arlgray @arlgray - Tumblr Blog

yo, i’m arlo

just a gay trans guy thats blog changes depending on the autism season, features include

hawkeye comics

criminal minds

station 19

pokemon

dungeon meshi

pitch perfect

the pitt

law and order svu

fyi: 20 years old 🇦🇺

#my tags #arlo says stuff #arlgray original

ssswzjs

besties

ghostlypawn

making #CONNECTIONS

ghostlypawn

nawwww theyre still fucking 3 months later

crowshaped

happy mentos mthursday

basilhallwardmybeloved

One day dr mel king is gonna get a masc haircut and it’s gonna be over for everyone

lostlamblizzie

forever thinking about the fact that perlah alawi also had such a terrible awful fucking shift and managed to smile through most of it. stay her reliable self through most of it. even her emotions over louie didn't take over. she only let herself break on the roof, after the shift was done. perlah alawi I love you so so so much

spiderbitesandvampirevenom

WHEN THE MODERN FRAMEWORK OF GENDER, SEX, AND SEXUALITY WAS LITERALLY BORN OUT OF 19TH CENTURY RACE SCIENCE YOU CANNOT DISCUSS FEMINISM OF ANY KIND WITHOUT HAVING TO FIRST DISCUSS THE RACIALIZATION OF GENDER ASSIGNMENT/PERCEPTION

spiderbitesandvampirevenom

like i cannot stress enough that when "man" and "woman" got codified "scientifically" in the 1800s as intrinsically seperate categories within western society THEY EXPLICITLY STATED BLACK AND BROWN PEOPLE WERE TOO PRIMITIVE TO DEVELOP THIS DISTINCTION. WE WERE QUITE LITERALLY SEEN AS A THIRD UNDIFFERENTIATED CATEGORY BELOW (WHITE) MEN AND WOMEN.

spiderbitesandvampirevenom

Like you CANNOT divorce gender as a construct from race as it was literally born out of the social construct of race. Black/Brown Trans Woman and White Trans Woman are, for all intents and purposes, discrete gender identities historically speaking. And the worst part is that this way that both Black/Brown women of ANY gender have had to fight to be recognized as people - much less women - should be a point of solidarity between white trans women and black/brown women. but every time we try to have this discussion it turns into a fucking flamewar bc of white fragility

cyberpunkpavlichenko

South American Feminist Maria Lugones discusses this in The Coloniality of Gender.

ghostlypawn

the actual emmy noms i care about

theartintrying

the amazing dr santos! (she can't wait for the shift to be over)

mistydear

historic moment for the emmys! regardless of your feelings about the nominees, sepideh moafi is the first persian woman in history to be nominated for the role of best supporting actress! that’s a long-overdue milestone that i’m thrilled to see achieved

puppiegracie

the blep twins

lostlamblizzie

meltos definitely do the three taps for I love you. it's easy, comforting, convenient. sometimes trinity's not so good at coughing up vulnerability like that. sometimes mel gets overwhelmed, goes nonverbal. so they learn to communicate that they still care, even silently, giving each other that reassurance.

trinity giving three soft taps to mel's thigh while her legs are thrown over trinity's lap, lazing on the couch. I love you. mel purposefully clicking her pen three times when trinity passes her at work. I love you. trinity tugging at mel's braid three times, a little teasing, grinning. I love you. mel pressing three kisses to the back of trinity's neck as they lay in bed. I love you.