Daniel Echtle broke my heart and spirit
This is just my side of the story. This is just what I can remember. I could have remembered it wrong. I’m still scared of him. I gave him this list after 2 months of him asking me to come back. I’m never going back.
When you would talk poorly(how fat my mom is, how stupid my sister is) about my family to your friends while I was in the room(and even when I wasn't) it made me feel conflicted, uncomfortable, and embarrassed.
How much it hurt me: 5
How significant it was: 8
When you would go visit Aaron for two or more days and leave me at home while I was pregnant it made me feel sad, lonely, and abandoned.
How much it hurt me: 8
How significant it was: 9
During and after my pregnancy when you would complain about my lack of sex drive it made me feel ashamed, embarrassed, broken, sad, and worthless.
How much it hurt me: 10
How significant it was: 7
When you would get frustrated and annoyed when I would tell you that sex was uncomfortable or painful for me it made me feel ashamed, broken, and insecure.
How much it hurt me: 6
How significant it was: 9
When you threatened to leave me for this reason it made me feel hurt, angry, confused, broken, alone, and worthless.
When you would tell me what to say to people and that I said something wrong it made me feel anxious, embarrassed, upset, and worthless.
How much it hurt me: 10
How significant it was: 10
When you would do things with your friends that I had wanted to do with you(go to the buffet, walk on the jetty) it made me feel worthless, upset, angry, sad, insecure, and ignored.
How much it hurt me: 9
How significant it was: 10
When you would refuse to go out or spend time with me and Layla it would make me feel sad, disappointed, and alone.
How much it hurt me: 7
How significant it was: 10
When you would vape inside it would make me feel upset, annoyed, and disgusted.
How much it hurt me: 5
How significant it was: 6
When you would tell me not to nag you and would complain to your friends about how much I annoyed you it made me feel alone, sad, angry, ignored, and worthless.
How much it upset me: 8
How significant it was: 9
When you would raise your voice at or around me when you were mad or frustrated it made me feel terrified.
How much it upset me: 9
How significant it was: 10














