Ashers

On a journey to a new and better me

[greys-anatomy-quotes]

Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers. You just breathe deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed, but sometimes the pain gets you when you least expect it, hits way below the belt and doesn’t let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can’t outrun it, and life always makes more.

Meredith Grey - ‘Bring the Pain’

(Season 2, Episode 5)

[greys-anatomy-quotes]

According to Elizabeth Kubler Ross: When we are dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all move through 5 distinct stages of grief. We go into denial because the loss is so unthinkable we can’t imagine it’s true. We become angry with everyone; angry with survivors, Angry with ourselves, then we bargain. We beg, we plead, we offer everything we have. We offer up our souls in exchange for just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall into depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that we have done everything we can. We let go. We let go and move into acceptance.

Meredith Grey - 'Good Mourning' (via greys-anatomy-quotes)

[greys-anatomy-quotes]

No matter how thick-skinned we try to be, there’s millions of electrified nerve endings in there, open and exposed and feeling way too much. Try as we might to keep from feeling pain, sometimes it’s just unavoidable. Sometimes that’s the only thing left - just feeling.

Meredith Grey - 'How Insensitive' (via greys-anatomy-quotes)

[bitch-be-glad-i-walked-in]

And we hope. Against all logic. Against all experience. Like children, we never give up hope.

Meredith Grey (Grey’s Anatomy)

[lightmywings]

There comes a point where it all becomes too much. When we get too tired to fight anymore. So we give up. That’s when the real work begins. To find hope where there seems to be absolutely none at all.

- Grey’s Anatomy. (via lightmywings)

[confessingmyapostasies]

Pain. It comes in all forms. The small twinge, a bit of soreness, the random pain that we live with every day. Then there is the kind of pain you just can’t ignore; a level of pain so great that it blocks out everything else. It makes the rest of your world fade away until all we can think about is how much we hurt. How we manage our pain is up to us. We anesthetize it, ride it out, embrace it, ignore it- and for some of us, the best way to manage pain is just to push through it.

Grey’s Anatomy (via fightitoff-fighttofeel)

[darkandtwistyxx]

[salvatoresfray-deactivated20251]

…That’s how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can’t breathe, that’s how you survive. By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won’t feel this way. It won’t hurt this much.

Derek, Grey’s Anatomy. (via salvatoresredband)

[greysquotesmylife]

Remember this. It’s never too late to start over. #greysanatomy #greysanatomyquote #greysanatomyfan #greysanatomylover #greysanatomyforever #quote #inspirational #newbeginning #meredithgrey #meredith #grey #ellenpompeo #shondaland #shondarhimes #greysquotesmylife

[greysquotesmylife]

You think you have forever, but you don’t. :( #greysanatomy #greysanatomyquote #greysanatomyfan #greysanatomylover #greysanatomyforever #quote #inspirational #meredithgrey #meredith #grey #ellenpompeo #shondaland #shondarhimes #greysquotesmylife

[greysquotesmylife]

Your life can change in a heartbeat. #greysanatomy #greysanatomyquote #greysanatomyfan #greysanatomylover #greysanatomyforever #quote #inspirational #meredithgrey #meredith #grey #ellenpompeo #derekshepherd #patrickdempsey #mcdreamy #merder #shondaland #shondarhimes #greysquotesmylife

[rdjobsessions]

Cause you never think that the last time is the last time. You think there will be more. You think you have forever, but you don’t.

And that’s the thing that hurts the most. (via rdjobsessions)

[shad-dow]

The very worst part is that the minute you think you’re past it, it starts all over again. And always, every time, it takes your breath away.

(via lacuhna)

[mrnoname-kid]

Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone. It isn’t just death we have to grieve. It’s life. It’s loss. It’s change. And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad. The thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime. That’s how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can’t breathe, that’s how you survive. By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won’t feel this way. It won’t hurt this much. Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way. So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty. The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can’t control it. The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes. And let it go when we can. The very worst part is that the minute you think you’re past it, it starts all over again. And always, every time, it takes your breath away. There are five stages of grief. They look different on all of us, but there are always five. Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance.

(via mrnoname-kid)

[megmamoo-blog-blog]

“I feel like I’m moving in slow motion. Like I’m moving in slow motion and everything around me is moving so fast and I just wanna go back to when things were normal.”

Grey’s Anatomy (via megmamoo)

[rdjobsessions]

Cause you never think that the last time is the last time. You think there will be more. You think you have forever, but you don’t.

And that’s the thing that hurts the most. (via rdjobsessions)

[motivateyourselfeachandeveryday]