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@alcholiccaprisun
Stuff i post about:
- Bugs
- Slashers
- Undertale
- FNAF
-ROTTMNT and other tmnt things
-Bojack horseman
- Trans and gay topics
- Leftist views
- Other things I find funny
-Very few animes
-Very few musicals
Aaaaa have an amazing day 💕
Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety
If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you
If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you
People are allowed to be wrong about you
If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it
The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something
You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it
Most things are better after you sleep on them
Most things are better after you have a meal
Most things are better after you shower
Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"
If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction
If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction
"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier
If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two
You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction
When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery
People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves
If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it
If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable
If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it
If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it
Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step
Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary
If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike
Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP
No one cares what you look like
If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"
People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company
You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you
If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly
You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will
Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable
Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it
Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier
And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess
“bruh wtf bruh” i cry at my tv
Okay so obviously papyrus is autistic. But i wanted to give specific examples of why <3
firstly all of his messages are in caps lock, which could be a typing quirk but i like to assume it’s because he’s always yelling, something that a-lot of autistic people have issues with, is controlling there volume
he loves puzzles and i assume there his special interest, because not only do we see him using them as traps but it’s also a reward as we see when you kill everyone but leave papyrus, he uses the puzzles for punishments and rewards because he just likes puzzles
we also see him stomp his feet while upset, something that i like to assume is stimming
he also has problems making friends, and is the only reason he wants in the royal guard, something that again a lot of autistic people have difficulty with
he also takes what people say at face value, even with flowey, not seeing the true nature underneath, which is can also lead into him not understanding tone
he also isn’t afraid to speak his mind, not caring if he comes of “rude” to even the queen
he also adds in his nyehs and sighs in writing and saying sigh out loud kinda like a tone tag
while you play the dating portion he follows a rule book, kinda similar to how autistic people will learn about something because it dosent come natural (ex. i used to train myself how to smile)
he also has face blindness where he can’t tell asgore and toriel apart
some other things: constantly wearing the same clothes because there comforting, sticking to strict rules he set for himself and getting upset when it dosent go as planned, making the same food over and over, and not understand some of sans puns(resulting in him not liking when he makes them, even though he will aswell) and probably more i’m not thinking of lol
Anyways, he is one of my favorite characters and i hope he wins <33 thank you for reading and lemme know if i missed anything
Litterally all the rottmnt turtles are gay and neruodivergent
Leo? Gay/ADHD
Donnie? Bi/ Autistic
Ralph? Bi/Autistic/ ADHD
Mikey? Pan/Autistic/ ADHD
No I will not accept criticism. I am correct <333
Bone man but creative
Aka I kin this bastard cause I’m trying to make everyone laugh all the time even with hella low empathy
Oh so you like the bone man?
Good. Cause I do too.
To the motherFUCKER who made the heartstopper playlist on Spotify,,
Thank you<3
I won’t regress to like the bone man
I won’t regress to like the bone man
I won’t regress to like the bone man
I won’t regress to like the bone man
I won’t regress to like the bone man
…do you guys I like the bone man I drew
Here’s just a list of very uhhhhh autistic moments I had so people can relate to them or see things through the eyes of someone who has autism(granted not everyone will experience this even if they are autistic)
- being told to stop stimming because your disruptive
- crying before almost all school presentations, then getting made fun of cause your talking with your hands (stimming)
-got into a “fight “ with someone who is also autistic because of not understanding tone
-had such a huge special interest in creepypasta that you told someone “shut up this isn’t intresting” and then proceeded to explain ever character you knew
-grandma bringing you to places because you talk about your special interest so long it becomes a sort of whit noise
-hating choir because that one girl sings her notes at the worst pitch ever and then the music teacher moved her closer to you OH MY GOD-
- repeating tik toks all day,,,, to often,,,,, help me
-using tone indicators but not remember what they all mean so just spelling out the whole ass word
-every conversation with your friends with turn into “so,,,,,,,undertale/slashers/bugs/twilight?”
-vocal stimming that is just whisper screaming
- bought sans
-anytime people will say a joke you laugh and then spend the next 20 minutes deciphering it
-e y e. C o n t a c t
-trying to make yourself look alltistic but you fail (ex: smiling when someone does something good or is happy but then dropping it right after to the point your friends are like,,,,you chillin)
-stop talking to your friends so they ask you wants wrong but your just researching your special interest and chafing your battery
-walmart is the absolute worst thing ever to be a thing
They just hit different
Play everhood
Now updated with ones I couldn’t remember before posting this it’s fnaf two because it’s my favorite
flowey is a little bit bad at this. they understand each other anyhow
Thank you for this 💕
#3736
Cernunos of the greenish kingdom, Grant all the plants in it their freedom From the same color’s boredom. Let them find flame to burn away Leaves for their souls to be in windway That leads them to the heaven’s gateway.
you know what's just the B E S T feeling??? Stimming with another person???? Like if im vocal stimming and you start vocal stimming back????? or if you're rocking back n forth and i do so back??? That is a type of bonding experience that I cant even explain.
@garbagefire0 this is actually directed at you
Yes 💕
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Cause I know a lot of you are fruity
You ever get like lyrics stuck in your head but their sad lyrics and your already sad so you just get sadder? ………..Anyways uhhh hot take dysphoria sucks 💕I’d like to not cry while bathing or atleast feel decent to wear my size of clothes
I didn't ask to relate to the trashman so now every time I see him I have to insult him, ya know,,,,,to make amends 💕 (art not by me)
Just look at this Lil shit
