Aiden Reborn

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I’m writing this on June 8, 2026 at 2am.

At first I had considered deleting my old blog @aiden-is-caged or pausing it. I considered continuing my story on that blog.

But in the end, I decided the BEST way forward was to leave it up, and continue my story on another blog. This one.

I will summarize the entirety of the other blog, in case you are unfamiliar: I was in crisis. I longed to be a sub. My husband had tried for our entire marriage to be a bossy dom top & it was never enough.

We entered an open marriage. Everything we did with others was online.

I cycled through Doms until I met S. S gave me a lot of pleasure serving him. And gave me not one, but three chances. The final chance ended just last night at Midnite when I resigned.

You see, to get my final chance I had agreed to basically make my husband a cuck. He had to ask permission to have sex with me from S. He agreed.

But five days later, he began drinking, getting a little buzzed after midnight. He was horny. He wanted me. I was flattered but I fended him off.

The next morning (yesterday morning), I went to the gym & near the end of my workout he began to text me, upset. Gone was the horny, fun personality from the night before.

This led to an in person argument. We argued for hours. Picture a heated discussion. Not shouting, not yelling. We’ve been married 12 years. We love each other.

I decided to wrap it up, pause it for then, and go to the store. As I got ready he got a text. You see, he was an apps looking for a Dom of his own. He had been for months to years. He couldn’t find the right one.

He had never done anything in person. He had never gotten to experience submission. The text was from another dead end. A “scammer”, as he put it.

As I headed out the door I heard him sobbing. I made it out the door and halfway to my car before I thought, “fuck this”…I turned around and went back in. He was crying, peeing. He came out and I hugged him tightly. He was hurting.

This was not manipulation by him to make me stop being a sub, or anything else. Suddenly I saw, this was a man who was hurting differently from me our entire marriage.

Suddenly I saw it. I took him to the bed in the guest room. I held him as he cried and cried. Finally when he stopped we talked. We talked for hours and hours.

Our entire marriage he had tried to be a Dom, was bossy, tried to please me in that way & I, bastard that I was, told him it wasn’t enough.

Suddenly we both saw I was meant to be his Dom, and in the way he needed. Not strict. Not crazy with rules. But softly. Firm maybe. But gentle as well. He had ached to be a sub and the reason he could never find the right one was he wanted me. I realized it. That’s why. He wanted me. He could never find anyone quite like me.

And I realized that my feeling of being wanted in a sub role was misguided. Here I had a man willing to submit fully to me and want me in a Dom role.

Shortly after, I fitted him with his first hard plastic cock cage. I was so proud. He looked so good in it. I had him order groceries while I went out and got him lunch.

Suddenly this was all so clear. Yes, I had been in crisis for about two years since leaving the military, searching for a new purpose. And I suddenly saw that I could serve a million men like Master key, Jay, S, etc…. And it would never ever compare to turning my husband into my sub, my boi, and someday perhaps my slave.

We ate. He waited on me. I told him that everytime he stood up and went to the kitchen he should always ask me if I needed anything. He did it everytime flawlessly.

We watched a movie. I have separate thoughts about that.

I made him a list of, not rules, but expectations. About seven I think. I wrote them down in a purple book and set it near the TV. I told him he could reference it over and over this week.

Amongst the expectations are, he will never ever cum without my permission and he will strive to wear his cage as much as possible. His first goal is one week of continuous wear. I put his spare key in a box. He can use it if he needs to, but I told him he should put it right back on again as soon as he can. I taught him about ring sizes, straps, lotion, etc… he learned to urinate sitting down.

Which I found intensely hot.

He is expected to call me sir or daddy, and always speak to me in a soft respectful manner.

Him being bossy all these years? A cover. For a man who longed to serve. To have his husband, his man, put him in his place.

I told him he has to give up some things. He cannot speak to me any way he likes, he will not boss me, he will only be respectful & will ask me. He began shockingly immediately. Asking me if it was okay if he stayed up after I went to bed for instance.

He is expected to look for a sub collar he likes and a leash and then show me for my approval.

He is expected to write out his diet plan and exercise plan he wants me to enforce.

I’m sure there are some more but the purple book is in the living room and I am not.

He needed me to be his man and his Dom all these years. So much emotional lifting he has done and all for me. This is my purpose. To make him into the sub boi he is meant to be.

He is snoring next to me now. Sleeping in his cock cage for the first time. I told him learning to sleep in it is hard. He’s been up a few times. But I’m so proud of him. And so horny. I’ve cuddled him back to sleep, telling him “Daddy’s here. I’m so proud of you boi”.

Earlier at one moment he had kissed me, a little kiss. For now, he is not forbidden from just touching on me or kissing me. He cannot reach for my crotch without permission. He kissed me and then I broke it and pushed him to the wall. I stood on my toes a bit (he is taller) & held his head and hair firmly and I tongue fucked his little hot mouth. He loved it. He whimpered like such a sweet sexy boi.

