Scarlet's Mail Box

Welcome to my mailbox! This blog belongs to me, Scarlet Rose. I'm a Canterlot girl who loves to help those in need in knowing more about life, love, and healthy relationships. I'll also happily answer questions about myself and my life in Equestria. Send me a letter or a message anytime! I'll happily answer them in due time.

[askscarletrose]

Well, they restored my account!

I'm gonna go ahead and make this post and see if I get terminated all over again lol.

[askscarletrose]

*Taps the mic*

Is anyone still out there?

[scarletroseadvice]

I was wondering if you could help. Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost two years now. Recently, even though we both love each other, I've been wondering if marriage was necessary as a part of our relationship and wonder if she would be happier with someone else.

Marriage is not a necessary part of building a relationship but there are legal and financial advantages you both may want to have. If this has been weighing on your mind, and I would say you should discuss this with your girlfriend. Tell her how she makes you feel and that marriage is not a requirement for you sticking around with her as long as she desires you and you desire her. Marriage is a legal agreement after all and one no one should ever rush into lightly.https://www.theknot.com/content/benefits-of-marriage

[askscarletrose]

Hey Scarlet, How are you? I have decided to not have a Girlfriend for a while. Also, because I have a low Chance of having Children right now. One of my Urologist told me that even if I did somehow become a Father to a woman I adore. My future Children are gonna suffer some conditions as well as my Partner’s. But the worst part is, if I did have children they might have a higher Chance of being “Special” in a very sad way. Is it possible for me to have a Vasectomy instead?

The decision in having or not having children is a sensitive topic for me as I am very likely unable to physically have them. If you want to get a vasectomy that is your right to do so but please do your research and consider your reasoning behind it. I would advise that if you absolutely want to go this route to consult a urologist.

[askscarletrose]

Gas, grass, or ass?

If I need to travel, I’ll pay in cash or drive myself thank you kindly. I’m not going to hitchhike across country.

[askscarletrose]

Hey, didn't know you was still this hell hole of an empty husk of a website. How's things been, you doing anything fulling, anything new happening with you?

Things are okay I guess? Lately, I’ve been working at home due to illness and it’s both fine but it does suck. I miss my co-workers and I have no idea when I’ll be allowed back. My office is taking all of this very seriously, and I am too.

I hate all the hysteria, panic-shopping, and misinformation people are spreading. I do though believe that right now the social-distancing and being responsibly cautious is the right call. If anything, my more annoyed that we’re at the point that so many things have to be shut down for now until we can weather through this outbreak.

As for me personally? I’m getting back working out at the gym again and I am waiting on pins and needles about getting this new job! I can’t say much about it other than the background check has taken for-freakin-ever! Once it’s done, I can’t wait to do my onboarding. Until then, I’ll keep my spirits up and enjoy this extra time I have with my cat.

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Via Information Is Beautiful

[kon-igi]

Più chiaro e semplice di così c’è solo il frigo con le letterine magnetiche.

[askscarletrose]

Down Time

I apologize for not answering questions as quickly as I can. I had some things happening all at once with my work and now being sick. I caught a severe strain of the cold and my office had told me to now remain at home until my symptoms are gone. I’ll be telecommuting starting Monday and today I’ll be cleaning my home while I have nothing much else to do. A little later, I’ll answer the asks in my ask box. Please stay tuned! 

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+How the Magic of Friendship Grows+ by Snowballflo

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My Little Pony fanart: AppleJack by NP447235

taking a little break 

Twilight Sparkle!! 

Pinkie Pinkie Pie! 

Rainbow Dash! 

The lovely animal caretaker!

[askscarletrose]

Heard about that Hazbin Hotel show? Highly recommend it.

I sure have! I’ve been following Vivziepop for a while before and I am so happy to see her and her team were able to put together these shorts so far. I really hope it can flourish into something even bigger.

[askscarletrose]

So one day last Wednesday my gf asks for our relationship to start being open, I tell her no because I’m not comfortable about it. She got upset. Now she keeps bugging me about it, anyway to make her stop? Is it wrong for me to feel like she just wants an excuse to go cheat on me guilt free.

I would say you two need to sit down and have a real heart-to-heart about this.

Healthy relationships require an exchange of trust and respect and you are not wrong for feeling upset over this situation. In fact, It’s completely understandable that you’re uncomfortable about her wanting to open up and see more people. Now, to be fair to you I won’t begin to pretend to know why you are uncomfortable about it but, does she know why? I mean, it may seem like it should be an inherent thing to understand to you, but everybody is a little different and may have different ideas of what is allowable in relationships. What I can say with certainty, you clearly care about maintaining this relationship given that her bringing this idea up to you hadn’t torn you two apart.

As for the heart-to-heart, don’t spring it on her as a surprise. You don’t want her to think you are cornering her and this is outside her ability to choose for herself. Let her know you want to discuss this like adults and in private. Offer to let her schedule when and where, as a sign of respect. Relationships are after all about trust, and you need to let her know that the idea of her seeing other people hurts you emotionally and your sense of trust in this relationship. You should also let her, in her own words, explain why she feels this need to see other people. Don’t interject and assume anything but do make it plain to her, that you are going to be 100% honest and you will take her at her word in return.

What you do with this information afterward, assuming she does take your invitation seriously is up to the two of you. I hope in the end you both have a better understanding of each other, what you both want out of this relationship, and some kind of resolution. I can’t guarantee this will be a one-and-done solution. It might take several nights to do this and several conversations. It might even take relationship counseling but it’ll take both of you willing to move through this together. It takes two to tango after all.

[scarletroseadvice]

Hey Scarlet, I've been single since I dropped out of high school and I've been trying to find the girl of my dreams for a while; but I've been scared that this girl will either not love me or use me for sex. What should I do?

I think your focus should be on yourself first. If you’re happy with who you are, your situation in life, and what you’re doing with it then, by all means, feel good and try to meet this woman, wherever she is. If you’re not, then consider doing things to better improve yourself in your education, your job, your health, etc. Who knows? Perhaps on your path towards self improvement you might meet that person and it’ll grow into a natural friendship and blossom into more.

[askscarletrose]

Here is a more updated Version of your OC! I forgot the details of your Cutie Mark Yesterday and I made the shade a lot lighter on your OC’s skin. I hope you enjoy it Scarlet! 😉 ❤️❤️❤️

[askscarletrose]

Yesterday’s Warmth

Yesterday’s warmth has come and gone,

The still air churns winds and pours frigid rain,

The sun provides faint light and gales howl along,

The clouds darken and surge from electric veins,

And the rain suddenly crystallizes into flakes of snow,

A blizzard soon rages and the ground changes form,

Sudden sheets of snow white will shine and glow,

Adding to the cacophony of the raging storm.

Although the blizzard remains so do we,

Together and snug our hearts beating in harmony,

Underneath fleece sitting by a flickering fire,

Our worries melt away and love transpires,

For a moment we gaze into our eyes,

Followed by a kiss and perhaps a surprise?

And rekindle the warmth we thought we lost,

Our love now found from yesterday’s warmth.

[askscarletrose]

Well well well, the Crimson Blonde returns. Welcome home!

And I appreciate being here once more. I hope to see a lot more asks and friendly faces (even anonymous ones).