This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.
When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.
I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.
This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy
This resonated with more people than I thought, so here are some phrases to practice when you would normally default to people pleasing:
I'm not comfortable with that.
I'd rather not, but thank you for the offer!
You're welcome to disagree, but that's not something I'm okay with.
No.
It's personal, and I'd prefer to keep it private.
That doesn't work for me. How about x
I respect your opinion, but I'd rather do it my way.
That is behavior that I don't tolerate.
To each their own.
I'm not looking for feedback right now, but if I'm looking for input later, I'll let you know.
Oh, I'm not sure I agree; I thought x
When you did/said x, I wasn't okay with that.
I don't accept your apology.
I can accept your apology once you've addressed the problem.
Hey, could you help me with x?
I need to stop.
I need some time to myself.
Just remember, your thoughts, feelings, and opinions are what make you unique, and you can change your mind later, so don't be afraid to say them out loud. Work through things. Don't dodge them.
happy 8k alicia🥹 would love to know what you think is the members favourite way to eat you out? the positions they love/if they use just their mouth/fingers too/wherever your wonderful wonderful mind goes🫶
seungcheol: loves the traditional way with you on your back so he can eat you out, would use his fingers and mouth and makes you cum at least twice
jeonghan: loves eating you out from behind, with you on all fours. uses his tongue more than his fingers, and orgasm count would depend on how he's feeling
joshua: doesn't have a set preference for positions, and alternates between his mouth and fingers. would usually only do one orgasm unless he's feeling mean
junhui: loves when you sit on his face to be eaten out, and mainly uses his mouth. i feel like he'd do anywhere up to three orgasms before fucking you
soonyoung: loves it when you stand and he kneels to eat you out, would use his fingers more but loves using his mouth to tease you. probably does max 2 orgasms otherwise you collapse
wonwoo: loves when you sit on a surface and he kneels between, would use both his mouth and fingers equally and makes you cum as much as he can
jihoon: I feel like he doesn't have a set preference for positions, uses his fingers more than his mouth, and would give you at Least two or three orgasms
seokmin: loves having you in a 69 position, alternating between his mouth and his fingers and would give you at least two orgasms before he needs more
mingyu: I think he loves having you standing while he kneels, and definitely uses his mouth more than his fingers. tries to go for more than three orgasms
minghao: I feel like he also likes the tradition of laying between your legs while you lay on your back, and uses both his mouth and fingers. aims to give you at least two orgasms
seungkwan: would like when you sit on his face, uses his fingers and mouth equally and would be giving you as many orgasms as you can handle
vernon: I think he loves doing it in a 69 style, and uses his fingers over his mouth, and probably does give you between one and two orgasms
chan: I think he really likes when you stand and he's between your legs, using his tongue and fingers equally, and would make you cum until you cant stand
wonwoo had lost count of how many orgasms he'd given you, but it was enough that your thighs were shaking and your eyes rolled into the back of your head.
with his cock buried deep inside you, his thumb and forefinger rolling gently over your nipple, he can feel your body tense through yet another orgasm, broken whines pushing past your chapped lips. he can't help but break out into a grin at the sight of you.
"w-wonu... need more..." your crackly voice makes him chuckle and he leans down closer to you, his lips grazing at your jaw. you shiver at the feeling, your arms reaching over his shoulders and gripping his skin.
"what do you need baby?"
"i need you, daddy."
it slips out before either of you can properly register it, and wonwoo is much quicker to get the thought through his lust-clouded mind. his cock twitches and his hips move on their own accord, thrusting harder and deeper into you than he thought he could go.
tears well in your eyes and your whines increase in pitch as he slams himself into you repeatedly, overstimulation bleeding throughout your body and sending your mind into overdrive. you're almost certain that you've punctured his skin with your nails, but the sting only drives him to drill into you harder.
"say that again."
"s-say what?"
"what you said before, sweetheart."
your heart skips a beat at the pet name, and you can feel yet another orgasm beginning to wash over you and your stomach is doing flips. the way he's staring at you, eyes dark and the sweat beginning to bead on his forehead, it has you going crazy.
"daddy, fuck me!"
you hear what sounds like a slight growl, and you aren't sure it is even possible, but his hips slam into you faster, until they seem like they are a blur.
Don't Mind Me, Baby. Just Enjoying the View - Changbin SKZ
Changbin was in the gym with Chan running through a workout, leaving you at home.
It was all going okay, you'd gotten the housework done and the last of your most recent assignment was complete. You were content watching a show until you received a video taken by Chan. The video was one of your gorgeous boyfriend completing horizontal rows, you could see all the muscle in his back and shoulders flexing. God your boyfriend was hot. You drop a quick thanks to Chan, while you watch the video on repeat. Eventually, you gave up trying to do something productive and decided to go and see the source of the wetness between your legs in person.
You walk into the gym, in one of Changbin's hoodies, and a pair of shorts. Chan notices you first raising an eyebrow as he watches you stare before walking out of the gym passed you.
"I expect everything to be clean." He hisses into your ear on his way past, you giggle making Changbin look up.
"Hey babe, what are you doing here?" You smile and approach him, straddling his lap on the workout bench.
"I'm just enjoying the view of my sexy boyfriend working out." You smirk, leaning in to kiss his neck.
"I'm all sweaty babe." He groans, holding your hips.
"Does it look like I care?" You say gently biting on his skin. He moans lightly.
"Good point." He groans rolling his hips up into yours. "What did Chan say to you as he left?"
"You're seriously asking me about Chan right now?" You look down at him, rolling your hips against his, moaning.
"I'm shutting up." You giggle at him, as he sits up to place kisses and nibbles along your shoulder and neck.
"Can I take this off you?" He asks beginning to lift the hem of the hoodie. You nod, allowing him to lift it up off your body over your head. Het lets out a groan as your breasts are revealed to him.
