sure of their identity and would have crumbled under the constant harassment, death threats, etc.
Somewhere along the way, it stopped being about that. It stopped being about one side arguing for inclusion and another arguing for exclusion - and instead became pissing matches of who is oppressed worse, to the point of attacking people for no other reason than because you could.
When you stop disagreeing with people because you don’t like their principles and instead attack them for their age or choice in URL, it stops being discourse - and moves right into the category of bullshit.
The bullied became bullies - and that is NOT okay.
My mental health deteriorated a little more with each shitstorm. My entire life started to revolved around discourse, when I could log on to check the bullshit, when I could reply to the latest screenshot of bullshit.
That’s not healthy.
For my own sake, I’m taking a hiatus from discourse.
I know, there’s an exclusionist somewhere, going to chime in with some hate-filled rhetoric or a message of “Who gives a fuck??? Who even are you?? #go outside”. Y’all can think whatever you want. At the end of the day, no one’s opinions are going to change. Inclusionists will always think Aces/Aros should be a part of the LGBT+ community, and Exclusionists will always disagree. Their target may change - sure, it’s aces and aros now, but who’s to say that tomorrow they won’t circle back around to Bi people or Trans people? - but the core line of thought remains the same.
I’ll leave the blog up, since I know a lot of people use it for resources or receipts of bullshit. Feel free to continue to do so. Since the ‘actualhumanpotato’ personal blog is a sideblog to this account, I will also be leaving it behind - I’ll now be over at “actualdisasterbi” if you need to reach me for whatever reason.
I truly wish you all the best.
Here’s to a powerful 20gayteen, 20biteen, and beyond
-Debi a.k.a. actualhumanpotato, ahp-discourse
Me: I think minors need to quit saying shit like “what WE’VE done” as most of the work was done long before they arrived
Exclusionist: pretty bold words coming from someone who doesn’t even go outside.
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Are exclusionists ever going to come up with a different defense other than to resort to mocking my very real disability?
someone went OFF in a server I’m in and dropped like 8000 paragraphs of why the SAM model is bad and watching everyone freak out over it is the greatest comedy film of our generation
Gosh what a silly thing to go and get mad about, huh guys
Man - How fuckin’ dare a group of people get offended and angry over being compared to life-ruining pedophiles! They should definitely just be appreciative, amirite? /s
I hope that exclusionists know that when they compare aces to pedophiles, they’re inevitably comparing any and all asexual csa survivors (such as myself) to pedophiles as well.
But that seems to be part of the “comedy” to you, so I don’t know why I was expecting you to see the wrong in someone saying/doing that.
@sick-of-aphobes - I asked them that once only for the exclusionist to say “Well, csa survivors can be pedophiles too, what’s your point?” as some sort of defense.
