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thoughts are things. if you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hands.

this is how I went from 10-20k a month to easily 50k+ a month. be careful who you listen to. form your own thoughts and intentions. write it down, and focus on it. relaxed. feel the feeling of accomplishing what you want.

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films you learned flirting from?

Miranda (1948)

Mad About Men (1954)

I included the YouTube links so you can watch on your own time but Miranda is the first movie, it’s lovely and in black and white and Mad about Men is the sequel and it’s in technicolour. They’re two of my favourites and I joke that Miranda Trewella taught me all I needed to know about flirting with men and being a coquette. I’ve always been in love with MGM and both of these lovely films show off Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer perfectly.

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Seduction Tips & Guidelines

  Find Your Seduction Type

THE SIREN

As the Sex Siren (my personal favorite), you represent the highly sexual male fantasy. You are extremely confident and lure your prey in, adding a hint of danger to your aura. The best target for this type are the masculine men. However, it is not strictly limited to them. 

Make yourself stand out from other women. By having a highly feminine and sexual presence, you will already distinguish yourself from others that lack the confidence to project this image. 

Must have the quality to make men attracted to you and have a hint of danger. To attract men, you must have a sexual presence about you, but not so much that you seem like a hoe. You must seem distant and elusive to them so they want to chase you (and they will if you have the right qualities). Create the danger by changing your moods frequently and keeping him off balance. 

Most important to this seduction type are the physical traits: your scent, makeup, clothes. IMPORTANT: it is absolutely not necessary to have a beautiful face/body. A Siren has a combined set of qualities that lure their victims in. 

Here are the qualities you must have as this type:

Voice: Think erotic and sultry. This means lower that voice and slow your speech down. Make it subtle, though! 

Body and Decorating: Basically don’t be afraid to show off your best assets. If you’re bigger in the chest department, wear tighter or lower cut shirts to accentuate them. If you got a big booty, wear some leggings or jeans with a shirt that doesn’t cover it. Do your hair nice, wear jewelry in good taste, wear feminine clothes. Just take care of your body. Working out and having good hygiene doesn’t hurt either!

Movement and Behavior: Think gracefully and suggestively. Your goal is to appear as if you’re floating across a room. Head up high, shoulders, back, do not look at the ground EVER. Your presence is one of confidence and nonchalance. 

Being a Siren is all about contradictions

Stir up sexual desire without being obvious.

Have your gestures seem innocent while also erotic.

“The song of the Siren is liquid and enticing, and the Siren herself is fluid and ungraspable. Like the sea, the Siren lures you with the promise of infinite adventure and pleasure. Forgetting past and future, men follow her far out to sea, where they drown.“

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Marilyn Monroe:

💕 dream girl 💕

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If You're A SB/Hypergamous Woman Looking For A Good Read

I *HIGHLY* recommend reading 'Memoirs of A Geisha'.

I just can't state enough how it's basically a study guide for any woman looking to use what she has naturally in order to level up and get into the good graces of men in high places and getting them to sponsor her own dreams and luxurious lifestyle.

Themes that really stuck out to me personally where items like:

* how to be seductive while being subtle

*the art of conversation

*etiquette for being in public as well as in private

*the art of being humorous without being vulgar

*appealing to men's (albeit sensitive) egos

*learning how to walk and talk

*how to capture men's attention by just using your eyes

*the art of music and dance

*the art of remaining intelligent without letting on just how much you really know

*how to be entertaining while in mixed company

This novel is definitely in the category of "Must Haves" for high value and hypergamous women. I've read a few books about the art of sugaring how to marry up and such but. . .I didn't find any of them as helpful nor as entertaining as MOAG. It's also a good read for ladies like myself who have a fascination with Japanese culture and customs (both past and present).

Feel free to check out the film as well. I remember I watched it years ago when it first came out but I personally prefer the book.

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Working on being not just a black woman living her very best life but also limiting people’s access to me and my space

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Baddie Essentials: Maintaining Femininity

A few simple ways to stay girly and cute even on your bummy days!🧚🏽‍♀️

Lipgloss/ lipliner - I keep both on me at all times! Lipgloss goes with every look and I always keep a brown liner on me as well.

