Yes baby I know you're not into this.
Youre not into pain or playing small. I know you dont want to be weak or have to follow a bunch of rules or tell me youre my bitch (*eyeroll* really? Thats what you think I'm into?).
I know youre usually the Dominant one and this just doesnt do it for you.
But we're just trying out this new rope. Just a couple of kinky people having a nice hang out while I learn knots (Ive never been real good at them, my stubby little hands and all, and I get so confused so easily) and you can tell me if I did it right. Real Doms would test out ties, too, you wanna know how pressure points feel against knots so you can be mindful when youre in charge.
Because thats what you like, right, being in the lead, taking care of someone, controlling the situation to the last beat.
And thats ok. I'm not tying you all that tight, anyway. I dont have the upper body strength, of course. Just got your arm snug against your back. Does holding that little stretch feel good? I know your shoulders hold work tension and your pecs get to feeling a little tender and locked up. A little straighter posture helps, too, right? Not so bad.
Its nice to feel some relief I bet. To talk outloud in a comfortable stream of thought and know I'm listening, really listening, and want you to keep going. Sure I'm trying to concentrate, but you know I always have the TV or a podcast on, youre not distracting me. All my attention is on you. What youre saying, how your body reacts when I slowly pull the rope against your shirt to finish a knot and pull it just-tight. My hands smoothing parts of your shirt that bunched, tracing to make sure the rope goes where it should. My hands, eyes, and listening never wavering from you. Isnt it nice to be the center of attention? To know what youre thinking and feeling matters- is all that matters right now.
"How does that feel?" I'll ask while testing how tight a knot is pushing into you. Every time you shift to test it and find it actually laying tight enough it doesnt give against your movement, maybe even surprise wince at it, I'll give your neck a little kiss and caress from your head down your body. Make sure you relax again and show you how much I appreciate that you would rather be a little uncomfortable for a bit longer so I can keep busy. Youre so good at taking care of me, baby, always working so hard.
Both arms nice and secure? Good. Let me take a couple pictures real quick so you can see. A couple spots need work. I'll remember next time. But why start over, we can do some simple leg ties and maybe go back to add more points across your chest. Youre in the middle of explaining a thought to me, anyway, why stop now.
This is so nice, right? Obviously, no one could see you and expect anything from you. No one would look at you and think oh he looks big and strong, he could protect me, he can probably handle anything, help me with anything. You do all those things all the time and so well. But right now no one is going to think to ask you for anything. Even people who know you and know you're the guy to go to- not just strong but smart, intuitive. You always know the best way to do things. How to handle everything. Everyone comes to you. For everything. All the time.
Not right now, though. Right now youre a little, well, tied up. Theyll have to wait until we undo all our hardwork. Wait until we're done having this nice time together. Theyll all have to just wait to ask anything from you. Its just us right now. Its just me that you need to answer to. But youre already letting me use your body and I just want you to keep talking so I can listen to you...
