Is Park Sandara and Kwon Jiyong (DaraGon) a real deal?
Ā This essay is not to confirm that they are together. This is just my observation. I am not a psychology major but I enjoy analyzing psychological patterns. For my 22 years of existence, Iāve never been once wrong about my dating observation. I think I am a really a keen observer of body language, manners, hidden messages, reverse psychology and gazes wise. I am actually planning in getting some Psycho units but Nahā¦ Anyways enough about me. I check-listed some of my observation about the couple and these stuff I wrote are something you can judge by yourself.
Ā ā The Butterfly song of Jiyong is really interconnected to Dara and it made my heart flutter. Butterfly song is her performance in the SCQ Grand Night while sheās wearing a butterfly wings.
Ā ā 3-lettered name. In Hangul (Korean form of writing) letters or words are written in syllabic way. SAN.DA.RA = ģ°.ė¤.ė¼. Names in Korean are usually 2-syllables only since it came from the Chinese form of naming. 3-syllable names are very rare and are original pure Korean based names.Ā {Iām studying basic korean.}
Ā ā Jiās BUTTERFLY MV - The Carousel which is mentioned in the Butterfly song Dara performedā¦ āWild horses run unbridledā
Ā ā The cartoon girl who creepily looked exactly like Dara.
Ā ā The Cat. Jiyong owns a cute dog, but why cat? hmmmā¦
Ā ā The Santokki (rabbit) focus in the MV.
Ā ā āLight gesture and twinkle in your eyesā.. its Dara.
Ā ā A girl who donāt trust guys? (Jiās Butterfly lyrics) ā¦ Dara is very cautious when it comes to guys cause sheās afraid that one day, that special someone will change which is not a delusional fear. The only constant thing in the world is the word āChangeā that is why her ideal is someone that is āUnchangingāā¦makes sense why she doesnāt trust guys.
Ā ā Wounds? (Jiās Butterfly lyrics) ā¦ seems like the wounds of breaking up with Joseph Bitancol. As what I know, they donāt have proper break-up cuz of Daraās constant flying in Korea back then. Also, the wounds Dara has with all the rumors circulated in the PH. Her being pregnant, her being in desperate of money, those bullshit that her loyal fans didnāt believe even for a bit. As a fan, I was really angered by those rumors. I stopped watching news because of those.
Ā ā āBaby Girlā (Jiās thanking significant people in his life in his concert) - this reminds me of the Shine a Light concert. Instead of saying ācute girlā he said āBaby Girlāā¦ hmmmmā¦
Ā ā Pure and Innocent? (Jiās Butterfly lyrics) hmmmmā¦ she does looked Pure and Innocent although we all know she is a very tough woman considering all her hardships and being her familyās breadwinner.
Ā ā As what I read in the comments which I find really true (comment of the above video), all of GDās collabs with female singers are always badassā¦ Well except for one. He always perform as G-Dragon but act cute and a total flower boy Jiyong performing āHelloāā¦ acting like a baby boy? eh? ć
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Ā ā Jiyong and Dara both discussing openly about dating, marriage and ideal familyĀ life (both wants a baby girl) in their respective television appearance sounds like preparing their fans for the inevitable.
Ā ā Kim Hee-sun of Hwasin saying sheās not an actress is a way of saying sheās either a musician as well or a model. Jiyong didnāt deny that the girl heās pertaining inĀ Healing Camp is a celebrity talking about ādamageā. Hee-sun knows Jiyong since heās little and probably has seen Jiyong and Dara interact.
Ā ā Daraās ideal is someone attentive to small details like tying a shoelace or bringing table napkins & water, perhaps? Small gestures?ā¦. ć
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Ā ā About CL and Jiyong being linked, I noticed that GD normally hug girls that are very close to him platonic-ally like CL, Minzy and others but gets really cautious, shy, very proper and well-mannered when it comes to Sandara despite of being associated with each other for so long. Itās like, there is a pressure plus he is very blatant announcing āNo In-Houseā dating. It isnāt banned in their company though but I think heās really protecting their special relationship.
Ā ā I also noticed that when Seungriās story about Man#3 was revealed, Daesung was obviously shocked and when the camera passed to him, he noticeably stole a quick glance at his lower left sideā¦ obviously where Ji sitsā¦ for me, it does means two things: Itās either Dae knows about the waiting-outside-the-girls-house story which is also a Jiās song entitled āThis Loveā or Dae knows about their secret relationsgip that he wants to know what will be Jiās reaction knowing that Dara has determined suitors.
Ā In a separate occasion popularly known as the Winner TV with BB, when Mino was asked by Dae who he wants to be closed to, he answered Dara nuna. Given its really funny that Mino wants 2NE1 Dara instead of the boys, but it doesnāt warrant a really different reaction from Dae (noticeably, he also had a very quick glance at his lower right side where Ji is seating) and Jiyongā¦ Dae is completely shocked and caught off-guard (thatās maybe why he unintentionally looked at Ji) while when the camera was focused to Jiyong, it was a completely different story ā¦ and why was the camera solely focused to Ji instead of all the BB members laughing? Hmmmā¦
Ā ā Seungri admitting that Man#3 is a singerā¦
Ā ā Some shippers say that Man #3 is Donghae who has a similar waiting story which was also revealed in Strong Heart ā¦ nahā¦
Ā I really believe that there is a DaraGon but neither Jiyong nor Donghae is the āMan #3ā cuz I watched both Jiyong and Donghaeās whole segment.
