Anni Sugar @annisugar - Tumblr Blog

you seem very appreciative of Joel, which is so nice to read. What was your rprevious relationship like prior to Joel?

It was cruel, manipulative and damaging. That's all I have to say on the subject.

How much do you earn? Won't the fact that you earn more than Joel impact your family planning process?

I'm not answering the first part of this question. I find it curious that you think this would impact our family plans, as there are many possible outcomes in terms of work once I have a child. Why is it automatically assumed that I will be the stay at home parent? I mean, this could play out so many different ways.Also - people have raised families on a lot less than what we earn. I wouldn't worry your pretty little head over it.

This is really personal, so you don't need to answer but I will ask anyway. Were your attackers ever caught and prosecuted?

No. I withdrew my statement because of the way the police and hospital staff treated me. I knew if I proceeded, there would be much worse to come.

What has caused your massive weight loss? Can you please pass on your tricks.

No tricks, just being treated for what made me put it on in the first place - PCOS

Similarly, if you and Joel had to form a superhero (or supervillain, we don't discriminate) duo, what would your team name be?

Oh god oh god oh god oh god I've been sitting on this one for a while because I'm awful at this sort of stuff. Um... The Love Nuggets?

What is a superpower that you think would be rad to have?

Butt lasers!!!!!!!!!!!

Do you have a favourite breed of cat?

Bengal! =^._.^=

How do you deal with jealously if any? Is Joel allowed the same benefits as yourself? Does he get jealous?

We've been fortunate enough to not have to deal with any jealousy so far, but we have discussed the possibility that it may happen. We can work through anything. :)Joel isn't interested in being involved with anyone else.

Are you in an open relationship? If so why?

Oh hai! Sorry, I don't use Tumblr any more so I only saw this now.

I'm not in an open relationship, but there are concessions within it. I do occasionally see other people, and it's always something which is first negotiated between me and Joel.

Why? Why not! I don't know if I could ever be truly monogamous. We're not jealous people. We recognise that there are aspects of my sexuality and desires that he simply isn't able to meet. And so far, it's worked out just fine.