Perfume - Invest in a good perfume, preferably one you can buy over and over to get that signature scent! A good tip is to buy a lotion with the same smell or one with a compatible scent i.e. coco butter and a vanilla scented perfume. (If you wanna be extra get a body wash of the same scent too)

Jewellery - Jewellery makes any outfit!Don’t leave ur house without earrings and add some simple chains, I like to layer a variety of dainty chains. Also hoops give any outfit even bummy ones an extra flare. Invest in some simple gold/silver hoops, I also love bamboo earrings.

Outfits - Even if you’re dressing casual or basic make sure you still look put together. Get some cute slim fit joggers and two piece sets for lazy days or bummy days. Then add some jewellery and you automatically look more put together!

Nails - Now it’s unrealistic to constantly have your nails done so if you can’t get them done at least make sure they’re neatly filed and shaped. You can paint them at home too, the same for your toes. Set some time aside every 2-3 weeks to keep them in good condition!

Water! - It may sound basic but keep a bottle of water with you so you’re always hydrated and it will make you feel good too!

Gum & mints - Girlies always keep both on you, very basic but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded.

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Manifesting wealth in all facets for all black girls

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2021: black women on luxury trips simply because we DESERVE !!!!

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Be that woman who is always learning and overachieving.

Be that woman who uses SPF50 even in winter because she has done her research on skincare and the importance of taking care of her skin all-year round.

Be that woman who looks polished to the nines for any occasion, simply because every day is an occasion to celebrate her divine femininity.

Be that woman who wears her pearls, silky robes and perfume even at home and doesn’t need a special occasion to enjoy luxury.

Be that woman who chooses her own wellbeing, her own selfcare, her own mental health, above all (because nobody gets a medal for being a doormat and sacrificing their life for another).

Be that woman who takes great care of her skin, body and hair by educating herself and investing in the best products for her - even before she’s 40, or 30, even before any skin conditions appear forcing her to take better care.

Be that woman who is so incredibly brave to step outside her comfort zone and continuously challenge herself to become a better person, a kinder person; to do more, to achieve more, to be more.

Be that woman who whenever she hits rock bottom, she mourns her losses, but next day is reborn from the ashes like a phoenix, ready to conquer the world again, because the only direction she is moving towards is forward.

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think pink ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ

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enjoy the view 🥰

IG: @dbraxtn

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a little excerpt from my blog post 🦋💕✨

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Working-out Masterlist

One of the biggest by-products of the pandemic would be the boom in home fitness. Personally, I find home-videos better than going to the gym; they are convenient, free and there is no commitment to a 30 min video. Now, I do consider myself as some sort of a YouTube fitness connoisseur. I cannot think of someone I haven’t tried!? You have seen it; I have done it.

I have listed different youtubers and rated their ‘BURN!’ factor and style (HIIT, Pilates, Dance). Whilst I have tried to be as objective as possible, what I will find easy and hard will be different to what you might find easy or difficult.

HITT/Set style workout

Emi Wong (HIIT)

Burn level: 🔥 🔥 (🔥) /10

Emi Wong is up next. The queen of ‘slim down your thighs’- I have known her all my teen years and she is another basic favourite. I would say her workouts are a little more diverse and slightly harder than Chole’s, with her BURN! being more intense than but she would be still considered basic.

Pros:

·       My go-to for easy sweaty workouts.

·       Her leg workouts are pretty much rite of passage. They are good and simple.

·       She is so encouraging throughout, and she magically seems to know when you need it.

·       Emi’s workouts really do work, with me and herself being a testament to how good she is.

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Recommend it to beginner.

Note: I do feel like her workouts are becoming slightly more harder so if you are a complete beginner go for her old ones.

Madfit (HITT and dance)

Burn level: 🔥 🔥🔥/10

I feel like some people would already know her for her dance workouts. I was quite unsure about whether if I would consider her easy or medium because her dance workouts are easy, but her HIIT workouts are harder.

Pros-

·       Her song choices for her dance videos are really. She also has a lot of K-pop covers which as well are fun and easy.

·       HIIT workouts are harder in terms of the exercises but I do not find her challenging.  

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Recommend it to beginner.

 Lucy Wyndham-Read (Workout sets)

Burn level: 🔥 /10

Pros:

·       Her workouts are short, less than 10 minutes usually. So, I would do them twice through or do it once in the morning and once at night.

·       She is just the cutest.

·       The workouts are all pretty much low-impact, great for people who live in flats or who have weak knees.

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Recommend it to beginners.