Ā In GDās case, he was seeing a girl back then and always walking her home, but one day (i donāt remember the exact reason why heās there) he waited at the āsupposedā girlās house only to know later that it isnāt hers and all the while heās walking her to the wrong house only to believe that the girl doesnāt trust him.. (Butā¦ he might have alternated the story to protect that someoneā¦ only Ji knows.)
Ā In Donghaeās, he was seeing this older girl, if I remember it correctly, the girl is in JR. High. He falls deeply for the girl however without Haeās knowledge, the girl already has a boyfriend who studies overseas only to visit Korea every vacation. That girl mysteriously goes M.I.A one month straight without any communication. Later on, Hae discovered the girlās secret but still loves her despite the situation. One winter, he asked the girl to see him and make snowman but the girl declined, still he waited and made the snowman himself. He persuaded the girl to at least go out and see the snowman but again, she declined. He ended up making a smaller snowman version and left it in the girlās front house.
Ā For Dara/Haeās story: itās not Dara. She studied in the Philippines and that fact alone is enough proof that Hae is not talking about Dara he even said that the girl he was seeing went to Seoul for GED exam but didnāt returnā¦ This only means that she is a country girl. Totally not Dara. However, the possibility that Donghae is one of the 2 guys mentioned by Seungri is high since he obviously likes Dara.
Ā for Dara/Gon: I think it isnāt Dara too cuz theyāve known each other for so long now and it is impossible for GD not to know where Dara stayās when she was visiting and having acting classes in Korea since they were always together and also they have same circle of friends.
Ā ā I also think that the story on Hwasin about the āhe was caught stuffā,Ā was pertaining to Kiko because way back 2010 he was spotted hanging out with her and those were the days when Dara and him were not exclusively dating because of the dating ban, I think. Doesnāt it make sense? All of the āIn-houseā strong denial of the both party? Knowing how Dara is dedicated to work, there is a possibility that she really has an on-off relationship with Jiyong. Look how openly they are about dating now that the ban is lifted and the increasingly obvious hints they are showing.
Ā ā Ji doesnāt make promises and that kind of mentality makes a girl really afraid and uncertain. Remember how Dara wants someone who is unchanging? In a recent CRUSH promotion interview, Dara was asked what song in their album is her favorite, she said its āGotta be Youā a song about a girl falling in love with a bad boy cuz she can relate to the lyrics and said itās her story. Isnāt it ironic that Ji was once again linked to Kiko and also rumored to have āthe worst kept secret coupleā because of the photo that circulated the internet?
Ā āJi: When I was taking sometime a part from a girlfriend I went out with for a long timeāā¦ We all know that BigBang lived in Japan for a couple of months. And I think that made Ji associated with a lot of Japanese friends. Knowing Ji who is into fashion, and Kiko as a fashion model, itās not impossible for them to meet and hang around those times.
Ā In a girlās psychology about dating article Iāve read way back, girls are into guys who can give security to them in all aspect of relationship. A promise somehow gives a girl more faith into relationships. Jiās point about change and promises is definitely acceptable given that nothing is constant however it also threatens a potential serious bond between a man and a woman.
Ā I am not a psychology major but I love reading books and articles about those stuff and I think Dara is really in a tough position with her romantic relationship with Ji and it makes her think that Ji is somehow a bad boy. (Dating Kiko rumors and no promises? Ji, you are a bad boy! ā)
Ā ā Points about same stuff they have. There is a possibility that BB and 2NE1 shares closet for their shows but as we all know, they have separate stylists. They canāt be with their stylists all the time. Airport fashion is a thing that is beyond a stylistās duty, I THINK. Some same stuff like things they endorse are acceptable similarities but personal stuff arenāt. bracelet, rings, earphones, his & her Rolex watch, ripped pants, same designer pants that Ji and Dee always wear to think that they are the only members of their group to have those kind of stuff. Interconnected stuff they like. SpongeBob, Tabby cat popularly known as Puss and the Boots and Park siblingās cat. Itās really weird for a close friend to have similar things some is acceptable but in Dee and Jiās case, itās not normal anymore.
Ā āThem having casual twitter conversation is also fishy. Why? Maybe for many DaraGon shippers, itās very spazzable but for me, I think itās a way of showing and convincing people that they donāt have relationship. Reverse psychology. The more they communicate casually the more people will be convinced that they are just friends. Peopleās opinion about their increasing similarity will be diverted into not believing that they are secretly dating. Itās a mind trick.
Ā āPeople around a secretly dating couple will know stuff even without any clarification like Ben Baller, 2NE1 and BB members. Youngbae who obviously like Dara knows that he doesnāt have any hope with her. Members of both groups obviously know something with all the hints they are showing and I think they really find it natural for them putting distance between the two. CL I think is the first few people who observed it and as a leader she is protecting their group and also protecting her two friendās relationship specially during the dating ban period. (YG might have ordered CL to put distance between the two. YG is a very clever person and their building having hundreds of cameras doesnāt help Ji and Dee hides their affection to each other)
Ā Thereās a lot to point out about validating that they indeed are dating but it doesnāt makes sense anymore. If you do believe that they are a real couple or not, it doesnāt matter. Itās not a win-win or lose-lose situation. Itās their life. Letās just wait for them to confirm or deny the rumor. As for me, I totally believe that they are together and I am happily waiting for them to announce their marriage.
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