@swaghermagazine ・・・ “Listening to negativity from society and from within myself in regard to what’s an acceptable weight. I struggled with that for a long time. I went from an abusive relationship to an abusive marriage, gained about 100-150 pounds and then started listening to society. I put my talent on the back burner and tried pretending that I was happy. Once I ended all of that, divorced and lost weight, I started putting myself around people that were doing what I wanted to do. Slowly but surely I started making some moves, but in my head, I was still beating myself up, comparing myself to everyone else, still feeling over 300 pounds, basically not even giving myself a chance to shine, not loving who I was. I was afraid to really be me for a long time for fear of not being accepted. But these days, I’m feeling really good about me! With lots of time, prayer, talking to myself in the mirror and surrounding myself with the right people, I’m on a different path thankfully.”-our Wednesday Wonder Woman today is Compton California R&B artist @imkijafa. Read her full interview at http://SwagHer.net or click link in bio. ☝🏾 #kijafa #wednesdaywonderwoman #theydontknow