I’ve made him hard in his cage over and over and he loves it.

Around midnight, I knew what I had to do. I got up and I texted S, resigning for the last time. I’ve wasted enough of his time. I removed my cage & my chain lock.

I felt peace I have not felt in years & years.

I love my husband but I was so blind to the reality of what was going on the entire time.

My photo of me….naked and caged on my knees in the hotel room during our anniversary that so many people shared and liked…it should have been him this whole time.

He does want me. Badly. With an intense need. But as a Master.

I think I have the exact vibe of what he needs pretty much down. I’ll still have to learn & research. It feels good. It feels peaceful. He’s going to learn to do so many things. Things he never imagined he would do to see how it pleases me. He already knows this. He has specific kinks or scenes that he wants too and I told him those would be rewards.

He is excited to really live this dynamic as a sub for the first real time. He understands it is real & it is 24/7 and that the scenes for him are a reward and a deeper expression of that.

There are reasons for him being like this, but I will leave that for him to explain someday if he wants to. I want to take care of him, protect him, and do filthy sweet horny things to him. Make him beg to do them for me.

He can be really finicky about what he likes but I am certain I just need patience & a gentle touch rather than a rough strict “fake” persona.

Imagining him begging to suck the sweat from my socks, as one teeny tiny example, makes me so horny & even the idea that he would say it, beg, and try, for me…makes me happier than serving a Dom a thousand times over.

I’m so proud of him for admitting what he needs & letting me have the chance to turn him into my slave someday.

Yesterday began with us being closer than we’ve ever been to calling it quits and ended with him snoring peacefully with his boi cock caged where it belongs & me so excited I have barely slept a wink.

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YESTERDAY I gave the bunny boi his first scene. He wrote it out & sent it to me & I performed it. I think I did good & he was the perfect little sub.

I locked him in chastity as part of the scene but he did have to take the cage off again later at night…a pinching issue….but I’m still gently pushing him to wear it more & more. (Not THAT cage if it pinches of course…just A CAGE) The dynamic of a sub top & dom bottom is very under-represented but I admit when he’s being a submissive & sweet boi, he makes me hard as a rock.

After the scene yesterday, he was showering & I busted in on him and pissed all over his legs & he didn’t say a word.

I have another similar cage arriving today or tomorrow & I know we are going to find the right one for him to spend all his time in it.

Even thinking about him being my perfect little trophy husband top bunny boi gets me so horny. Sex is now one of two things: either I basically take it from him because his cock is my toy to use OR I’m not letting him get any ass until he behaves. It’s up to me & he knows it.

I appreciate how much he stays in character at my request, calling me Daddy and Sir in text all day & then at home.

I can also see that it’s not totally just “pretending” I mean both of us are deeply kinky, it just took…over a decade…(lol)…to make it match up. It’s our real personalities, just magnified.

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So today was my AHA moment.

“A-ha!”

Lots of y’all that read this are going to say “yeah no shit”

Or you may be in one camp or the other.

But it clicked today that me and my hubby think about D/s completely differently and we ALWAYS have.

ME: I prefer kind of a “one time” negotiation. At first. Hard limits got it. And after that, anything is on the table. It’s to make it feel as real as possible, it’s a 24/7 version of CNC. And not just CNC in the context of sex itself. Whatever the Dom says, you do, unless you have a DAMN good reason. Otherwise get the fuck out. Quit. Get lost.

HIM: the 24/7 vibe is light, sweet. He brings me food, a beer. He rubs my feet. But the real meat and potatoes is SCENES which he loves to plan & negotiate down to the Nth degree. He tells me the character, the details, step by step.

And for a long long time this irritated the ever loving shit out of me when I tried to be his Dom.

So then I gave up and he decided to try being the dom for years and obviously since we have different ways of looking at this, I didn’t like that either.

That’s what led to the open marriage.

But while I easily found one Dom after the other because I just want to do what I’m told, he needs somebody who has the right look, can do stuff IRL & is patient enough to negotiate all this stuff.

I’m the only one who fits that bill.

So here’s the deal: since my overall underlying kink is I wanna please, and his (I think) is getting that feeling of being a good sub for the horniness and orgasm, it’s actually a match.

So I realized today he does not want me to BE his dom. He needs me, his husband that he thinks is hot, to ACT like a Dom.

And there is a difference.

There are a few things I want to carry over in between scenes and he has agreed, which gives me even more of what I want which is that it’s all the time…he speaks respectfully to me, he wears his cage, and in general I can ask him to bring me beer, rub my feet, etc…

PLEASE remember, he is BRAND NEW!! He’s never gotten to really be able to get into this, never gotten the chance, and honestly, he’s killing it.

