As a feminist the biggest issue I have with women who enjoy be dominated by men is NOT that they (the woman) want that, but that to MEN it reinforces sexism. We will not get equality teaching men to treat us like sex objects. While a woman man LIKE that treatment, it's not her liking it that is the issue. It's guys who GET OFF on the degradation of women. This is why sexism will never go away, because guys tell their buddies that this is what all women *really* want. It's not you, it's him.
Not only men get off on it.. BDSM, female degradation, exhibitionism, and gang bang is the type of porn I watch and get off to.What I don't understand is why do I have to not be sexually satisfied because it gives men the wrong idea? That sounds a lot like the idea that a female has to protect themselves from being raped because general female behavior and appearance gives men the wrong idea.The majority of men in the BDSM community have nothing but respect for women. Not to mention, a lot of women in the community are successful CEOs and managers looking for a release. Also, there are dominant females and submissive males.. it goes both ways.I will never give up the only way I orgasm because it may give a man the wrong idea, that is nothing close to equality.I love being a sex toy, but in my work life, I am extremely respected and manage a lot. I have never been with a man that blurs the line from bedroom play to public though. Obviously as a rape victim (twice, once by a male and once by a female), I know that there are men who do... but the majority of men in the BDSM community do not.It's not submissive females that are the problem, it's not dominant men that are the problem, it's people that do not understand boundaries in general that are the problem.
