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𝚜𝚑𝚎 / 𝚑𝚎𝚛 • 𝚋𝚒 • 𝟸𝟹 🩷 ⁱ ⁿᵉᵉᵈ ᵐᵒⁿᵉʸ

[dollbed-deactivated20190625]

think of me when the sky is pink

[anna1228]

who said 6am classes was a good idea? 💔

[sillykittyee-deactivated2025061]

i want an older bf that’s obsessed with meeee

[dollkisses05]

What I need rn

[yourbbystar-deactivated20260225]

Omg I have such a thing for older men with deep voices (o^^o)

[lilithland-deactivated20241226]

ridiculous how stupid a simple good girl makes me

[scuzer-deactivated20230916]

Yeah I was embarrassing when I was 15 who isn’t. Was also Embarrassing at 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. Last week. Yesterday

[daddydomchair]

Having your little sitting on daddy's lap as you both color and watch cartoons together, you rubbing circles on her though with your thumb, and her playing with your hair and giving you random cheek kisses <3

[anna1228]

Yes🥹💕

[deleted77675-deactivated2024020]

>>>>>>>>

[meltyparfait]

@cho.xhrl

[meltyparfait]

@hakumai0121

[macherieamourr]

[8ngelthighs]

[anna1228]

😍😍🥺🥺

[everythingfox]

good rubs

Woody

[daddyslittleeekitten]

[lullabylyssa]

Are you okay, little one? Oh, you don’t feel good? What’s wrong, baby? You can tell me. Your period started and you feel icky? I’m so sorry, sweetheart. I’m here. Do you want your paci? No? You’re not feeling smol? That’s okay, sweetie. I know it’s difficult for you to feel smol on your period. How about I go warm up your stuffie heating pad for you and get you a snack? Would that help? Of course, sweetie. I would love to do that for you. Would you like to pick something out for us to watch while I go do that? We can watch anything you’d like to watch. Oh? You want to watch a Disney movie? So would I. That sounds perfect. Is there anything else that you want me to get for you while I’m up? Oh? You’d like your paci now and for me to fill up your sippy? Of course, little one. I can do that. I’ll be back in a few minutes. You pick out the Disney movie, okay? I love you.

[clumsykami]

How to: Aftercare your Sub

Ideas and Tips

These tips may vary depending on what your sub likes/enjoys or doesnt like/enjoy.

Try taking these into consideration before anything else:

Always ask how they feel, does anything hurt?

Make sure they know they are safe and you care about them

Simply ask if they need anything, Reassurance? A glass of water? Cuddles?

Respect if your sub needs some space, doesn’t feel like talking, or just wants to sleep

After Care Ideas

• Holding/ Cuddling your sub

• Praising them: ex. ‘You were such a good girl’, ‘You did so well’

• Treating any wounds: ex. from spanking, rope burn, etc.

• Putting a cold/warm wet compress on any welts, cuts, or bruises

• Kissing any welts, cuts or bruises

• Running them a warm bubble bath

• Wrapping them into a warm fluffy blanket

• Massaging them

(w essential oils, sensitive skin lotions)

• Watching their favorite movies, shows

• Listening to their favorite music*

*preferably soft, calm music

• Giving them a treat they enjoy

• Carrying them where ever they might need to go

The Importance of Aftercare

Aftercare is not only very important but essential, for both vanilla and kinky sex.

Sub drop is how a sub might feel depression/anxiety or even considering their self worth after sex, especially BDSM/Hardcore Sex.

It is very important to be there for your sub as well as reassure them that they are safe, and you care for them.

This is also when you tend to any wounds that may have occurred during sex, like welts, bruises, cuts or rope burns.

DO NOT:

Immediately leave your sub alone or unattended to for an extended amount of time after sex! especially after hardcore/rough/bdsm sex scenes.

Leave any wounds received by the sub unattended to

Try to jump into some unrelated activities THAT CAN WAIT, without proper after care; ex. asking them to do chores, get ready to go grocery shopping.

Failure to comply with essential aftercare risks the trust you and your sub share and your subs mental security after sex,

especially after Hardcore/BDSM/Rough Scenes; ex. Rape Play, Bondage, Spanking, Anal Play and many more.