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☆ name is angel, 22, i have a partner <3

☆ sext me!

☆ i will just block you if i want to!

☆ safe space for disabled and queer disaster people <3

☆ kinks:

- breeding, submission, light cnc, pegging, degradation, i like tummies hehe, humilliation, sweet little names for me pls, exhibition, watersports, and many more i'll be adding here

pawtheticpuppyboy

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default

erogina

someone left one of those Hermaeus Mora books out again how rude

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Hardcore…

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This…

ysongcloud

I reblog this every time I see it as it has good info and people need to know this. However, there are some panels missing… So I added them.

fag-in-texas

Always reblog!

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it’s also good to know which implements deliver which kinds of sensation! thinner, more flexible implements deliver sharp and stinging kinds of pain with relatively little force, and are more likely to break skin because the energy of the strike is concentrated over a relatively small surface area. broader implements, or ones made out of firmer materials (your hand is included here because: bones) usually deliver firmer, thuddy types of sensation that can ramp up in intensity and are more likely to bruise. riding crops can be somewhere in between (which is why they’re fun). floggers can distribute the energy of a single strike over much larger surface areas and the sensation tends to change depending on what material they are made of. i personally wouldn’t put them at a 10 pain level across the board. flat strips of suede are gonna give thuddier sensations than wrapped leather cords, which will probably sting.

bullwhips, like in the graphics, really need in-person safety training, imho.