just a littel bitt minxy... as a treet

mid20s she/fae unofficial autonypmh of the internet

[alittleminxy]

its entirely possible that we should just make a "men interacting with us are at high risk of forcefem" pinned

wip pinned cause lazy/tired + idgaf to make it easy for you. callout posts are not praxis. perform espionage on me like a self respecting pervert. bare minimum in the tags.

[alittleminxy]

it has nothing fae make nothing we are disabled and Trying Our Best. please be patient with me and we will be patient with yuo

we'll boost anything if you want us to though. slowly weaning off of this webbed site + my queue autotagger stopped working so it is Relatively safe to assume that if you see evenly spaced out posts it is my queue running. hmu for discord if we're (or were ever, given tumblr's misogyny) mutuals and secretly love me or smt

[vulkiri]

🌈

[zxbuster-advent]

"Easy-peasy" by へるつ🔞@Hz84997592

[loveridden1999]

spongebob looking out the window meme but it's me being jealous of everyone w those cunty chinese cigarettes

[loveridden1999]

look at these beauties [x] [x]

[shelteredharem]

[scoutology]

#crysobbing

[mxsc4tterbra1n]

I forgot I made this when I started to make the Gomg au 😭

I should draw this as rewrite Haruka and imita

[lnfini-deactivated20230930]

[identifying-planes-in-posts]

Boeing 737-800

[vaspider]

Guys guys guys guys guys guys

Aaaaaaaaaa

I am feeling so fucking emotional about the fact that not only did this guy read a huge chunk of my essay, but he spent so much time backing up what I said with video clips and photos.

I cut down the video so that Tumblr would actually post it — it's almost 25m long — but please go watch the whole thing and let him know I sent you. It's a REALLY good video.

[alexseanchai]

I'm allergic to TikTok, but I found their YouTube presence; is the video in question posted there? none of the video titles are narrowing it down any

Trade Movies Podcast

-LONGFORM VIDEOS ON PATREON! -video essays + podcast on movies i like -linktr.ee/trademovies

[vaspider]

Not yet. If it were, I would have provided both links.

[vaspider]

And now it's on YouTube!

[chadepitanga]

Like idc which queer person needs to hear this today, but you do more for queer liberation by being active in labor struggles as an openly queer person than you do by segregating yourself into queer friend groups that only perform activism when it's time to party. Like I'm honestly begging y'all white yank asses to actually boycott something consistently and hold the fucking picket line for once. For once!!!

[cocainesocialist]

[manynamedshe]

“They’re not smarter or faster they’re buying up others’ lifetimes to do their chores”

“They’re not smarter or faster they’re buying up others’ lifetimes to do their chores”

“They’re not smarter or faster they’re buying up others’ lifetimes to do their chores”

[thequeerwithoutfear-deactivated]

[images: series of tweets from @realavocadofact. tweets read, “they’re not elite they’re rich”, “they’re not better they’re better supplied”, “they’re not smarter or faster they’re buying up others’ lifetimes to do their chores”, “there is nothing wrong with you; you’re doing your best in a game rigged against you, probably not enough people and fruit tell you that”]

[butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway]

I see this reaction a lot, and I gotta say, it always makes me a little sad. Whenever the conversation of exploitation of labor comes up, inevitably someone finds themselves struggling with the guilt of “It is so important to me not to contribute to exploitation but I cannot do this thing myself and need someone else to do it for me, so how do I even approach that?”

Exploitation isn’t in the hiring of a service worker. Exploitation is in the respect you show them for their ability to perform the service you need from them.

I have been on a cleaning service staff before, and also been someone who hired a cleaning service, and I can tell you for sure that a lot of cleaning crews (especially worker owned ones) absolutely LOVE their clients and are genuinely happy to be able to make their lives better. The clients they don’t like? Those are the ones who disrespect the workers.

When I was involved with a cleaning service, we had everything from little old ladies living alone to McMasions with five cars as clients, and I can assure you that whenever there was someone who clearly hired us because they were overwhelmed or unable to keep their space clean, those were the households where you put a little more elbow grease in and did a deep clean even when it wasn’t paid for, because you could see how much these people were trying and struggling, and they were always so kind and generous and often embarrassed when talking to you about the job.

I only hired a service a couple if times in my life, but whenever I did, I worked with the same people as often as I could, tipped as well as I could afford, and tried to be the kind of client I would want to have, and that’s how I often ended up with my baseboards cleaned too, or my fridge scrubbed and organized or a restorative clean done in a high use room even when that wasn’t what I had scheduled or paid for.

I’ve heard the same thing from all manner of service workers over the years. Many of us like our jobs! We enjoy the work. It’s the customers that can do a number on you.

I think a lot of people are afraid that by needing a service they are inherently exploiting or harming the people who perform that service, and they really aren’t. But it does benefit a capitalist system for us to all be burnt out and overwhelmed because we’re too afraid to hire the help we need. Be upfront and honest with service workers about what you need and why you need it, and treat them with dognity and kindness while they perform your service, and I promise you they will always be happy to answer your call.

[headspace-hotel]

HIRING A PROFESSIONAL TO CLEAN YOUR HOUSE ISN’T MORE EXPLOITATIVE THAN GOING TO A DENTIST OR ORDERING A PIZZA

We all fucking depend on each other, it’s about respect and treating one another as fellow humans instead of seeing them as below us

[astra-the-dragon]

pay a fair wage, pay promptly, be polite and courteous, be flexible, don’t be too overbearing, and show your gratitude.

I used to need someone to come in every week and spend 4+ hours doing ALL the cleaning, and that is one of the things that has allowed my health to improve. Now I have someone who works for my neighbour weekly, and I ask him to also swing by my place every 3 weeks or so for about two hours to do all the more difficult things that still need doing.

Also, I guess this is a little weird, but I also ask him for help with things I’ve halfway done: eg, I wash the bedsheets but he puts them back onto the mattress, I gather all used cutlery and dishes into the sink but he actually washes them. Previously I did no laundry and used exclusively single-use cutlery/dishes. So that’s progress for me but still hiring help for the things my disabilities make most challenging. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

[jarchaeology]

parental controls on the internet should go the other way around. my mom should not be spending her screen time this way.

[winged-void]

the thing is the plushy stuff is so cute. it's very much not my thing but it's so cute... girls are adorable. imagine a girl getting overwhelmed and finishing in her plushy. tell me its not cute.

[pigeon-princess-ceci]

*raising hand princessly* what if the plushy is the top?

[antipahtico]

[thepeoplescommiequotes]

[artoatsblog]

Average non-transfem poster.

[lowhitpointspuppyplagueharpylady]

How can you be friends with someone like that and not feel deeply sorry that they have to be like that in order to survive and understand that's not her real self?

[wound-tree]

Not reblogging it to preserve my peace, but this comic did annoy the shit out of me so I want to bitch about it.

This is transmisogyny. You are knowingly portraying trans women as irrational here. This phenomenon is not a thing— people headcanon male characters as transmasc ALL the fucking time, and no one cares. I’ve seen top surgery scars edited onto just about every dude from any media ever. You know good and goddamn well that you are able to headcanon men as trans men without pushback from trans women. The PROBLEM is when a character is clearly transFEM coded, and y’all try to downplay that to push your transmasc head canons.

This is clearly someone who got pushback on their trans man headcanon of a transfem-coded or female character, and when people said “hey why can’t you meaningfully engage with this character as a woman” they threw a tantrum and acted like the mean nasty women said they can’t have any headcanons ever because they’re oppressed for being a man. you are so exhausting