Gorg.

Greek. 221B Baker St. Quintis. #HTGAWM

[daily-spooky]

[catchymemes]

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[daily-spooky]

[jofish42]

[walkingthec0w]

tumblr is only for people who r weird and a bit lonely and had a strange interest when they were 12 that led them here. if none of those apply to you like genuinely what is there for you here

[ashstfu]

aside from being a sentimental piece of shit who can’t put her life together i’m normal

[borderlinereminders]

Learn to say “can you love me a bit harder today? It’s a rough day” and then explain how you want to be loved harder.

Learn to say “I could use some support. Are you able to provide some? This is how you can support me -“

Learn to say “I feel lonely. Are you able to keep me company?”

Learn to say “I’m feeling overwhelmed. Can I talk to you about it?”

Do this instead of dropping hints or expecting someone to be able to read you. What may be obvious to you isn’t necessarily obvious to someone else. You’re often hurting your own feelings by not communicating your needs and just hoping people meet them anyways.

I know this is easier said than done. We often drop hints because we feel ashamed or bad about asking for help. But the truth is, for most of our loved ones, us hinting at things is exhausting. It can also set them up for failure because they don’t know your expectations. Sometimes they miss hints but sometimes they ignore them because it’s more draining when they aren’t asked directly. It’s very likely your loved one would appreciate you being direct.

People often want to support and help you, but a lot of them like to be told how they can do that.

[ainaaaaah]

Inside the Mind of a Self-Proclaimed Workaholic

I am a workaholic. I currently have 1 full time job and 3 part time jobs. I am also currently finishing my Master's degree. And I am an active volunteer in my local church as well.

I am a workaholic, and welcome to my mind.

Madami akong mga nakakakwentuhang young professionals na pagod na pagod sa pagttrabaho nila. Yung literal na nasusuka na sa ginagawa nila dahil sa pagka burnout. Yung mga taong kung pwede lang istretch ang weekend ng ilang oras, gagawin, kasi doon lang sila nagiging masaya. Yung iba, hindi naman burnt out sa trabaho, pero enduring lang, ganun.

Iilan lang yata kaming makakapagsabing masaya ako kapag nagttrabaho. Masaya ako kapag marami akong ginagawa. Kapag at the end of the day, pagod na pagod ako physically dahil sa pagttrabaho, doon din ako pinaka satisfied emotionally. Excited ako kapag nag-Momonday. Nakalatag na kung anong gusto kong mga tasks na iaccomplish. May kasama pang tulak ng Vietnamese coffee kaya ganadong ganado. Looking forward ako sa pagcheck ng mga to-do lists ko. Minsan hindi ko namanalayan sa office, 3pm na pala, doon palang ako maglulunch break. Pagdating ng hapon, lalo na kung mas ganado ako than usual, okay lang sakin mag OT at maiwan magisa sa office. Everytime na matatapos ang araw at hihiga ako para matulog, ang dami kong naiisip na gusto ko pang gawin bago ako tuluyang antukin.

Sabi ng iba, kaya siguro ako masaya sa pagttrabaho eh dahil passion ko kung anong ginagawa ko. Pero mali sila. Ang passion ko ay clinical psychology. Although nagtuturo ako ng psych, hindi pa ako practicing sa clinic kasi wala pa akong license. Nagttrabaho ako bilang HR sa driving school namin. Although kaskasera ako, hindi ko masasabing passion ko ang driving school. Hahaha.

Yung iba naman, sabi nila kaya daw ako workaholic eh dahil bata pa ako. Hindi naman na ako ganun kabata, at so far habang tumatanda ako, parang di pa naman nababawasan yung energy ko. Actually nadagdagan pa nga. Habang lumalawak yung alam ko, marami pa akong ibang nadidiscover na pwede pang gawin.

Yung iba, akala nila kaya ako workaholic, kasi akala nila malaki ang sweldo ko. Malaki din pagkakamali niyo. Hahahaha. Sa katunayan nagkaroon ako ng salary increase this year sa isa sa mga trabaho ko, alam nyo kung magkano? Php8. Oo, otso. Mahal pa sa pamasahe sa jeep.

Siguro ganun lang talaga winire yung utak ko. Gusto ko paspasan kapag nagttrabaho. Naiinis nga ako pag meron akong kausap na dangbagal magsalita (sorry 😂) kasi ayoko ng nasasayang ang oras ko. Hindi rin ako madaling malito. Kaya ko magasikaso ng ilang bagay sabay sabay. Actually habang nagttrabaho sa dalawang screen ng computer, nakikinig pa ako ng documentary. Lol. Mabilis din akong magtrabaho at magdesisyon. Siguro dahil matalino ako? Di pagyayabang yan, facts lang, 154 ang IQ ko eh (LOL w/ explanation pa); tapos ISTJ pa personality type ko so very go-getter. Sabi ko nga sa jowa ko, ayoko muna mag anak agad kasi marami pa akong to do list hihi

Ayun lang. Sinulat ko to kasi eto na naman, patulog nako pero may gusto pa akong gawin 😂 Tsaka iniisip ko, sino pa kaya ibang ganito?

[loverstateofmind]

Going from one song to the next on Divide

[eds-castle]

THESE ARE SO ACCURATE LIKE MY FEELINGS ARE SCATTERED I CANT GATHER THEM

[cottagecori]

oh man this tea is delicious

[transcalebmichaels]

[a picture of a clear teacup filled with tea. On the cup it reads “the only way to keep theatre alive and relevant in pop culture is to make it more accessible”]

[teenagerposts]

Am I the only one whose internet addiction started with my parents not letting me fucking go anywhere

[microweave]

kid: hey can i go outside and exercise and make some friends

parents: no

kid: okay then

kid: *relies on the internet for literally all social interaction and entertainment because there’s nothing else to do in the house*

parents: get off your phone. youre on the internet too much. you’re addicted. it’s unhealthy. children shouldnt be doing this. why dont you have any friends

[captainofgay-deactivated2018070]

Ah look it’s a summary of our entire generation

[a-redharlequin]

That’s EXACTLY how it started for me

[morganyx]

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[peytonfulford]

[crucefix]

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire // JK Rowling

[poems-and-word]

Poems & Words

[whoisshe777]

[asillyandrandomname]