i'm a very empathetic person, i always try to put myself in someone else's shoes and understand their feelings. but there's one exception when someone cheats on the person they claim to love. I will never understand that, and I don't want to. yes, it might be about new emotions, but is a few minutes of pleasure really more important than the trust of someone who loves you? this applies to both men and women. I don't understand how people can apologize for something they had already decided to do, and honestly, I think people who accept that kind of betrayal don't respect themselves, their loyalty, or the love that was betrayed. Reading stories about cheating makes me feel like maybe I'll never be in a relationship, because it seems like you can never fully trust anyone lol