→ Venus Through the Houses 🪷 (the third house)
The manifestations of having the planet Venus through the houses in the natal chart, in a wider perspective, without being predictable about it.
DISCLAIMER 1: I am NOT a professional astrologer, traditional or modern. I study astrology for a few years, and this is a collection of what I've learned, and what I've seen manifested in real life.
DISCLAIMER 2: Use caution and discernment when reading, and understand that this post is about one isolated planet in one isolated house in a chart. There are 12 houses, 6 major planets, 3 outer planets, and at least 5 possible major aspects between planets in your chart. Those detail can and WILL affect how the energy shows up in your life personally, so it might not apply to you. I'm not saying you are like all this, but some of it could apply to you or someone you know. Everybody is unique.
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At a base level, all planets lend their energy to whatever house they touch, regardless of the individual nature of having that planet in a specific sign, degree and aspect. Mars will inject vigour and energy into the themes of that house. Saturn will make those themes challenging, but maturing and responsible. Moon envelops the themes of the house it sits in with emotional depth and sensitivity. So, naturally, Venus imbues whatever house it's located in with love and passion. And the 3H is the house of communications. So Venus here has A LOT to say, and she wants you to hear it.
A 3H Venus will be passionate about communication and exchange. It wants something to tell. If Venus in the 1st is the planet of love at her flashiest, and the 2nd house Venus debuts her at her most luxurious, on the third house Venus is at the most excited she could possibly be, like a curious child at the playground. The poets who wrote stories about Venus definitely had her blessings in their 3H.
Venus in the 3rd house 👄🗣️
The good 😊:
Passion for communication, often being very verbally expressive of the things they love.
LOOOOVES to talk and will not shut up if they feel comfortable. It's adorable, cause they look like overexcited kids.
Popular around the neighborhood. The type to talk to everybody and know everybody.
Very much easy charmers. They can win people over with their words.
This one is random and may be niche, but it's not uncommon for them to either drive a motorcycle or like riding bikes.
Creative minds. They can come up with speeches on the spot.
Very persuasive, only behind 7H and 1H Venuses.
Generally good personalities, if nothing is afflicted in their charts that prevents it.
Can easily make people feel like family.
Good dancers, and gymnasts.
Great storytellers.
Good listeners.
Can pull off the most diverse looks (way more than Aquarius/11H Venuses).
Youthful appearance, specially as they age.
Are often quite smart, but I've seen it manifest more as "street smarts".
Usually good friends, with high spirits.
The type of friend who will get you into places, will arrange opportunities for you, and make adventures possible, because they are the bold ones who take the lead and just go ask for things.
Good with teenagers. Teens tend to look up to them, as they are both somebody who's older, but youthful at the same time. This presents them with the opportunity to maintain their young heart (and mind) through interacting with younger people.
The best at staying up to date with trends. They give "TikTok Millennials" energy in the best way possible.
Could have good handwriting, good vocabulary, or just communicate in a sophisticated way.
Could have good, balanced mental health.
GREAT ears. They pick up on things they hear very quickly, that goes from learning languages and having good pitch when singing, to overhearing people's conversations from faraway distances lol.
The bad 😠:
Unstoppable yappers. Wiil. Not. Shut up. Even, and specially, when they really, really should.
Gossippers.
Verbal bullies, when expressed in a negative energy. Will mock people just because they think it's funny. The type to bully you harder if you cry.
Could be competitive with people who are smart, to a point in wich they will try to ruin a person's reputation just to prove to THEMSELVES that they were the smarter one.
Another possible manipulative position for Venus. And these are scary, cause they can be sociopathic about it.
The type to say "oops! 😏" after purposely messing people up.
Could struggle with unwanted weight loss, or difficulty gaining weight when they want to.
If gossiping is not their №1 vice, smoking has the second highest chance to be.
WILL become cranky if overestimulated. And verbally abusive, if you keep adding to it.
Can behave like high schoolers, even after they are pretty much adults.
Mischievous.
Might have a funny habit of lying. Sorry, CREATIVELY EDITING THE TRUTH lol.
Tendency to overexplain themselves.
Bad at keeping secrets or sensitive information.
Could have ruined their fair share of friendships by flirting with their friends just for a laugh, and getting weird when the friend actually catches feelings.
Could have pretentious tendencies.
In love 💕:
Communication, talking, conversing, exchanging... They need it. They crave it. (Same with Gemini Venus).
If their partner shuts down or doesn't communicate their thoughts, this relationship is doomed.
Tendency to play mind games and manipulate their lover when trying to conquer them.
Will win you by ear (or be won by you). They will sweet-talk their way into any romance they set their mind on.
Likes long talks and sharing of secrets and personal stories. The only other Venus that loves discovering their lover's every secret and history more than 3H Venus is a Scorpio/8H Venus.
Needs a best friend in a lover.
Lives for the friends-to-lovers love story. And it doesn't take much to seduce them. Just be their friend first, and then make a move that catches them by surprise, like kissing them on the cheek or a closer touch when they aren't expecting. They might not show it on the outside, but inside they are running around like giddy teenagers.
This is the TRUE friends and lovers placement. Not Aquarius Venus, not 11H Venus. This one (and Gemini Venus).
Most likely to either date a friend, a friend of a friend, a neighbor, or a complete stranger they met randomly. No in-between. It's either someone from close proximity, or someone from a completely unexpected background.
Could have a difficulty admitting when they are wrong.
Could struggle with gaslighting their partner.
Could have a fear of sharing feelings and vulnerabilities, but feel betrayed if their person doesn't share theirs.
Can be "distracted" in love, sometimes hurting or offending their partner and not even noticing it's a problem they're causing.
Doesn't think flirting is cheating.
Could cause drama in the relationship just out of boredom.
Will be their lover's best buddy, and will be up for any adventure.
Will try their best to make their lover smile.
Wants to keep conversations light and fun.
Considers venting a love language, and needs their lover to listen to them retell their entire day, but also wants to hear all about their person's too.
Will not get bored of talking to people they love.
Compliments a lot. And creative or unexpected compliments too.
Excited and fun.
Fall hard for slow-burn romance, as they love being a mystery even to themselves, and the process of slowly realizing their own feelings.
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