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long time no see
if anyoneâs still here iâm over at likealittledeath because this blog is a disorganised mess and i wanted to start again
long time no see
if anyoneâs still here iâm over at likealittledeath because this blog is a disorganised mess and i wanted to start again
long time no see
if anyoneâs still here iâm over at likealittledeath because this blog is a disorganised mess and i wanted to start again
long time no see
if anyoneâs still here iâm over at likealittledeath because this blog is a disorganised mess and i wanted to start again
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here is an idea: normalise the idea that adopting kids is a valid option even for parents who could conceive a child themselves, and not just an inferior backup option for parents who canât
Just coming from an adopted kid, the benefits of adoption: -When your kid asks where they come from you can literally say you pre-ordered them and waited for them to come in. My dad always equated picking me up from the hospital to ordering a sofa at k-mart and it always made me laugh. No need to explain pregnancy till theyâre older. -Your child will always know it was wanted and on purpose. My parents waited 5 years for me. They waited. For me to be born. I was wanted, from the moment I came into this world, by the people who raised me. -You donât have to pay for pregnancy or birth. Just adoption fees. No thirty thousand dollar hospital bill. -You donât have to give birth, or be pregnant, both of which objectively suck. -The biological parents of that baby will be so happy that there is someone in the world who is willing to watch over their child. The relief that comes with that is overwhelming. -Youâre saving a childâs life that would otherwise potentially be stuck in the adoption and foster system for their entire childhood. Iâve always heard arguments about wanting the baby to be âyoursâ but really. My parents are my parents. Just because I donât share their DNA doesnât mean Iâm not theirs. When it comes right down to it, blood of the bond is thicker than water of the womb.Â
As another adopted kid, I second every point made here. When Iâm asked if itâs weird having been adopted, the simple answer I always give is, âNo, because I know for damned sure my parents love me and I love them to death too.â
Let a child into your life who needs a good life of their own. Consider adoption.
Also stop believing TV, Kids wanna be adopted and most of them arenât gonna get with their adopted parents and then be like âwell itâs been fun having you raise me since before I could talk and loving me for the past 12-15 years but fuck you now Iâm going to find my real family and live with them forever and be a ânormal teenager/child.â
America needs to stop putting blood relationships above every other type of family.
Also, as an addition to everything but especially the last point: TELL YOUR KID THEY ARE ADOPTED. The last situation only happens if its kept a secret because it becomes a grass is always greener scenario. If the child knows, it becomes a normal thing.
Coming from another adoptee. Foreign born ( Russian )
- Itâs incredibly important to tell your child theyâre adopted. Let them live their heritage and their past â˘I just got a DNA test to know where my unknown father was probably from. Finland!! And my mother Russian born! - Adopted kids are going to have rough spots a couple days a year. Let them have it! Let them be upset for missing parents they never met! Itâs a natural thing! -Giving up a child is the hardest bing to do no matter who youâre talking to. Either adoption, orphanage, or foster care, adopted kids are put in others care in hope for a better life! -The âWho are your /real/ parentsâ thing needs to fucking end - Adopted kids are chosen and not stuck with a family. They are loved from birth to death. If that means at 6 months, 6 years, 6 grades, so be it. Their parents love them the moment they come into their lives. NURTURE OVER NATURE AND BLOOD!!!
- ADOPTION IS A LEGITIMATE OPTION FOR PARENTS BOTH WANTING A CHILD OR WANTING A BETTER LIFE FOR THEIR CHILD!!! DONT FIND THOSE PARENTS (USUALLY SINGLE MOTHERS) DISGUSTING. THEY KNOW WHATS BEST. NOT YOU. LOVE BEFORE BLOOD.
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JFC.
ETCH THIS INTO MY HEADSTONE.
anna nardini is a fucking awful person and Iâm so mad at this stupid show for making me hate a character played by sherilyn fenn
who the hell could be selfish enough to keep their kid from meeting their dad for twelve years then when the dad comes into the kidâs life, decide itâs inappropriate for the dadâs fiancĂŠe to be anywhere near the kid because âpeople get engaged all the timeâ (well in stars hollow they bloody do anyway thatâs for sure but not the point)? like? you donât get to decide that? heâs her dad? he should get to have his daughter in his life? his life includes his partner?
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This is the first time Iâve watched gilmore girls but because it was on so long ago/i follow lots of people who have been into it at various points/I have already read all the dirty Luke/Lorelai fanfic I can get my grubby mitts on, I basically know all the main plot points and have a rough idea when theyâre gonna be happening.
Iâm not sure if thatâs a good or a bad thing because I know season seven is going to suck, and Iâm midway through season six and Iâm sad about it.
5.08 / 5.01