Not-So-Helpful Tarot Questions
While it's not exactly nice or fair to ever label any question as "bad", "dumb", etc..... however, there are questions that will not lead to any kind of helpful response nor any logical answers for anyone involved. These types of questions will bring more confusion & most often than not, feeling like the reading was pointless. So let's try to avoid all that..
The point of this post is to try to weed out those kinds of questions for tarot readers to receive & for all of us to learn from; this will make future readings be what most of us utilize them for:
For people who are requesting the readings, and aren't sure how to ask for the information you seek, majority of readers will be happy to work with you on making a tarot spread with questions that are reasonable & how to ask them in a way to ensure you get the answers.
Asking "Who will I marry?" assumes your future is already written & that you have no choice in the matter...which is not the case.
Tarot is much better at showing you how to find a healthy partner or what patterns you need to break to be ready for love.
Also, I'm not really sure what kind of answer people are particularly seeking with this kind of question. Do you expect me to pull a card that says "Tom Smith from Florida"? 🤔🤷
• "When and how will I die?"
Once again, your future is not a set in stone thing. Your future potentially holds various outcomes depending on your choices.
Also, turns out the cards don't exactly have any specific dates on them nor do they have specific "causes of death" listed....
• "When will Bob and Hilda finally break up?"
I'm gonna start off on this one by saying: that is not any of your business. Respectfully. Whether you're in love with Bob or Hilda or both, their relationship is theirs and theirs only. If it was somehow your business, you wouldn't be having to contact Tarot to ask about it.
Also, most readers do follow some ethical guidelines. Peeking into others lives, especially when they are totally unaware & have not given any permissions to do so... This is an invasion of privacy. I try to respect the privacy of everyone.
• "What does my soulmate look like?"
There also, is no tarot card that speaks directly to a hair color or a height of an individual or etc. There is also a lack of photos of people in the world on the cards.
Sorry for being a smart ass, but honestly... What kind of answers are people really expecting with these questions?
• "Should I dye my hair blonde or red?"
I'm not even jumping into or even dipping a single toe into this pool of inquiry. Most of my previous answers cover this one as well. 0
• Questions Regarding Any Communication With Spirits/Ghosts/Entities/Etc.
⚠️First of all, this can be risky and dangerous.
The Spirit World, regardless of your personal beliefs, is still unknown to those of us who are living. While attempting this, if you aren't properly educated & trained or experienced in this field, you do not know what doors you may be opening yourself up to, or who you are actually communicating with.
Just like with living people, some entities and spirits can & have & will lie to you, manipulate, etc.
If you wish to have a serious type of communication with someone or something that is not of the living world, I strongly suggest contacting a professional that is trained to do so.
In other words, that ain't me, folks.
Questions Regarding Anyone's Medical Health And/Or Medical Advice/Treatment/Diagnosis; Questions Seeking Financial Advice, Regarding Legal Advice/Assistance:
I am not a medical or psychiatric professional. I am not a financial advisor or broker. I am not an attorney, legal aid, or the like. I am not any kind of trained or certified professional in any field, actually.
We are supposed to say tarot is for entertainment only and should not be used in place of any help or advice that requires a professional.
