All Things Gentlemen

General good vibes and encouragement with a focus on men and boys. *I can't give you personal advice. Your problems matter- please reach out elsewhere* Note: If a photo of you is reblogged here and you don't feel comfortable with that, please shoot me a message and it will be removed ASAP.

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you can be anything and anyone you want to be :)

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Don’t you dare let anyone tell you otherwise.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Everyone makes mistakes in life but that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life. Sometimes good people make bad choices. That doesn’t mean they’re bad. It means they’re human.

I Love Quotes (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

[cwote]

Make your dreams a priority. Make your mental health a priority. Make your relationships a priority. Make your happiness a priority. Make yourself a priority.

[achillean-suggestions]

Concept:

You in five years. It’s winter, you’re curled up on the couch with your husband. You’re drinking something, like hot chocolate but vanilla instead. Your favorite book is in one hand, the other is in his. It’s his turn right now, he’s reading a chapter to his favorite book to you. It’s the last page of the chapter, you’ll get to read to him next. You close your eyes. You are content.

[webofgoodnews]

Holden Beach 10-year-old uses popcorn business to buy Christmas gifts for other kids

“Mom said ‘you have to do something good for somebody else,’” Mason said. “Now I’m in the popcorn business.”

Starting out with eight different flavors, Mason began taking a few bags to sell at Lighthouse Gifts on Holden Beach Road on Fridays and Saturdays during the summer of 2015.

By early December, Mason had sold enough popcorn to buy Christmas toys for 20 children in Brunswick County.

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Jaden Smith attends the 2016 MTV Video Music Awards at Madison Square Garden on August 28, 2016 in New York City.

[beneath-the-starlight]

PAPER CHAIN PROJECT

- For every day you go without self harming or purging, add a colourful link to the paper chain - If you relapse, just add a white link to to the chain and carry on the chain without any disruption - Over time the paper chain will grow in length and you can see your progress, and see that even if you do relapse, the are still days you go without hurting yourself. The colourful links. - Over time and through your recovery watch the amount of coloured links begin to increase, and the amount of white links begin to decrease. - If you feel like hurting yourself, look at the paper chain and realise just how far you’ve made it, and realise that if you’ve resisted before you can do it again :)

Please reblog, this could help someone towards recovery. ❤

[call-me-maddieee-deactivated201]

There’s no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside of you

Maya Angelou (via maddies-smaller-infinities)

Tell your story

(via thefunnythingabouttherapy)

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[thelatestkate]

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Donald Glover out in NYC

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[ink-trails]

There is nothing wrong with wanting space. Or time. Or isolation. I don’t say any of that like it’s okay to cut yourself out of the picture completely, I’m just saying– You don’t always have to live in the moment. Choose a movie marathon over a party if that’s what you need. Throw your attention to the stars if it’s too distracted anywhere else. Sleep in on the weekends and let your responsibilities realize they take you for granted. Be honest enough to tell the people around you that life gets too heavy sometimes and you gotta check out. There is nothing wrong with carving out a shelter apart from this dimension and putting everything on pause for a while. It’s got nothing to do with anyone or anything else, it’s about you. Take care of yourself, even if it means you have to put life on hold for a bit. Time goes on, but we can pretend like it doesn’t. Because even though time is always ready to take us back again, you won’t always be ready to go.

Take mental health days, take daily breathers, they don’t make you fragile, they keep you strong (via ink-trails)

[thepersephonecabin]

shoutout to everyone making progress that no one recognized because you never let anyone see your darkest moments. i see you and i am so, so proud of every little step you’re making in the right direction.

[gentle-reminder]

gentle reminder

i promise you that there is someone in the world that is rooting for you and that you are not alone 

[cwote]

Stop what you are doing. Go outside and breathe. The world will not end if you take ten minutes for yourself.

taking time for yourself is important (via cwote)