"No bra?" He smirks, leaning forward to swipe his tongue over your nipple, making you whine. You momentarily roll your hips against his before burying your hands in his hair. He scatters kisses and bites across your chest, then takes a nipple into his mouth causing you to arch into him.
"Please, Binnie." You moan out into the otherwise quiet of the gym.
"What do you want baby?" He asks detaching from your chest and looking up at you. His hands run from your hips down your things and back up to gently ghost his fingers over your clit. His fingers trace over your clit making you moan softly.
"Want more, want you to fuck me!" You whine out grinding against Changbin's fingers. He smirks at you, nudging you to stand up.
"Take your shorts off, wanna ride me?" He asks helping you to take your shorts off.
"Don't care, just want you in me." You push him to sit back after pulling his shorts off as well.
"Want what in you? My fingers? My tongue?" He teases, dipping his fingers inside you, and leaning forward to flick his tongue over your clit. He pushes his fingers inside you, your knees threatening to buckle as you stand in front of him. You shake your head struggling to get the words out.
"Your cock, want your cock." You whine out, making Changbin laugh pulling away pressing a kiss to your hip, the soft actions contradicting the twitch in his cock standing between his legs.
"Fuck baby." He groans, sucking a hickey into your thigh making you moan. Your legs tremble as your wetness threatens to drip down your thighs.
"Enough, please Changbin!" You moan loudly, pushing him back, momentarily pouting at the emptiness you felt, clenching around nothing. You straddle his lap again, using your hands to line his cock up as you sit down. Both of you moan as pushes into you. You sit in his lap with his cock inside you for a second, moans falling from your lips as you adjust.
"You look so pretty, doll." Changbin praises waiting for you to adjust, his fingers tapping a rhythm on your hips, kissing your neck and biting gently.
You smile down at him, slowly starting to move, rocking against him. This movement only pushes him deeper inside you, his tip catching that soft spongey spot inside; your head falls back a loud whine echoing through the gym.
"Fuck Binnie." You cry out movement speeding up, your hips dropping heavily against his. Your boyfriend groans below you, trying to push his hips up into you. The gym heats up, the mirror behind the pair of you steaming up. Though you couldn’t take your eyes off your form in the mirror, the way your breasts moved, the heady dark look in your eyes, how bitten and swollen your lips look as you ride your boyfriend, hands gripping him desperately. The sound of skin on skin, lips on skin, of moans, of love declaration fill the gym. Before one loud final stuttering cry sounds through the gym, as you wrap your arms around Changbin clinging to him, your legs trembling, and your pussy clenches and throbs around Changbins cock. His own low long moan falls from his lips, as he pushes up into him, the pair of you falling over the precipice into bliss. Both of you laugh softly, your hips still rocking slowly, making Changbin hiss softly, as reality comes back to the pair of you. You remember that both of you are in a public, communal gym at the company.
"Oh my god! I can't believe we just did that." You laugh almost highly, collapsing against your boyfriend. Changbin laughs loudly wrapping his arms round you in return.
"Come on lets go, I still have something I want to do to you." He says before leaning forward and kissing your neck and shoulder.
woke up this morning to a comment on a fic saying they hoped I didn’t mind them commenting on such an old fic, and the fic isn’t even a year old, so I’m going to reiterate: I can’t speak for every single fanfic writer in the world, but I don’t know a single one myself who wouldn’t be thrilled to get comments on years-old fanfic! there is no deadline! it honestly made my day
description: Subtle ways bf!skz simps for you when he can’t reveal your relationship.
pairing: bf!skz x reader
warnings: there is like one swear word
word count:
🐺Chan🐺
Makes a playlist
Loves you and also wants to keep your relationship private anyway
But also adores you and wants to show you off
He thought it would be fun to mess with Stay too
So he just started playing music that spelled out your name with the titles during his lives
He didn't do it all in one day because he was scared that someone would figure it out immediately
So he spread it across several lives
After he was done spelling out your name, he would just play your favorite songs
Or songs that would remind him of you
Or a song that you two heard while you were together and formed a core memory to
Would be blushing smiling like a dumbass while the songs are playing, remembering you and all the happy memories
Makes a playlist with those songs and shared the link on his bubble
He adds songs to it periodically so fans don't read too much into the order and see your name
🐰Minho🐰
A special hand sign
He's not the type who is big on matching couple items
And you were okay with that, he wasn't supposed to talk about your relationship anyway
But he was so in love with you, he wanted to tell the world
So he came up with a hand sign that he could do during performances and vlogs
Spent a lot of time researching sign language to make sure he wasn't going to do anything offensive or stupid
It also needed to be small and not complex so he could sneak it into dances
The first time he did it in a performance, he sat down with you and watched your reaction to the video
"Why did you do that? Did you forget the move and freestyle?"
You had sat through enough rehearsals and watched enough of their performances to know the choreography, especially Minho's parts, to know that he was not supposed to do that
"No, I did that on purpose." "Why?" "For you." "What?"
He let you sit confused for the rest of the video before finally explaining
The hand sign is meant to let you know that he loves you
And misses you
And is thinking about you
He did it every chance he got
It got to the point where Stay noticed and just thought it was a Lee Know Quirk™️
Naturally, they adopted it
You thought he would be annoyed that Stay was doing it too
"They're just helping spread and amplify my love for you."
