Tidbits after un mes...
The first month has been quite the eye-opening experience in a multitude of ways, to say the least. It has introduced me to a new culture, full of life and love. The drastic culture-change induced quite a shock the first week, but it also left a many impressions that I hope to remember back in the states. I have learned more about Non-Governmental Organizations and how small international development foundations function, especially in the education sector, than I could have hoped or anticipated. It has been the most incredible experience to come and live in the truths and theories of development that I have learned in international development classes during my schooling at UCLA. I have loved living and working completely immersed in the community, as with multiple homestays in the Batey, and seeing how important the relationships are on a personal and community-to-NGO level. In addition, working here has really opened my eyes to the need for development in a wide variety of sectors, and how each individual, both domestically and internationally within the community and organization, has specific skills, attributes, and passions that can make a greater impact when used to each person’s strengths. I could go on for pages and pages about all that I have learned and realized while working here thus far, both in how to best interact with communities, cultures, and people and also how to narrow down my overall interests and passions to best serve the developing community. I am overwhelmed by the amount of change that I hope to see in the world but have come to re-realize the importance of working together to ignite that change.
As simple as the following “week one” realizations sound, I would like to share a few “don’t take for granted moments”. Living here has made me appreciate many things back at home that I often took for granted, such as a few of these observations:
The few mosquitoes that come at night when eating on the back-porch in California are babies. Squash them with your pinky finger. These blood suckers are vampires with wings. They will leave red mountains on you if you have anything less than 60% DEET.
Cameras are magic. Mirrors are unthinkable. To see a picture or reflection of yourself is a gift, not a way to criticize yourself or pick out flaws.
A bed is a beautiful blessing. A bed without springs poking through is not something to forget.
So you mean that there are places that inflict continual sweat and wet clothing and make it so that you can’t fall asleep because of the warm air that engulfs and drowns you? Fans and AC are something not to be taken lightly. Those are fit for the gods.
Eat fresh food. The community would spit upon hearing of the amount of frozen, industrialized food that zooms through consumers’ Costco baskets on a daily basis, mainly for the purpose of eating to function. America, give thanks and use the food that you are blessed with. Make hot meals, eat together, wait for family to return from work, learn to cook “specialties”, take pride in your cooking skills, invite others to your home, eat less but eat better. Even here, they will eat nothing but a chicken that was alive three hours earlier. THAT is fresh and consideration of the quality of food.
Curvy isn’t fat. Curvy is “fuerte” and beautiful. Be you. Bigger hips can dance better anyway.
We actually don’t clean laundry in the US. I recently did laundry with my host mom, and that is a WORKOUT. You scrub the bajeebies out of every piece of clothing, probably making my clothes 500x cleaner here than at home with the high efficiency washer, and also giving you a half pound weight loss added bonus with every piece of clothing.
Many of these people truly live moment-to-moment and are constantly in the present. Future planning or investment in education, finances, etc is a forward thinking idea. Maybe save that extra $5 per week with pride, being thankful that you have learned to critically think and plan for the future, but also remember to live presently because that moment is truly a gift.
Showers now are the best part of the day. Running water for a shower is unthinkable in so much of the world. So for now, I will enjoy the bucket shower with canal water but will look forward to showers that will continually run down my face and have drinkable water, as it flows down like gold.
Love is universal. Children’s curiosity and love for life transcends all borders, and the adult world has a lot to “relearn” from these little bundles of joy. Laughter, hugs and smiles are all multilingual. When in doubt, show more love.
***And LASTLY, relationships and people are the spice of life. Families, communities, friends are priceless. Yes, love yourself, but also love and live for others. Anyone here would take being 1.5 hours late to a meeting (which in Dominican time is actually more or less right on time) and a conversation with his or her neighbor over getting the to-do list crossed off and priority list assembled, as many in the United States strive to complete daily. At the end of the day, that list is ever-so insignificant in comparison to how you treated the pineapple man on the corner or your neighbor as you ran out the door. Love your family, friends, neighbors and the people that make you feel at home. Take the time to get to know the people that make up the world around us. : )

















