I dont really think its the shipping, but the discourse that happens FROM it. Yes I know porn is a bad thing obviously, but theres so little to none of it (at least from what Ive seen) But the rest of hermitblr blows it so out of proportion?? I legitimately saw someone trying to cause drama on the hermitship tag (which may I add, is supposed to be a safe place for shippers) I just feel like if groups on hermitblr kept to themselves this never wouldve happened.
I agree- Publically at least (I am not allowed to mention some of the private ones I see)- I see very little hermitporn on the hermitship tag (other than the HORRIBLE minority comprising fo Python trauma fic and preg Grisuma). But just because there is a toxic minority doesn’t mean the creators won't see it and it is okay. And this actually goes for BOTH sides of the conversation (see, scutes). And it is because of the blown-out response from both sides and the willingness to immediately call out someone for the smallest thing, without doing research or any basic reading comprehension regarding the “evidence” that they use.
There is a habit of people going into tags specifically to pick fights, and I don’t necessarily agree with the sentiment, but there is nothing to really do about people starting shit for the sake of starting shit and some even for clout.













