Ask Trans!Hiro

Hello I'm Hiro Hamada, I was born a female and i'm slowly saving up from my bot fights to change into a boy. You're welcome to ask me any questions. Banner Art by: hxmadakun

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Hi Hiro! So i really need advice. Im a trans boy but I've been hiding it from my mother buy putting my clothes in my bag and changing once I'm at my friends houses and switching back before I'm home. My mother slightly understands gender stuff but isn't very accepting of that. My father is EXTREMELY homophobic and such so ill wait to tell him a few years from now. Anyway....how do i tell my mom about me being Trans? I'm so afraid...help?

Easy easy honey. Easy, breathe. I know its such a big thing to do with your family. Start off small, do your friends know? Do you have an adult you can trust? Start with them cause then you may need some backup on this. 

If you think your mom can handle the sudden coming out ask her to keep an open mind for now. That’s the best thing for her to sit and listen. Explain yourself. IT was hard for me to come out but in the end i was accepted cause they were so loving.

With your father i would wait until you have enough people behind you and you have a safe haven to go to and stay. For example, if Aunt Cass didn’t accept me but my other friends did, i have a place to stay safely as i try and see a councilor to get my Testosterone and such. Always have a safe haven. Thats the main thing.

If you don’t tell you parents yet, its okay. Find a date you think you can. Talk to them, even if you have to bring another adult to feel safe, or a bunch of friends. Baby steps anon! I support you all the way!

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How do you deal with dysphoria?

When Tadashi is free from work and school i go to him. I can tell everything to him and cry it out and he’ll soothe me and rub my back. He won’t make me forget how much of a boy i really am. I may see female parts on my body but i know for a fact i have the mind of a boy. 

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Hi hiro! I had a question for you. How did you find out you were trans? I'm sorry for asking but I'm confused myself right now. Did you always feel it or did it just sort of click one day? Again I'm really sorry if this offends you!

Hello everyone Sorry for the very late response! 

Honestly from a young age i was a tomboy, always loving to play rough and such. I guess it clicked later in my life when i started hating how everyone was looking at my body. I looked down and saw things that weren’t suppose to be there. Honestly it didn’t just click right away, i gradually changed from wearing girly puffy clothes to more masculaine boy clothes. Cut my hair shorter and shorter over the years and.... thats how it happened. 

If you’re confused, look back in your life. How are you feeling now? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own body or do you like it? Honestly i thought i was genderfluid but i kept leaning towards being masculine and male instead of feminine and female. You know? Don’t give up!

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I know it's hard being trans and all, but all your fans and supporters are her for you. Your not alone. Follow your heart, if anyone is mean to you then they are too ignorant to know what an amazing BOY you are Hiro. :)

"Okay seriously i haven't been on in a while because i was going through some issues with myself. Then i come back to this, seriously this made me so happy you don't understand. Thank you Anon, Thank you all my followers on here and my imnotsastisfedwithmycare rp blog here. Thank you for supporting me in being trans and helping me through this difficult time. I hope you guys can help me in the future!"

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hey hiro! im a trans boy too and i have a question. im out to a few of my friends but i havent told my parents yet. im worried if they'll accept me and whether or not they'll let me transition. do u have any tips for coming out? how did u come out to people?

Well let me tell you something, its not easy to come out it really isnt. Honestly i only recently came out to my parents about being Trans and i will honestly tell you... it was hard, very hard to see. My dad looked at me like i was a lying piece of shit and my mom had to take deep breaths to hold herself from crying. My grandma bless her and her heart had accepted this much easier then them. The best thing is before FULLY coming out, find a Psychologist cause thats the number one thing to have as back up for your coming out cause she can verify that yes you are a child who's born in the wrong body.Plus its also good to have a backup plan, like if you have a big fight, have a family or someone who's transitioned. I have an Otou-san who transitioned later on and this coming August is doing his final surgery. He told me if anything went down i'm always welcome to crash at his place. Find someone in your area who.s partially transitioned or fully transitioned who can help you. I promise you that its a great thing to have.The number one thing about this is not all parents will accept you right away cause for however long you've been your birth gender you suddenly just switch is a big slap in your parents face. They may not accept it right away but you have to stand firm for you happiness. Like Leelah, they didn't accept her even AFTER death, still calling her their son. Its a big step in taking when doing this. Honestly first have a back up plan if anything goes wrong, give small hints, for me what i did is that i CLEANED out my ENTIRE closet. No girl clothes except underwear for that shark week. Some sports bras because you know breasts have to hold but no fancy shmancy things. A couple binders. Slowly change your look don't just.. JUMP. I didn't notice the change either but when i did im glad i chose when i did. Anon, if you're in any worry to ask I can ask my otou-san if he knows anyone in your area. Your happiness for yourself comes first. I'm always opened here on my ask blog or even my personal unsatisfiedcare hit me up with any questions you have. I can give you my cellphone number to talk or text, my skype anything to help you to feel at ease. Don't give up on telling your family. Sometimes it just takes the right time, talk to them before hand to have an open mind. Its nothing like telling your sexuality thats a little easier in some families but also hard. Thats why Back up in case anything goes wrong. Have a bag full of clothes and supplies for at least a few days to stay with a friend. I don't want you hurt or out in the streets if anything goes wrong. Good luck this isn't from Hiro muse but this is from the person behind it cause this is my story i wish to tell. Don't get discouraged alright? 

