No use in waiting for people to apologize, particularly people who broke your heart. It might never come. Invest in your own future. These things you have control over, focus on those.
There are good men, there are bad men, there are neutral men. Neutral men are just as bad as bad men. Neutral men who do absolutely nothing are also called emotionally neglectful men.
Don’t try to change people, this one is hard to follow.
Sometimes (much of the time), silence or giving no answer, is truly the best answer
Don’t be so quick to reveal yourself. This doesn’t mean you should be cynical to the point of expecting everyone to betray you. It means that not everyone deserves to know you because some people will be careless with your heart.
You like neutral emotionally neglectful men, this is because your parents were emotionally neglectful and it ignites buried trauma
It’s okay to not know what you want to do in life. It’s okay to take your time to figure it out. Although the years seem to start flying by quicker, you suspect life might be kind of long
Life is seasons, ups and downs, the highs they come and go, but luckily so do the downs. Learn patience.
This year has been very tough but you have learned to be less anxious when confronting matters in complicated spaces your voice is slowly becoming more firm as you growing into your voice.
You are slowly starting to seek less external validation from the outside world.
Don’t second guess yourself so much just because you don’t feel accepted by or because you feel judged by a particular group of people.
Being your most truest self is the only way you will succeed. Utilize your uniqueness. This is what a lot of artists you admire do.
Be good to your girl friends. Pay attention to who show up for you in your bad moments, who is attentive to what you need and understands who you are without judgment. These will be the friends you will keep for life.
Be more upfront about what you want. Even if you’re not sure how you feel or what you want, be more in tune with what makes you feel bad, you have found yourself in a lot of painful situations because you didn’t listen closely enough to what made you hurt.