🐰🐷Changbin🐰🐷
Wears a necklace with your name
Genuinely does not care about having to keep it a secret
Wants to shout it from the rooftop
And has
The only reason he keeps quiet is because you don't feel comfortable being in the spotlight
But he will wear a necklace with your name on it
Like a dog collar
It literally says "If lost, return to Y/N"
Smug bastard
Refuses to take it off
Won't even tuck it inside his shirt
Will even purposely show it with your name facing out in pictures
It has to be edited in every picture
It's either edited to read "If lost, return to Stay," made to look blank, or edited out completely
Stay thinks that the return to Stay is the original so they made their own versions of it
"If lost, return to *insert select skz member*" or "If lost, return to Stray Kids"
Fans don't try to read the necklace lance anymore, they just think it's the Stay one
It's also a tiny locket
Which you only found out about 3 months into him owning the necklace
Naturally, there is a little picture of you in it
🥟Hyunjun🥟
Couple rings
He wears a lot of rings anyway, so nobody would think about the one that you two share being a couple ring
Ot was the one ring he never swapped out so Stay just thought it was his favorite
They aren’t wrong
That thing is always on his person at all times
If if doesn’t match an outfit for a photoshoot or a performance he’ll either wear it as a necklace or in his shoe
One time he tried to be creative and tied it to his hair so you could see it when they did a close up for a performance
Naturally, the ring flew off when he was dancing and it was lost
Couldn’t even go on stage to look for it when he realized because another group was on stage
Had a mini panic attack and called you crying while the guys tried to help find it after the show
You tried to calm him down over the phone and tell him that you two can just buy a new one
He didn’t want a new one, he wanted that one
He knew he could buy a new one, but he couldn’t buy the memories that came with the original
He won it in a claw machine during the date where you two made it offical
It was one of those games where the prizes are actually expensive ans good quality
After you two redeemed the rings, he got down on one knee and “proposed”
“Y/N, will you make me the happiest man alive and allow me to be your boyfriend?”
And on your one year anniversary you two got each other’s names and your anniversary date engrave on the inside
A few days later a staff member brought the ring and told him how they found it when they were taking down the set
After that he mad sure all of his performance clothes had a tiny pocket on the inside just for his ring
🐿Jisung🐿
Paints one of his nails to match yours
It started randomly
You two were watching and anime together and you were painting your nails because you needed something to do with your hands
When you finished, you saw how engrossed be was in the show
So you painted his pinky nail to see if he would noticed
He didn’t
After you finished painting his pinky, you contemplated painting the rest of his nails to see how far you could get
Decided against it since it would be a waste and he would take it off soon anyway
“Look, we match!” Drawing attention to your handiwork
He looked confused at first
He saw how happy it made you and decided to just leave it
You were honestly surprised to see the nail polish still there 2 weeks later and slightly chipped
He was not happy to see that you had painted them a different color
“We don’t match anymore.”
It’d take you a second to realize that he was talking about the nail polish
"Let's get that fixed, shall we?"
"Can we put it on this finger this time?"
He would point to his ring finger
Wears his nail polish like a wedding ring
Has gotten to the point were you just text him when you changed the color
Would not let his stylist remove the polish or paint over it anytime he had to paint his nails for work
That nail was reserved you two only
Fans thought he was just trying to be stylish and different with the singular different color nail
He bought a large set of mini nail polishes so that he would be prepared for the next time you went and painted your nails
Takes them with him on tour with him so he can keep up
Stares at his hand fondly and thinks of you
🐥Felix🐥
Matching bracelets
He was helping you move out of your parents' house and into your first apartment when he found a bracelet making kit
Persuaded you into taking a quick break so you can make bracelets
You taught him a few simple braids that he could weave together on his own
Took him a few minutes but he got the hang of it
When you two were finished, he suggested that you two swapped bracelets
Only takes it off when he has to for work or when he's taking a shower
Stay once made fun of it because it was so out of place with all of his expensive accessories
"This is the most expensive accessory I own, actually."
He felt bad because the one you wore was like a shoelace compared to his
You had incorporated both his and your favorite colors and somehow added little heart beads
Bought his own kit and practiced making bracelets until he was satisfied
Surprised you with the new bracelet
"Now I have one for each arm." "You can just take off the first one." "Why would I do that?" "You don't have to pretend to like it." "Why would I pretend to like it? I love it, you made it for me. A Lix original."
Would try not to cry, and fail miserably, over those words while tying the bracelet for you
🐶Seungmin🐶
Keeps a photo of you in his phone case
You two went and printed photo cards of each other at the mall one day
It was one of those kiosk where you could upload personal photos and they print out in photo card form immediately
You guys have two each, one individual photo of each other and your favorite couple photo
He keeps the couple photo framed and will take it with him on tour
But the one of just you? That's on his person 24/7
He considered getting one of those phone cases where you could insert a photo card or a clear case but he knew that would only cause him trouble, you two were meant to be a secret
So inside the phone case it went where it couldn't be seen
That thing is so protected, even if his phone fell into a sink full of water, your photocard would be fine
Pulls it out and stares at it when he's sad
Or tired
Or anxious
Or stressed
Or mad
Or drained
Or happy
He's so in love with you that he's always staring
Especially when you two are apart for long periods of time
If you two are unable to video chat but can talk on the phone normally, he'll pull out the photo card so he can at least look at you while talking
Panics any time his phone is missing
That photo cards, and the countless other photos he has of you on his phone would be gone forever
If you ever ask him about where he keeps his picture of you, he will lie and say it's at the dorm or something
You can't know how much he is actually in love with you
Sometimes the boys will find him asleep clutching his phone and when they go to try and take it so that they can charge it, they realized that he was just staring at the photocard taped to the case
🦊Jeongin🦊
Sets a picture of you as his lock screen
It took a lot of work
Chan had to help him figure out how to do it at first
If anyone looked at his phone, they wouldn’t see you, they would see a random landscape
But, if anyone held down on the lock screen, they would see the landscape pan over to you and you would be smiling at the camera
He saw that trend where people were turning livid videos in to lock screens and figured it was the best compromise
Plays the video often when he misses you
Just sitting there, looking at his phone lock screen
Is careful how he holds his phone in public, does not want to accidentally trigger the video to play
Gets teases and called a simp for how often he looks at his phone smiling
Stray Kids Reaction to Another Member Walking in on You Kissing
Gif is not mine, and has no relation to the reaction - but is very cute!
