Li

You deserve happiness + recovery ❤️| 17 | 5’2 |

[jackandniall-deactivated2021100]

here’s the link to donate to george floyd’s official memorial fund if you are able to contribute. if you can’t donate, please share. being black shouldn’t be a death sentence.

[seekndestroyy]

[iamvvv11-deactivated20220909]

!!!

[charliestudyblr]

Quick reminder,

This quarantine isn’t a productivity competition.

You do not have to:

- lose weight

- work out every day and get a 16 pack of abs

- cure acne

- master a new skill

- read 17 books

- change yourself in anyway

By saying you’re going to use this time to “glow up” is implying that you’re not already shining but bb you sure are.

It is ok to not lose 15 pounds and don’t beat yourself up if you gain a lil bit either. It’s natural, you’re at home and walks to the kitchen are pretty common.

It’s ok not to work out every day and get absolutely shredded. Sure get your exercise but don’t beat yourself up over not doing an intensive 30 day butt and ab workout. Who the flip cares!

It’s fine not to master a new skill. Sure find something to keep you occupied but you don’t need to master a whole new skill just because. Arts and stuff takes years to master don’t feel bad because you can’t get there in a week.

You do not need to change yourself in anyway. This is quarantine, our main goal is to survive. Don’t beat yourself up if you’re not solving world hunger or turning yourself into a model and certainty don’t beat anyone else up if they’re not.

This is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, you can’t achieve Self Actualisation if have not achieved your psychological needs and you can’t get psychological without basic needs.

Pretty much, make sure your wellbeing is in top knick before you try to accomplish every goal you’ve ever set or ever will set.

Keep safe and much love,

Charlie xx

[birdasaurus]

The Lane

[ana-chronisms]

Goodbye :)

Fuck you anorexia I really sorta recovered. I still have thoughts and urges and sometimes I skip meals but I dont hate myself anymore, I can eat without guilt, and I’m not miserable, I’m not consumed with thoughts about food and my body and weight loss. I found my passions and hobbies and am able to connect with friends and just be happy and truly truly live.

I learned that life doesn’t start at a goal weight, it starts when you’re free of your ed.

I just wanted to say goodbye and that i wish you all the very best and happiest lives because you deserve recovery. You deserve happiness. You deserve to enjoy food and love yourself.

And i hope that one day, I can give myself what I deserve, no matter how long it takes.

[skinny-capricorn]

my new roommate said that her last roommate had an eating disorder and then talked to me about her clean eating and weight loss goals and how she buys clothes that are a little snug to motivate her to lose more

and like honestly? i have anorexia but this is why i constantly talk about the dangers of the “health and fitness” industry and diet culture bc we have essentially normalized certain symptoms of disordered eating but it’s ok if it’s under the guise of health i guess???

like how is calling it “clean” eating NOT a way to moralize food

how is intermittent fasting NOT the same thing as skipping meals

how come when i buy clothes that don’t fit, it’s something i have to tell my therapist about because it means i am putting pressure on myself to fit into them, but if a “normal” person does it then it’s just motivation for them?

where is the fucking line???

and more importantly when are we going to start acknowledging that the entire world is pro-ana but that’s too harsh of a description so we slap some health buzzwords on it to make it palatable

when are we going to take responsibility for encouraging disordered behavior instead of labeling those of us with EDs as the crazy/imbalanced ones

your fucking Whole30 or keto or whatever “clean” diet you’re on is just as restrictive as the diets we create for ourselves due to our disorders. but we are the crazy ones, right

[devastating-obviously]

Fucking repost.

[jo-zee-deactivated20200619]

[ldma3737]

where’s the line? I don’t see one……and yet I’m still different.

[ldma3737]

“Love isn’t something you have to deserve.”

— Jennifer Echols // Such a Rush (via qvotable)

[avosoph]

self care sounds so basic but please don’t underestimate how difficult it is just to clean your teeth and wash your face when all you want to do is die

[gxylien]

Reblog if it is 104% okay to come to your ask and just say 'Hi can we be friend's and then start asking you random questions.

[thin-dreaming]

bruh fr hmu 

[malleficarvm]

Stop this “work hard” bullshit. You deserve free time, you deserve sleep and you deserve mental health. You deserve to procrastinate and you deserve to have your hobbies. You deserve it. You need it. No one should work & study all the time.

[lmm-43]

It sucks that you have to keep yourself busy to feel okay.

[inkskinned]

do you ever just want to shout like… it’s because i’m sad! like yes i didn’t do my homework, yes i didn’t text you back, yes i’ve been hiding in my room! i’m sorry! but i haven’t killed myself so honestly where is my badge!

[strawbabii]

!!!!!!

[dreamsofthinness]

and that's a fact

[starvanity]

[skelephilia]

Are My Clothes Baggy From Weightloss or Are They Just Stretched Out?: an anorexic psychological thriller

[miniyoongi43]

The sequel:

Can I wrap my hand further around my wrist because of weight loss or is it just years worth of practice that makes it so easy?

[theroguefeminist]

little known fact, once you are older & no longer in school, time stops being real. did that thing happen one year ago? two? five? a few months ago? who knows. 

[whitepeopletwitter]