So Rika-san's not home and I didn't go to class today because I slept in inordinately late and have been feeling headachy and somewhat fragile due to PMS. But anyway.
It's just me and Obaasan again and we started talking about family. I learned that Rika-san is in fact divorced, and though Obaasan is actually her brother-in-law stays here because she loves her grandson. And she went and found a bunch of old family pictures and pictures of Issei (the son) and showed them to me and told me about them
and then told me never to tell Rika-san about this because she will get upset. I was really curious about their family situation, but I guess it's good that I held out on straight-up asking her as that might have been bad. I have the sense that she doesn't like looking to the past.
Getting this glimpse into the family history makes me feel much more like part of the family, though. And Obaasan is still kind of hard for me to initiate conversation with, as she's kind hard to understand, but I hope I can make it clear that I appreciate her as a person with a lot of history and stories to tell, and a lot of love for her family, including this unrelated, foreign stranger who they have no reason to care for as much as they do except that they want to and that's something that amazes me every day.