Chan:
You’d visited Chan in the studio on a particularly slow day for both of you. Originally you were more than happy just sitting with your nose in a book on the sofa while Chan worked away at the desk. Every so often his head would bob to the track, and he would mumble lyrics under his breath. Eventually you gave up reading and chose to watch your boyfriend as he worked, Chan paused the track saving his progress before turning to face you,
“What’s up baby?” He asks, smiling at you.
“Nothing, my adorable kangaroo.” You grin teasingly. He chuckles under his breath moving to sit on the sofa next to you. You climb into his lap, smiling , beginning to play with the hair at the base of his neck. His hands held your hips tightly as he stretched up to kiss your lips. You kissed him back slowly, taking your time to get enveloped in everything that was your boyfriend below you. You make a small noise wrapping your arms around his neck, he took the opportunity to slip his tongue into your mouth simply enjoying the feel of you. Although the both of you hadn’t anticipated the door to the studio being thrown open by an over-excited Jisung and Changbin. Both let out a high scream and cover their eyes.
“I need to bleach my eyeballs.” Jisung cries, a pout puffing his cheeks.
“Chan we work there!” Changbin complains
“We weren’t doing anything!” You laugh.
“Uncover your eyes!”
“But you might have Chan shirtless! And then I really will need to restart my eyeball memory core processing.” Chan laughs gently as Jisung pouts
“What is it that you want?” He prompts gently as you climb from his lap.
Minho:
You’d joined Minho at dance practice and by joining you mean you sat watching as he went over the new choreography. Although to begin with you were keeping busy going over your manuscript, now all you could focus on was your boyfriend's thighs. Your eyes hadn’t left your boyfriend and he had noticed, catching your eye in the mirror and giving you his signature half smirk.
“You alright, love?” You nod, cheeks going red, hands going to hide your smile. He turns kneeling, pulling your hands from your face.
“God you're a tomato.” He chuckles, making you pout at him.
“Hey! Don’t pout at me, or else.” He grins.
“Or else what?” You smirk at him, pushing up to kneel, making him fall on to his butt. He shakes his head at you, bringing you down with him. You ended up laying atop him, arms supporting your weight. You don’t stop yourself from kissing him, he meets you eagerly, hands grasping at your hair and hips. You all but melt on top of Minho, pressing into him as his teeth nip at your bottom lip. It was at this moment that the practice door was thrown open.
“Hey! Ew, we are children!” You freeze hearing Hyunjin’s screech.
“I’m busy! What do you want?” Minho says as you hide in his neck, leaving teasing kisses while you do so.
“Yeah, very busy, what happened to practice?” Felix teases
“I got distracted.” Minho says, hissing quietly when you bite him gently.
Changbin:
He was doing nothing in particular when you blurt out,
“God you’re sexy.” Before smacking a hand over your mouth.
“Mouth too quick for your brain?” Changbin laughed, turning to you, and if he flexed a little extra, you weren’t complaining. You nod laughing at yourself shamelessly checking out your gym rat of a boyfriend.
“Come here!” You make grabby hands towards him. He indulges you, stepping towards you, letting himself be pulled on top of you.
“I’m gonna squish you, baby.” “Then squish me!” You say wrapping your legs round Changbin as he collapses on top of you. You meet his lips in a kiss, one that he grins into and easily kisses you back. Your legs tighten around him, keeping him pressed against you. You hadn’t thrown anyone away from you so fast until Minho walked in and screamed. Changbin cried out hitting the floor.
“What the hell?”
“I am so sorry Binnie.” You giggle sitting up looking down at your boyfriend on the floor.
“Minho what are you doing here?” Changbin says standing from the floor.
“I live here?” Minho shrugs, heading to the kitchen.
“We were busy!”
“I know it's why I’m not staying out here!”
Hyunjin:
You let out a squeal as you’re pulled off to a side hallway of the arena, you’d just watched your boyfriend perform in.
“Baby, Just me!” Hyunjin laughs wrapping his arms around you, before leaning you against the wall behind you.
“Are the boys not waiting?” You ask, reaching up to play with his hair.
“They can wait a bit longer.” He says leaning down to kiss you heavily. He lets out a sigh melting into you. You both lose yourself in the kiss, loving holding each other.
“Hyunjin!” Chan calls out from the main hallway. The pair of you don't hear him enjoying your moment.
“There you are! The stylists are waiting.” Chan says walking down the hallway toward the pair of you. Hyunjin groans, pulling away from you and turning towards Chan, following him back down the hallway to the dressing room.
Jisung:
You and Jisung were curled up on the sofa with an anime that you had started recently. You weren’t too interested in the TV, more focused on your adorable boyfriend. You found yourself tracing the slope of his nose, the curve of his lips and cheekbones with your eyes.
“What? Everything okay?” He asks, looking down at you out of the corner of his eye.
“Yeah.” You say, hearts practically beaming like lasers from your eyes.
“You sure?”
“Yeah, you’re just really pretty.” You smile, raising a finger to trace gently over the curve of his nose. He smiles at you sweetly, leaning down from behind you to kiss you gently.
“You’re not so bad yourself.” He says lips, barely leaving yours. You wrap your arms around his neck, pulling him so he lays on top of you. You both lose yourselves in the kiss, making small content sounds in the quiet of the dorm. Although said quiet was soon ruined with the entrance of the rest of the group.
“We sit there!” Jeongin cried out as they all stood in the middle of the room. You froze at their entrance, hiding your face in Jisungs shoulder.
“We weren’t expecting you all home so soon.”
“We weren’t expecting you to be sucking face.”