You should see how fucking cute he looks in the cage I have him in.

HIM: “I kind of didn’t want pink”

ME: (truthfully) “it looks fucking amazing on you. It’s perfect”

HIM: it feels too small!!

ME: it’s not. It’s perfect.

(Like bro you are talking to someone who has worn cages for a decade, I have like twenty of them. It’s not too fucking small)

So this begins my dom bottom era I guess. I’m psyched honestly. This little bunny boi is so fucking cute. God I’m glad he’s my husband. Little bitch bunny boi. Heh heh.

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My husband, who I’m naming my Bunny Boi, made it through the night in his cage. He had to take it off finally at around 9am. Tomorrow I’m having him put it back on.

He’s definitely already doing that new sub thing where he wants to cum early, not wear the cage as often, etc…but it’s understandable. He’s still being very very good.

He sucked my cock, kissed my feet, cleaned up after dinner, etc…

It’s a slow but fun process and I know he’s going to learn his place. He never forgets to call me Sir & he asks my permission for many things.

I told him that my long term dream is we will move to another country, live on my pension, and he will be my slave everyday.

He has some idea but not then full picture of what a full TPE slave relationship is, but he’s doing really good.

I’m building it based on his feedback, and as he consents to things in general.

We practice a sort of BSDM where there is a good amount of negotiation but overall, he is supposed to do things I ask him to unless he has a good enough reason not to. And the idea, for both of us, is you slowly condition somebody that they will not say no.

Fortunately for him, I’m not particularly sadistic. I find most pleasure in sexy, kinky things and then getting him to do humiliating things which I find adorable. Putting my socks in his mouth, licking my feet, staying naked, etc….

But he is brand new so it has to be piece by piece. A lot of stuff you read on Tumblr is super hot but not realistic at all. This isn’t trapping someone in my dungeon for the rest of their life. This is training your spouse to be infinitely submissive & training them to see to your needs first, and the reason is that it brings you both pleasure to do that.

And not just horny, physical pleasure, but something very satisfying about controlling someone and being controlled. Being told exactly what to do. When you are told to do it.

It won’t be long until he is caged for weeks and weeks at a time & begs to be degraded, I can see it in his adorable little eyes.

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Thoughts on the movie “Pillion”

Pillion, the movie from A24 a year ago, is finally available to stream on HBO.

It depicts one type of gay D/s relationship.

First of all, I’m sure to some people it is great just for the representation. To see that kind of lifestyle. In one scene, a man is wearing a chastity device. Which may be the first time one has been blatantly seen in a regular movie. I don’t know.

However, for folks who are very into the version of BDSM where you negotiate everything out, go over safewords, kinks & limits, the movie doesn’t have that & so it is not a depiction of that type of BDSM world.

The movie is based on a book called “Box Hill” that I have read and it is no surprise that the book is far better. The book ALSO does not contain negotiated BDSM at all, but it does show one type of relationship where one is in charge, and one is submitting, and they are both getting something from that.

The book is far more bittersweet & to be honest, I hated the way the movie changed literally every scene it took from the book & I hated the scenes the movie adds.

The book is so much more fulfilling, because you can see inside the protagonist’s head. The sub. He never knew he liked this & he found that he absolutely loved it. He loved being treated that way & worshipping the ground his Dom walked on.

His Dom took great pleasure in the relationship as well & the book hints that the Dom loved the sub. It is very clear the sub falls in love with the Dom, which is portrayed well on screen.

I think both actors did a great job with the script they were given. I take issue with the way they tweaked Ray’s persona from the book to the movie. In the book he is portrayed as far more happy go lucky, rowdy, dashing. In the movie they decided to make him stoic & at times, cold. I think this is a huge disservice because you cannot really see why the sub would fall in love with him.

They do not portray Ray (the Dom) as someone who has intensely taking a liking to the shy Collin & taken him under his wing as a sub, not just to control him but to protect him & at times, be his best friend.

It is my biggest complaint from the film. To be fair, the movie does give Ray his moments of playfulness & boisterousness, but they are so infrequent Vs the book version.

One reason among many that that is bad is because, hey, we’re talking about representation here. To be a dom you do not need to be cold, harsh, stoic or stunning. Sure you can be. But it’s not needed.

I do like that they kept the part of Ray’s personality where he is patient, and I liked that they kept that Ray didn’t need to explain things in detail. There was no list of rules or protocols. He simply told Collin one by one as it came up the things that Collin would do. And Collin did them. Simple as that.

The book is a bittersweet exploration of what it means to discover you are a submissive & to ache and yearn for that.

Highly recommend the book. The movie is…well…I guess you can’t have everything. At least we have some depiction of what one type of D/s male relationship looks like in a mainstream release.