April Hans (Workout sets)

I simply love her. She is just so nice and calming. She talks your through her workouts, usually explaining biology behind the exercises which I appreciate. She is Chinese so her videos are in Mandarin, but she does have English subtitles. I would also like to add because she is an Asian her workouts are targeted to an Asian audience. I have read far too many mean comments calling her all sort of things simply because she does not want a big bum. If you want slimming and toning, April Hans is for you.

Pros:

·       Workouts that deliver results!!

·       Her accent in Mandarin is nice and I always try to copy her. If you are learning Mandarin, her videos are a good introduction to advanced vocabulary.

·       She does the workouts herself and at the beginning of the video she shows her progress with the workout. 

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Recommend it to people who want to slim down. Easy Medium.

Lily Sabri

Burn level: 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 /10

My British queen. Lily’s workouts are hard.

Pros:

·       Her workouts are dynamic and difficult. There are no jumping jacks here.

·       Her energy is contagious, which is the only reason I make it to end.

·       No repetition! This is a big one for me. I refuse to do workouts where I have to do repeats or sets. For me, sets are dull and boring.

·       Nice mix of different circuit inspired workout.

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Recommend it to medium. 

Challenge

Caroline Girvan (Challenge)

Burn level: 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 (🔥)/10

Caroline’s ‘Epic’ challenge programme is widely regarded as one of the hardest/toughest programmes to get through. I started this a while back, but I left it hanging for a while because I got sick. I will be re-starting this challenge this month!!

Pros:

·       YOU SEE RESULTS!

•  She does have a beginner version of Epic! No excuses here!

Cons:

·       ‘Epic’ does require you to have a range of equipment (weights) at home. 

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Recommend it to advanced.

(EDIT: I will be back with how I got along.)

Chole Ting (HIIT)

Burn level: 🔥  🔥 🔥/10

If you were to come to me as a beginner to working out, I would point you to Chole Ting. I know you know her but that is because she is good. Chole’s workouts are easy to follow and direct, but this does not mean you do not get a good BURN! She does have some workouts that are a little more difficult, but they are not anything hard and if you are doing them with one of her challenges, you will fine.

Pros:

·       She covers a good range of basic exercises in her workouts.

·       she includes a warm-up and a cool down. A lot of people do not realise how important a good warm-up and a cool down is, so doing her workouts help build the habit of incorporating it into your routine.

·       Queen of challenges! If you are struggling with what to do and how to plan your workouts, she has many challenges that will give you structure.

·       Her channel also has a lot of food recipes which is helpful as well.

Cons-                    

·       Her music… it is quite irritating. Music PTSD is real.

·       Her workouts are repetitive (good for beginners but not really for anyone else). After some time of doing her workout, I can freestyle a ‘Chole Ting’ on the spot. So, I do recommend mixing other youtubers in, especially if you are like me (I am someone who gets bored very easily, so I like doing a variety of different workouts.).

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Recommend it to beginners.

 Pilates

 Taylor Toned(Pilates)

Burn level: 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥/10

Pilates are extremely misleading. Advertised more relaxing alternative fitness, Pilates leaves you shaking and on a verge of a mid-awakening meltdown. I personally like Taylor more than other Pilate youtubers (100% because she is British so listening to her speak is tore able-) and she is my go-to.

Pros:

·       You will not be able to move the next two days after.

·       Like I said, she does speak but it more like a nice 80s dance vid than an annoyingly positive spiel.

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Dance

Hands Clap (Dance)

Burn level: 🔥/10

This just gained some attention on Tiktok but this 3min turned 30 min routine was a HUGGGGEEEEEEEE hit in Japan and Korea. (Like, my socials were just this for a long time.) So many people were able to lose weight by doing this for a couple of weeks, which is not bad considering this is low impact.

Pro-

·       As straightforward as it gets and it’s fun too.

·       I know I said low impact and is not strenuous at all but do expect to break a sweat.

Con-

·       You will live, breathe, eat the song.

·       I am so sick and tired of the song at this point.

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Warmups, Stretching and cool-downs:

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There are so many other youtubers that I get my workouts from. The main reason I like doing these are because of what I like in terms of aesthetics. Doing home workouts means that I am using my own body weight which helps with keeping lean and being strong from the inside. I really hope that this helped introduce some fitness youtubers to you.

Let me know how it goes.

Daphne xox

I haven’t edited this :)