Felix:
Felix and you were getting rather competitive over league of legends, the noise level rising steadily.
“You can’t do that!” You whine.
“I can and I did!” He cries out, laughing.
“That’s rich coming from a bronze.” You smirk, trying to wind your sunshine of a boyfriend up.
“At Least I am bronze!” He laughs sitting back in the chair as the match finished. You however, were sat pouting.
“You could have let me win, Sunshine.”
“Maybe next time.” You pout at his response before climbing into his lap. You smile down at him from where you’re straddling his thighs.
“And now what are you doing?” He raises an eyebrow up at you, as you play with his hair.
“Letting you make it up to me.” You lean down and kiss him gently, waiting for his reaction. Needless to say, his hands grip your hips as he chases your lips. You smile and lean back down, melding your lips back together.
“And I will come back later.” Seungmin says turning on his heel after walking in on the pair of you.
“Ah, no, it’s fine, what did you want?” Felix asks, turning the pair of you in the swivel chair.
“I was just going to ask if you wanted to game.”
“Uh, bit busy.” You giggle.
“Yeah I can see that, I will come back later.” Seungmin nods, leaving the room.
Seungmin:
The pair of you were laying on his small bed with as much space between the pair of you as possible. But that was normal for you guys. What wasn’t normal though was the unusual need you felt to kiss your boyfriend - the pair of you weren’t the most affectionate couple. Despite this you couldn’t help but lean toward Seungmin and kiss him deeply, pressing him down onto the bed as you straddle him. You both had forgotten that the door to the bedroom was wide open. Though neither of you seemed to care as Seungmin held your hips, while your lips devoured his.
“Oi! Don’t ruin the sanctity of the dorm!” Yelled Minho as he stood on the threshold of the room.
“What sanctity?”
“Honestly, who knows. But keep the door shut.” Minho says, pulling the door shut and walking off leaving the pair of you alone.
Jeongin:
The pair of you were making the most of a free weekend and having a sleepover in the dorms. You’d started the day with instant ramen, the perfect sleepover meal, before settling under the covers of his bed to watch a random drama. And don’t be mistaken, the pair of you were paying attention to the show - to begin with at least. Though Jeongin soon got bored and began to lay open mouthed kisses along your shoulder and neck, adjusting the t-shirt (his) you were wearing.
“Jeonginnie, I’m trying to watch the show.”
“I’m not stopping you.” He teasingly bites down on your shoulder gently. You twitch away from him huffing.
“At least kiss me properly.” He does as told, rolling over you to kiss you deeply. You lost yourselves in the kiss, the show providing background noise to your heavy make out session.
“Hey! What happened to leaving space for Jesus!” Came Chan’s indignant cry as a pillow collided with Jeongin’s head making you laugh.
“When did you even get home?” Your boyfriend pouts
“Like 5 seconds ago. THe door stays open!” Chan says very much taking on his father of the group persona.
As an aroha I am deeply saddened by the news of Moonbins passing. My heart goes out to his family, friends and fans. He gave so many amazing performances and gave us fans so many laughs. I hope to still be able to enjoy and find comfort in those moments with the hope that he is now at peace and comfortable wherever he is.
Gif has no relation just an adorable gif of Felix - credit to original owner of gif
Chan:
It was late when you stood from your spot next to Chan at his desk in the studio, your back beginning to ache. Chan turned to you with a smile watching you stretch before noticing a dark spot on your jeans. His eyes dart down to your chair, eyebrows furrowing quickly as you follow his gaze. Your heart drops seeing the dreaded red stain on the grey desk chair.
“Oh shit, I am so so sorry, Channie.” You apologise to your fluffy haired boyfriend.
“It’s fine, you can’t help it. Although this might be useful.” He grins sheepishly, producing your preferred products from a drawer in his desk.
“How long have you had these?” You ask, a smile appearing on your face as you take the box.
“Long enough for Changbin and Jisung to tease me about being whipped.” He chuckles, shaking his head.
“Well I appreciate it.” You smile, kissing his head as you walk past him to go to the bathroom.
“I will sort the chair.” He says grabbing some stain remover from the cupboard - granted it was usually used when Jisung inevitably spilled ramen on the couch.When you reappear in the studio, the chair is clean, although a damp spot was now in the centre of the grey fabric.
“Let’s go home, Channie.” You mumble, tucking the box back into the drawer, as your boyfriend stands, ready to leave for the night.
Minho:
You and him were the epitome of domestic bliss in the dorm kitchen. The pair of you had decided to cook the rest of the rowdy group dinner following their gruelling day of recording. You had felt nothing out of the ordinary other than being more tired that day. Minho back hugged you sweetly under the guise of helping you chop the veggies but this quickly turned into him moving the veggies as you tried to cut them. He almost lost a few fingers in this endeavour. You’d soon had enough of his antics pushing him lightly away from you. Although you weren’t expecting him to disappear altogether leaving you in the kitchen to finish chopping the veggies.
“Hey babe, why don’t you go shower and change.” He says reappearing, holding a pair of his jogging bottoms, a hoodie, and a box of your period products perched atop the pile of clothing in his arms. Your face falls slightly noticing the box.
“I haven’t, have I?” You pout at your boyfriend who nods in response.
“Yeah you have, but it's fine, go shower and change, bring your clothes here and we can get them in the wash before the boys get home.” Minho says sweetly, waiting for you to take the pile of clothes from him.
“Thank you for not making a big deal out of this.” You take the clothes and leave the kitchen quickly. By the time you return Minho has finished cooking and was washing the spare dishes up.
“Wow you look almost as adorable as Soonie, Doongie, and Dori.” He grins at you and your sweater paws.
“Almost! Remind me not to ask you to choose between me and the cats.” You laugh as you put your clothes in the washing machine, switching it on.
