i feel like a deer in the headlights of love

the name's August (she/her)! mostly tua (fiveya and kliego). no minors please.

[sportsnight-deactivated20201211]

friends to enemies to lovers is actually something that can be so intimate. i know you i know everything about you i have told you all my deepest secrets and you have told me yours and now i am trying to kill you literally or metaphorically because hate and love are separated by a very thin line and i don’t know which side i am on

[sportsnight-deactivated20201211]

[inthetags]

Reblog and put in the tags: In terms of controversy, discourse, infighting, ship wars, etc., which of the fandom’s you’ve been was the most stressful? Which was the most peaceful?

[toshio]

[rickylafleurs]

tumblr is kicking people out of their blogs, making them reset their passwords and wiping their blog themes stating it had “suspicious code”

go into your blog themes HTML code RIGHT NOW and copy & paste EVERYTHING into a new google docs or whatever you use so you can save it and not have it wiped from tumblrs fucking incompetence at running a website

[eirenical]

OMG, at the notes on this post, I STG.  *sigh*

From what I was able to parse from my own experience with this debacle this afternoon, I think tumblr staff changed something in the theme coding that disallows links in the theme codes to any nonsecure (http) websites.  If you have such links in your code, it will now read as suspicious activity, boot you out, make you reset your password, and reset your blog to the default theme to eliminate the suspicious code.

Keep reading

[rickylafleurs]

this is inherently good information but i do want to point out a few things:

the http to https link issue was introduced several months ago and many blogs at the time (i unfortunately do not have a time frame reference of when this happened as my memory for timelines is shoddy) affected by that issue already had all of their links updated to https, mine was one of those blogs, and i was again today affected by tumblr resetting my theme with my https links intact.

they haven’t told us which code was affecting it, unlike the last time where it specifically stated this upon trying to do anything with your theme,

only that it was “suspicious code” here

( a direct screenshot from my discord gc when i experienced the issue today. as im writing this its 12 am for so it does say yesterday )

so while ultimately YES you want to change your http links to https if you have any, this isn’t guaranteed to keep your theme safe and i don’t want people to accidentally lose it even after doing that which is why you should still backup your theme’s HTML regardless

[eirenical]

Thanks for the clarification! I’ve updated my reblog to reiterate some of this, and to emphasize that I back up my code obsessively, because you’re right: even if this http->https trick fixes the current problem for people, it doesn’t guarantee that your theme is now safe, and that’s something important for people to know.

And I’m sorry you’re still stuck! That’s seriously annoying. :( It would be nice if they warned us before doing these things, wouldn’t it?

[ms-andry]

[tired-fandom-ndn]

So many anti friend groups are just straight up cults and it's genuinely terrifying to see and be part of.

If you're scared of your friends for whatever reason, it you're scared of liking being in a specific fandom or liking a specific ship because you think you'll lose all your friends over it, if your friend group is essentially built on the idea that you're all good and everyone else is bad, if your friends use social ostracization and online stalking and harassment campaigns as threats and weapons, if your friends use fear and moral panic to keep people in line. . . . .

Please get out of there. This isn't even about shipping or fandom or whatever, it's about staying safe and not getting sucked into a literal cult. Cut them off, block them on all your social media, remake accounts if you need to, and make new friends who don't leave you feeling like you're walking on eggshells around them. Just stay safe.

[elithien]

𝓜𝓸𝓸𝓷 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓢𝓾𝓷. Reylo postcard i did for my Patreon reward last December <3 

[fandomrantsandtwittertakes]

These are everywhere and I honestly can’t tell which is better

[newvegascowboy]

<3

[wayneradiotv]

[wayneradiotv]

[starwarsblr]

#success

[genderoutlaws]

Go Girls Go! | March on Washington, 1993

[zeeohyi]

en ee ways after they killed snoke and the praetorian guards they smooched and then got tf outta there

commission me!

[howelljenkins]

[howelljenkins]

[the-sapphic-raven]

looking at this feels like a hate crime

[chief-penguin]

I just know the writer would call me homophobic for calling this homophobic.

[maradeur]

“—[desperately] don’t you see? I took mercy on myself. Nobody else would. So I saved myself from grief, I did what was needed. I took mercy on me. I took mercy on me.”

— Amrita C., from “Dhumavati,” Incarnate  (via weltenwellen)

[movie-gifs]

Adam Driver as Ben Solo in THE RISE OF SKYWALKER (2019)

[jeweled-blue-eyes]

When will you realize that your rage only fuels me?