How to ... with someone who is Deaf / Hard of Hearing (HoH)
Communicate with a Deaf/HoH Person
DO:
Ask them their preferred method of communicating (paper & pen, voiced, Sign language)
Donât:
Assume just because theyâre d/Deaf/HoH that they all know Sign Language.
DO:
Face them when speaking as most d/Deaf/HoH lip read. Body language/facial expression is important too.
Donât:
Face away, cover mouth, exaggerate on lip movement, chew while talking.
DO:
Talk to them normally, just like anyone else. We are normal human beings, we just canât hear.
Donât: YELL, Talk slow with exaggerating lip movements, as if they are âstupidâ
DO:
If they ask you to repeat, do so. If they ask from a specific point, donât repeat the entire sentence, just from the current point on.
Donât:
say âNever mindâ âIâll tell you laterâ or ignore them when they ask to repeat. We want to be engaged in the conversation too. Saying âNever mindâ is like a swear word to the d/Deaf/HoH Community.
Get Their Attention:
DO:
tapping their shoulder, move hand slightly in their vision view, stomp ground, tap table, or flash light (most common in group setting)
Donât:
Shake them madly, wave your hands wildly in their vision view, or flicker lights rapidly.
Manners are important. Always keep these things in mind, please.