“Oh there’d be no contest! The cats would win.” He says making you giggle.
Changbin:
Following the Dwaekki gym SKZ code episodes, Changbin had been trying to get you to come to the gym with him and the rest of 3RACHA, or Muscle RACHA as the fans affectionately called the producing trio. This all leads to your current predicament. You were following Changbin’s thorough instructions as you were bench pressing no more than the 20kg bar, but your arms still felt like jelly as you re-racked the bar finishing the set.
“I don’t understand how you do this? Are you not scared you’ll get squished by the bar?” You pout letting your arms dangle as you lay on the bench breathing hard. Changbin chuckles, shaking his head at you.
“That’s why you don’t go to the gym on your own.” He grins, trying not to make it obvious when he wraps his hoodie around your waist. You give him a questioning look as he leans down to talk into your ear.
“You’ve started your period baby.” He says quietly, kissing your cheek quickly. “I have a spare pair of boxers and jogging bottoms and some tampons in my bag. Not ideal I know, but better than nothing and we can go home when you're changed.” You nod up at your boyfriend, beyond grateful for him at the moment, for not making a big deal especially with Chan and Jisung also in the gym.
You return having changed, and watch Changbin for a moment finishing his workout with Chan.
“Hey baby, ready to go?” He smiles, dropping the bar he was deadlifting. You nod and grin at him, giving him a kiss as he stands up straight.
Hyunjin:
You had been invited to sit in on the boys dance practice by Hyunjin, a chance for you to hang out with your boyfriend. Eventually the boys broke to go and pick up the food they had ordered, leaving you and Hyunjin in the practice room. Hyunjin kissed your cheek standing behind you, beginning to run through the choreography, waving your arms like you were a puppet for him to control. The pair of you were in the middle of a move that had you crouched bouncing to the beat before standing. As you stood, you felt the tell tale drop that comes with starting your period. Your face screwed up in the mirror, as Hyunjin gave you a concerned look.
“What's wrong?” He asks, watching you in the mirror and wrapping his arms around you in a hug.
“I think I just started.” You pout, discomfort evident on your face.
“Stated what?” Your adorable boyfriend asks, quirking an eyebrow at you.
“My period, Jinnie.” You say stepping away from him to look through your bag for a pad “Ah shit, I don’t have anything on me.” You drop your bag.
“This might be quite useful then.” He grins, handing you the packet of pads from his bag.
“You carry these for me?” He nods, a blush colouring his cheeks. The boys, having returned from retrieving the food, tease Hyunjin as you leave the practice room to sort yourself out.
“At least I have a girlfriend!” Hyunjin says punching Jisung in the arm lightly.
Jisung:
You’d had a god awful day at university, everything that could go wrong, did. All you wanted was to curl up with your boyfriend and watch TV. You’d texted him about your day and received many kiss emojis in response leaving a smile on your face. The emojis were followed with an invite to come over, which you quickly accepted. You make your way over to the dorms, Jisung opening the door letting you in before wrapping you in a hug and kissing your hair.
“I have an awkward question to ask.” You say quietly hiding your face in his chest.
“What?” He asks swaying you slightly face to face
“Have you got any tampons here still?”
“Head to the bathroom, there should still be some in the cabinet.” He smiles, unwrapping his arms and taking your bag from you. You return to the living room to see Jisung having grabbed a blanket and about to click play on your favourite drama. You all but fall into his arms, snuggling into his chest.
Felix:
You were spending the day at the dorms with Felix, as you both had the day off. You’d decided on making a batch of Felix’s famous brownies. Although you’d been delegated to decorating after an egg and flour mishap that you were still cleaning up. Felix had put the mixture into tins and then the oven before going to change the music playing. A cramp shot through your abdomen, leaving you doubled over leaning on the counter. Felix walks back in running his warm hands up your back, thumbs creating circles as he goes.
“What's wrong, love?” He asked though he already had some idea.
“Just cramps, Sunshine. I am so glad that I put a pad on just in case.” You mumble turning to hug your boyfriend, inhaling his aftershave.
“Good job we are making brownies then. I hear they are good for cramps.”
“You know what else is good for cramps?” You grin up at him as he looks at you curiously. “Kisses!” He shakes his head at you giving you a sweet kiss on the lips.
Seungmin:
You walked into the restaurant Seungmin and yourself had decided on for your date that week. You smiled and made your way to the back of the floor where your boyfriend was sat. You greeted him with a kiss on the cheek trying to ignore the aching in your stomach.
“I got our usual.” He smiles, reaching across the table for your hand once you were seated.
“It feels like ages since we were able to do this.” You smile, beginning to play with Seungmins fingers as you chat. As the food and drinks get brought out, you excuse yourself to the toilet quickly. Though Seungmin stands with you, wrapping his jumper around your waist. You give him a look as he does so.
“You got your period.” He whispers, “It’s okay, only a small leak so don't worry, check the pocket.” You nod and quickly go to the bathroom. You return soon, thanking your sweet boyfriend as you take a seat happy to finish your date.
Jeongin:
You’d gone to the company with the boys after having a sleepover with your boyfriend. One that was kept innocent thanks to Chan’s incessant want to keep the bedroom door open. Either way it lead to this moment, with the boys out either getting food or finishing recording with 3RACHA, you were sat in Jeongins lap grinning at him with kiss swollen lips. It was a sweet moment until Jeongin heard the others returning and poked you in the side making you squeal and throw yourself from his lap.
“Have I hurt you baby?” He ask eyes darting to a small red stain on his thigh from when you were in his lap. You give him a curious look shaking your head.
“No… Oh crap. I came on. Have you got a change of clothes?” You ask as he stands going over to his bag.
