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Not people misgendering Blue and calling it the Mandela effect...
Bro it's just that society made you believe blue = masculine.
If you didn’t know blues a girl, you didn’t pay attention to the show
Ross Geller is peak fragile masculinity
Literally watching the male nanny episode
If there's a thing that really irritates me is that often when we discuss toxic and fragile masculinity we never talk why this is a thing.
Basically society has a system were men always have to prove their own worth, and if they failed, they will be shamed, humiliated and ridiculed by their peers, often in subtle and, sometimes, in not so suble ways.
Like, for example, why does a man is a Chad if he's sleeping around? Because it proves he's not a virgin and he had sex, and a real man loves sex, right.
In my country a young student became the topic of jokes on the internet, because he accused his female teacher of sexually abusing him. How dare a young boy not like being RAPED by his female teacher.
Why in ancient times bottoming was seem as such a shameful and unmanly thing? Because a real men needs to be in control all the time, and he can't never be vulnerable.
If you were a man, and they discovered you bottomed for someone, you would became the, sorry for the pun, butt of the joke. You would be mercilessly humiliated, and all your worth as a individual would be put in question.
A man's self worth is very often judged only by his sexual behavior and his physical appearance. Over the centuries society created the image of the perfect man. A real man can never be vulnerable and needs to always be agressive, a real man needs to be rich and powerful, a real man needs to be surrounded by numerous women, a real men needs to be always in the mood for sex, etc. And we have all sorts of cruel jokes and names for all men who not meet these standards.
A man must constantly prove that he is a real man, otherwise his friends, his lovers, his parents, everyone basically, will let him know how worthless as a person he is. Why do you think male suicide rates are so high?
It's cruel, it dehumanizes men and creates a lot of pain for both men and for everyone else who have to deal with the "real men".
I agree actually, it’s a HUGE reason for the “mental health stigma”. So many boys will go undiagnosed as adhd or bipolar because “boys will be boys”
"Boys will be boys" applies to my 3 boy cats and their shenanigans, not human children who should not be fed toxic masculinity from the playground.
Maybe how he is... is bad
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At least 1 in 6 men have been sexually abused or assaulted.
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Here’s the opposite story, though. With apologies because I don’t have the book in front of me, so I may get some details wrong, but I read this “Irena’s Children“ by Tilar J. Mazzeo.
Irena lived in Warsaw during the Nazi occupation, and dedicated her life to rescuing Jewish children from the Ghetto, and her story is complicated in a lot of ways but - well, this story isn’t actually about Irena, per se.
It’s about a bus driver.
It’s about a day when she’s traveling across town by bus with a very young Jewish child, and partway to their destination the child looks up and asks a question - in Yiddish. and the whole bus goes quiet, because everyone knows what that means. And Irena thinks, okay, we’re going to die here today.
And she’s running through her options - all of them bad - and suddenly the bus stops, and the bus driver announces that there’s been a mechanical failure and the bus needs to return to the depot immediately. Everyone off, please.
And she stands and goes to get off the bus and the driver says - not you two. Sit down. So she sits down as everyone else leaves, because, well, what else is she going to do? the options are all still bad, at this point.
and when the bus is empty the bus driver says,
“Where do you need to go?”
And then he drives them as close to their destination as he can, and lets them off, and drives away. And Irena lives, and the kid lives, and they never cross paths again.
So a janitor got three people killed, and a bus driver saved two lives - not to mention all the other lives indirectly saved because Irena was able to continue her work.
I think about that almost every day now, to be honest.
We can’t all be Irena. I couldn’t be Irena. She was in a unique place with very specific skills and connections that let her do what she did. I am just one mentally ill librarian. I can’t be her. But - I can be the bus driver. Or I could be the janitor. Because it doesn’t matter what your job is. It doesn’t matter who you are. In a world like this, every single one of us has the opportunity to do massive harm or massive good. We can save lives or end them.
And that’s scary. but it’s also very comforting? at least for me. Because at the end of the day it means this: no matter of how small and helpless and unimportant you feel, you’re never powerless in the face of great evil.
You can choose to be the bus driver.
A FUCKING WHAT
2020 I'm literally begging you to take a break
Do not use means DO NOT SHOWER either none of that water at all
here’s an ABC news article posted Sept. 26 confirming this issue is current and real
ADDITIONAL SOURCES: CNN and CBS
Thank f@$& it's not my county
4. If the car pulls up to you run in the opposite direction.
5. Walk with your keys in your hands and keep a key between each finger
6. If they put you in the trunk kick out the headlights
7. If you get lost find a woman with a child. Never ask a man for help (this one was drilled)
That scream fire piece of advice is literally life saving
8. Watch your shadows and reflections, especially if someone is walking behind you. A split second notice is better than none and will help you.
Yes this last one really saves lives y'all I do it all the time
girls have to learn to view the world like international intelligence agents just to be safe walking down the street. smh.
guys pls pls pls reblog and girls pls pls pls be safe out there. terrifying and so sad that we have to worry about this on a daily basis
(I’m an enby, but, frankly, this is helpful for anyone.)
- always tell someone where youre at and an approx time when youll be back
Add text replacement words in your phone if possible. Something short and memorable that you can send quickly to people in moments of emergencies.
E.g.
I f ing hate that we need to reblog this, people suck, but this will save lives.
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Being female fucking sucks but yes this shit is important for everyone
I’m a guy and it’s absolutely horrible that women have to live in fear like this
• If a van is parked next to your car in a parking lot, especially a van with no windows in the back, don’t approach your car.
this is 100% why i never fucked with that “normcore” nonsense and why i’m still extremely self-conscious about what i wear and how my clothes fit, even after my weight loss. wearing “normal” clothes only becomes “fashion” when it’s on skinny attractive people and once it’s on a fat person it’s suddenly the trappings of the tacky and the unwashed poors. fuck out of here. you can make anything look good.
Blue’s Feathers and Wings Compendium: Standard Wing Shapes
Part 1 [Standard ]| Part 2 [Atypical] | Feather Markings | Tail Feathers
I have expanded the traditional 4 types; Highspeed, Elliptical, Low Aspect and High Aspect ratio, because they were very narrow and vague categories for the most part, adding High Energy, Thermal Soaring, Night Glider, and Passerine wings. I feel that these extra types make it easier to understand and visualize the differences and similarities between wing shapes.
I’ve renamed Low Aspect to Powered Soaring, and High Aspect to Dynamic Soaring for the purposes of the fact that names made it hard to understand purpose and were easily confusable.
A lot of these wing types are also affected by tailfeather shape and size, and that will change their agility and energy expenditure as the tail also generates lift.
Disclaimer: This is in no way intended to be an academic dissertation or proposal, do not treat it as such. It is purely for art and writing references for others, to aid description and inspiration.
Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.