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hi Hiro! I am a trans boy (: i have been officially out of the closet for about four months, but not fully transitioned. my friends do call me by my chosen name, but when they do it feels like it's only a nickname. is there any advice you can give me to help accept myself? xx

Honestly don't give up on yourself. I have down days but the best way to deal is to talk with friends or sometimes just reading Fanfics. If you ever need someone to talk to my ask box is always open. I even give out my skype to talk to others like myself. I won't post anything you don't want me too but i'll be happy to work with you.

Seeing this Ask made me super happy, i literally cried, i lost my tablet pet but i pulled out my paper and pencils and started doing this. I hope this is okay as well.

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Hi!! I wanted to draw this to show how much you’re supported!! I was gonna try and draw me giving you a hug, but I couldn’t figure out how. So here’s Baymax and me showing that we love and support you!! (Though I don’t think Baymax notices his fingers take up a lot of the paper hehe)

--- This is amazing! Thank you soo much!!!

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Hey Hiro I just wanted to pop in and say that, that anon is horrible for calling you a freak! *hugs Hiro* You're an awesome boy and for someone who's gay and genderfluid, I'm so proud of you for being who you are. You are amazing and don't let horrible people like that anon get you down!

Ahh thank you red that is so sweet of you omg. 

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Anon hate is so stupid, just because you're trans doesn't change who you are in your heart. You're different physically but, you're still you.

Thank you so much....

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Hey I just saw that mean thing some douche left you. You're certainly not a freak if anything I'd say you're awsome to be around. though Ive only hung out with you once you are a great person stay strong and keep your head up -the mall vigilante lol

Thank you to you as well. Youre a wonderful person! Thanks for supporting me

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Hiro (and mun) I'm so sorry that we have to share a world with people who aren't accepting of simple truths. People are all different, some want to change their gender, so what? I'm still trying to discover myself as well, sometimes I even wish I was a boy too. But it's ok because for every jackass who has the nerve to send hate, there will be supportive people around to give love and support. ❤️

Thank you so much, This means a lot to me and my mun. Who are you lovely anon so i can give you a hug. That one just irked me a bit the wrong way. I think my reply was able enough to tell that anon that i'm happy the way i am. Everyone supports me and loves me. I will not have it any other way. I have support not only from my friends but from others mes from different time lines and such. Its great to know that no one doesn't like me for who i am. i'm a boy and thats the truth. 

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Soo..Hiro? What is like? Living like a freak?

You know what, normally i'd draw art! Then looking at this over and over I feel you don't deserve such art! I am not a freak! I am a normal person who was born in the wrong body! You listen here you Transphoboic piece of shit! I'm not living like a freak! I'm living like boy i should've been! Yes i may have a females body and have the things that females do but it does not make me less of a person! I have feelings too you know! How dare you walk into my blog and ask me if im a freak! Its like asking someone why they live? They are a person! People live because they are who they are!.

You Mister Anon are not a welcoming sight to see, i fight for my rights to be who i want to be. I want to be asked questions to help the curious people who don't know anything about transitioning! How to come out properly, no you had to ask if i lived like a freak. I don't!

Tadashi supports me all the way calling me his little brother the moment i told him! Aunt Cass helped me buy boy clothes and asked no questions! The gang was super supportive of me too after i've hid my secret from them! They saw me no different! 

Wanna know how my life was. ITS GREAT CAUSE YOU'RE NOT A PART OF IT!

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(from Snotlout) So, you're Hiro? Like, that nerdy genius guy Hiro? Awesome!

The boy looked at the big Burley boy with the slightly bigger noise “and your Snotlout Jorgenson?” he blushed a bit at how actually good looking he is. “Uh hi” he waves softly.

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