“Ah we are in luck! I have some jogging bottoms for you, and shorts for me.” He grins chucking the clothing at you, along with handing a pad he had tucked into the zipper of his bag. You laugh softly, following Jeongin out of the practice room, ignoring the looks from the boys, before Chans sees the red mark on Jeongins thigh and nods in understanding, letting you both go without a word.
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notes: female reader. some of the funny ones are based on conversations between me and family lol, and there'll be more in the upcoming posts for the other members
Parings: 08T x Reader
Word Count: 2.4k
Genre: fluffy comedy
Warnings: mentions of periods, blood, kissing and boys being idiots
Bang Chan
You woke up feeling the familiar cramping that you had grown accustomed to but still loathed that came along with your period. Wanting nothing more than to lay in bed with Chan and not move you grumbled when you heard the shower starting knowing that Chan would be leaving for work soon and wouldn't be able to cuddle all day long. Chan however was prepared for this he knew he was going to be busy with their comeback over the next month so in advance he went out to purchase you a new heat bag, bubble bath, bath bombs, chocolate and brought round one of his oldest but comfiest hoodies and put them all in a bag under his side of the bed a week ago. Walking back into the bedroom Chan smiled at you softly before pulling out the said small black suitcase and opening it next to you on the bed.
"Ok so hot bath first then movies in bed with a heat bag, my hoodie and chocolate for the rest of the day and I will order lunch for you alright Babygirl?" he quickly scooped you up taking you into the bathroom to run you a bath.
"I love you Channie" You sighed kissing his lips passionately.
"I love you more Babygirl" he whispered against your lips before kissing you deeply back.
Lee Know
Your cramps had come on early this month taking you slightly off guard which had annoyed you more than you were willing to admit. You often felt overly emotion in the first few days of your cycle Lee Know could see this as he watched you stomp around your apartment like a grouch for 10 or so minutes trying not to laugh as you huffed and sighed exaggeratedly to get his attention while throwing him puppy eyes.
"Kitten are you ok? would you like to go out for some coffee and cupcakes?" he asked smirking knowing that you were always going to agree to cake.
"Yes" you pouted
"The things I do for you kitten" he teased taking your hand and pulling you out the front door.
Changbin
Changbin had left early for the gym that morning which was probably for the best you realised as you stripped the sheets from the bed in a rage. You had woken up alone, in pain and feeling as though you had wet yourself which could mean only one thing that you had started your period during the night. You quickly and angrily took a shower, dressed yourself in the comfiest hoodie of Changbin's and sweatpants before aggressively throwing you pajamas in the wash.
Pulling the last corner of the sheet off the bed you heard the front door open. Hurringing to ball up the sheet you started yanking the cover of the quilt as fast as you can.
"Yah! why are you trying to kill the bed baby?" he yelled as he entered the bedroom to find you in a state.
"I'm not killing the bed I'm changing the sheets they smell" You huffed still trying to get the cover off without him seeing the blood staining it.
"No they dont baby I changed them yesterday. What's wrong?" He chuckled softly walking towards you and taking the covers from your hand. You froze when you saw that the stain was clearly visible to him now. "Oh" he said softly as he noticed the blood "why didn't you just say so baby it's fine" he soothed pulling you to him.
"you don't think I'm gross?" you asked
"never baby, why don't we put these sheets into soak and ill get us some breakfast? yeah" he soothed kissing your temple. you smiled up at him and agreed.
Hyunjin
You were always grateful to have such a romantic boyfriend Hyunjin took you on midnight picnics, sketched you while you slept, gave you flowers all time and left you little love notes all over your apartment. He was an angel and you were grateful but every month when your period came he became a little more distant not wanting to upset you or cause you anymore pain than you were already in which sometimes hurt you missed him and his care while he was too busy treating you like you were made of glass.
"Jinnie why won't I get to see you tonight" you whined into the phone pouting even though you knew he couldn't see it.
"Princess I don't want to cause you any stress you should be in bed relaxing" He sighed softly picturing the pout on your lips the furrowed brow and doe eyes that were accompanying it.
"I don't need rest" you continued childishly while sniffling dramatically "I need my Prince to cuddle me"
"Ok my prettiest one I will be there soon I promise" he cooed silently chuckling to himself.
You waited for him to arrive by making some hot chocolate you knew he wouldn't take too long to get to you he only lived on the other side of the suburb but when 15 minutes turned into 30 minutes and then 45 minutes you began to get a little bit agitated. Sitting on the couch your brooding was interrupted by Hyunjin struggling to open your front door.
"You said you would be right over….." you stopped yourself as your perfect Prince Hyunjin finally almost fell through the door holding a gigantic bouquet of roses, balloons and a oversize gift bag with a large teddy poking out the top. "Aww what did you do baby boy?" You asked tears springing to your eyes. As he handed you the gift bag revealing it was full of new pajamas and chocolates.
"I bought you things to make you feel better now come here and let me cuddle you" Hyunjin grinned looking like the cat who got the cream.
Han Jinsung
The first time you got your period while you were with you boyfriend you played it off as feeling unwell, the second time you had a terrible headache, the third you must have eaten something that didn't agree with you which lead you to your current predicament of Han searching the web frantically for what you disease you could possible have that made you sick for so long. You tried really hard not to laugh as he sat you so carefully on his bed in the dorm explaining that he had been doing so research into what might be wrong and he was getting worried about how serious the answers were.
"Hannie what do you mean researching?" you asked faking a cough to mask your giggle
"Did you just cough? I'm going to have to add coughing to the symptoms" He muttered seriously going back to the screen to do another search
"I do not have Diverticulitis or Appendicitis babe" You giggled closing the laptop on his fingers.
