My goodness…so I’ve finally arrived back in the UK to finish up my finals and such…after graduation, I decided to stay for about 4 days in the bay area to catch up with my family and also prepare for my finals as well.
SO, without further adieu…I wanted to let you guys in on a few things when you arrive in the UK…
Your financial aid advisor/study abroad advisor will and should inform you of this, but the border patrol WILL ask you for proof of financial support for your time being, will ask where you’d be residing at, and for how many days. Things will get person, my first time that I went through the UK border, a man was very kind and cleared me in. BUT MY GOODNESS the second time around was the most worse experience ever. I was told to go up to this lady who looks in the her late 20’s, and was very rude…
First she asked for my papers/visa letters/ and I showed her everything that I had shown the man previous (the first time I arrived) and she then proceeds to ask why I left in the first place and came back, so my answer was very clear, “I’m a study abroad student, I had to go back to walk for commencement/graduation. I had already told the school, and my study abroad advisor at my host institution and had it cleared.”
She did not look convinced…so she then asks where I would be for one month since I’m extending my stay…she wanted to know what my future plans where for those 30 days. I told her that I would tour around London, then she says, “you don’t need 30 days to see everything. Are you lying?” Look guys, the point of all this, is that I want you all to know that these people exist, regardless of whatever country you’re entering. A co-worker comes by and gives her a stamp that she needed and in a childish tone she responded with, “Aww, thanks bae!” and then returned an annoying gaze with a serious tone and told me, “No buts or ifs, you have to leave by the 26th of June.” My goodness…if only the Queen herself her this ignorant woman.
Anyways, I stayed clam and collected…and being on a rough 11 hour flight didn’t help much either. So here’s something that I did…I reminded my swell that this situation and person is only temporary. I figured, I’m better than her. I know better, so I kept my cool and made sure that she cleared me and said thank you and left.
It’s something hat my Mom taught me…she told me that everywhere/anywhere I go, I should remember that I have the name of my family on my shoulders, and how I represent myself as a Korean American to the world.
-Keep it classy and never trashy Bobcats :)!