#gayhets

[selenefemme]

whats happened to ari

I cant find her blog anywhere I thought she probably changed urls again but I think she’s acc gone ???????

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Y'all, please never make fun of someone by crytyping whatever they've said to mock them. Not only is it ableist, it's just straight up bullying.

This shit is not okay. However, I'm not surprised based on who it's coming from...

[ahp-discourse]

I’m coming back long enough to address this bullshit that has apparently decided to circle around again:

First of all, my name is “Debi” - not debbie, not debie, not deby.  I’ve told you this a dozen times; Quit being a fucking asshole for the sake of being a fucking asshole.

Second of all, I AM disabled BECAUSE of my agoraphobia.  I am about 110% over you being a fucking douchewad who refuses to acknowledge that there are forms of disability that are NOT physical.  Agoraphobia prevents me from leaving the house to earn a living, attend medical appointments, etc.   Working from home isn’t always fucking feasible so maybe take two goddamned seconds to realize that you’re fucking wrong instead of doubling down on your never-ending ignorance of life outside of your little bubble of devoted followers.

Third, you apologized ONCE - and it wasn’t for reblogging the post in the first place, it was for doing so “uncritically”.  That apology? It was never made to me, the person the post was fucking made about, the person who was told that I would be crushed by the cogs of capitalism, which would be it’s only success.  Instead, I got to spend the weeks following being harassed on a regular basis and called a “Fucking freak” for being offended about it.  You don’t have to like me, but you have to at least have enough brain cells to recognize that that was an incredibly fucked up line of thought to perpetuate.

Fourth and finally, I’m glad that you can continue to brush it off as “Oh, it was so long ago” - but for people like me, those who are disabled by invisible illnesses, it is our daily reality.  We don’t just get to laugh it all off and move on with our lives.  The dangerous stereotypes of “Oh, you’re not REALLY disabled” is something we have to fight against every. single. day.     So maybe to you, this is all said and done - but for us, this is our daily reality.  

[itched]

Hey it’s @estradiol lol I got sniped by staff for hate speech

press F to pay respects

[flower-lesbienne]

Yknow I’m genuinely sorry that I misgendered gayhets before, I didn’t know at first that I had and was irrited when they didn’t even tell me before accusing me of transphobia but I realise now there was no excuse for not apologising after they did tell me

So I doubt gayhets will ever see this but if they do, I’m sorry i misgendered you, I’m trying to be better and I do make inexcusable mistakes sometimes but the least I can do is apologise

[ahp-discourse]

In case anyone needs further proof of how garbage and ableist some bigger name exclusionists are, so that they can finally be no-platformed:

The worst part?

Even though that person literally called a disabled person a “useless member of society” and said “the cogs of capitalism will crush you and it will be its only success”, not one single exclusionist will call that shit out.  

[ahp-discourse]

That moment when @gayhets/@miss-ogny tries to pretend they are outraged by ableism and that they weren’t ableist as fuck about my agoraphobia, going so far as to reblog a post that essentially called me a useless human being that would be crushed by the cogs of capitalism (and that THAT would be capitalism’s only success)

They apologized for reblogging the post uncritically......but only after catching shit from a popular exclusionist and not when dozens of inclusionists told them the exact same thing, that it was super fucked up - and never directly to me (in fact, they went right back to insulting me over things like my age or URL)

You’ll forgive me if I don’t buy a word of this faux outrage

[ahp-discourse]

I am amazed that I can point out the bullshit arguments that exclusionists use against inclusionists that apparently don’t apply to them, get called a “turbo virgin” and it somehow circles back to being my fault due to my age. 

Y’all exclusionists really need to get a grip.