"The what's wrong with you cupcake almost half the time I get to spend with you your not well" He whined his eyebrows furrowing in distress
"There isn't anything wrong with me babe it's normal it's just my time" you began explaining gently
"Your time?" He shrieked leaping up from his desk to pull you to his chest "it can't be your time we have too many things we still need to do! You haven't met my parents yet, I haven't met yours, we haven't even really been together long enough to even be comfortable moving in together" His voice was getting higher and higher the longer he babbled on about the future he hadn't yet got to experience.
"Hannie. Stop. Let me finish" you soothed running your fingers through his hair and you sat him on the bed in front of you "it's just my time of the month babe" you kept carding your fingers through his hair as you watched the information sink in and his cheeks slowly heat up an adorable pink shade
"Oh. Oooh" He whispered to himself looking up at you foolishly
"And everyone says Hyunjin is the dramatic one" You chuckled kissing him deeply "But it means a lot that you were so worried Hannie. I love you" kissing him again he tugged you forward until you were straddling his thighs.
Felix
"Bubs! you made it" Felix grinned bouncing over to you from the couch he had been sitting on.
"Hello sunshine" you smiled back pecking his cheek "I told you I would" Felix had invited you to the studio to watch the end of their practice before he would take you out for a walk through the park and a picnic. He lead you back to the couch and sat you down in the spot he had just vacated as Felix placed a plastic box in your. You quirked your eyebrow and he went back to his bag to grab a grab a chocolate milk that he had put in there earlier.
"Open it, it's to make you feel better I know today has been hard bubs" he grinned again handing you the chocolate milk as he winked and turned back to the guys to retake their positions for the choreography. The song started as you poked the straw into the milk box and pulled the lid of the container squeaking loudly in surprise. The smell of chocolate chip cookies wafted up to your nose and you couldn't help that your eyes misted up at the sweet gesture of baking you cookies and buying you chocolate milk as a way to help you.
"No. no. no bubs" Felix called leaving his position to instantly crouch in front of you "No tears my pretty bubby" he whispered wiping at the moisture on your lashes.
"I'm fine I promise" You sniffed "but Chan and Lee Know will scold you if you don't get back to work" you murmured as you looked towards the others. He nodded quickly going back to his position as the others quietly looked amongst themselves.
"Yah! hold on you made her cookies? where are ours?" Changbin whined loudly as everyone got back into position to start over
"Hyung when you get your period I'll make you cookies too" Felix smirked watching Changbin's face and ears flush red.
Seungmin
You had spent the night at the dorm which wasn't entirely uncommon you sometimes had to stay to avoid fans or photographers and the boys never minded your company since you always helped cook for them or helped Felix bake goodies which they inevitably got to enjoy. Rolling over you found yourself to be alone in the room Seungmin must have gotten up a while ago since his side of the bed was cold and you couldn't hear the shower running. So grunting softly you got up feeling the standard discomfort that came with your period you decided to wash up and make an appearance in the kitchen for breakfast.
Seungmin heard you moving down the hallway as he finished making breakfast with Lee Know, he knew you had a bad nights sleep due to your cramps because he had woken up several times to help massage your stomach and lower back to help you get back to sleep. Not that he minded he just loved being with you even if it was during your monthly time he was happy to help you however you needed him to.
"Something smells amazing" You yawned stepping into the large dining and lounge area spotting Jeongin and Felix sitting at the table on their phones
"Breakfast is almost ready Boo sit down and I'll bring you some coffee" Seungmin grinned watching you slowly sit in the seat beside the one he usually sat in.
"But shouldn't I be making breakfast to apologise Minnie?" You asked guiltily looking at the plate of pancakes Lee Know carried to the table.
"Nope" he shrugged putting the plate down in the middle of the table "Seungmin said you were in too much pain to cook so just enjoy it" He smiled at you making you blush lightly. Seungmin sat down next to you placing your coffee in front of you before pecking your cheek.
Jeongin
You had been with Jeongin for a few months now but had decided early on the you wanted to take it slow not only due to both of you not having a huge amount of experience but also because with him being an idol you were not going to get the normal amount of time to get to know each other. Due to this there was so much about you that Jeongin either wasn't aware of or had never thought about before one of these thing of course was your menstrual cycle.
You had been playing around in the rehearsal studio together waiting for his other members to arrive for their practice session. you were play fighting, eating candy and laughing at each others jokes when Chan and Felix arrived. Getting up to greet them you were instantly made aware of something being wrong as Jeongin let out the most dramatic gasp you had ever heard.
"Oh my gosh! did I hurt you while we were playing around? You're bleeding!" He cried running over to you to look you all over. Your face immediately turning dark red all the way to your ears when you saw your reflection from behind in the mirror, a dark red stain on the back of your light denim jeans.
"N-no I-I'm F-fine" you stuttered awkwardly as you hoped the floor would swallow you up. Chan and Felix instantly deducing the problem swung into action.
"Innie have you got a pair of spare sweatpants in your dance bag?" Chan asked walking the maknae over to his bag while Felix pretended to busy himself with his own stuff. Jeongin shook his head looking bewildered and Chan began taking off his hoodie to hand to you "Here kiddo put this on and head to the women's bathroom down the hall ok?" You nodded quickly taking the offered clothing and darting from the room.
When you returned 5 minutes later the others had all arrived making you feel worse but at least Chan's hoodie was massive on you almost looking like a dress. You smiled shyly at the others as you quickly sat on the couch so you were out of everyone's way.
"Here" Felix whispered kindly handing you a brownie "I made these earlier for when we finished but you can have some now"
"Thank you hyung" you murmured before taking a large bite and grinning. Jeongin was meanwhile looking very embarrassed probably due to Chan and Felix having to explain what was happening while you were in the bathroom.
"So….is anyone going to say why Innie's girlfriend is in Channie hyung's clothes or are we ignoring that?" Han looking over the three of you
"No"
"Nope"
"Yeah Nah"
"Ok good chat" Han finished before they all took their positions for the choreo run through.
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