& I COULD SEE FOR MILES

lou miller ; spoilers

[asterlsks-blog]

one of my favourite things about the ocean’s 8 fandom is that men are completely irrelevant

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so real talk, do I do an ahs verse for lou or what

[tracybcnd]

i don’t think anyone in the tumblr roleplay community understands how isolating it is to be a lesbian in the rpc. i don’t, because i’m not one, but i listen to what lesbian roleplayers are saying and it bothers me that it seems like no one else is caring to listen. 

last evening, we learned that cheryl blossom on riverdale is a lesbian who has been struggling with comp het. today, the rpc has decided to loudly support the continued portrayal of cheryl as a non-lesbian despite lesbian roleplayers, many of whom are part of the riverdale rpc themselves, expressing how this feels like a slap in the face. lesbians were already dissatisfied with their level of acceptance within the rpc (doubly so if the muse they play is a lesbian as well) and this refusal to accept canon when it means celebrating a lesbian character has caused a lot of pain as yet another example of how unimportant they are. as a bisexual woman, i can understand a moment of hesitation when it comes to changing your muse’s sexuality from bisexual to lesbian if you are bisexual yourself. however, what matters is the choice you make on how to continue. if you come back from reflecting on this update to canon to make excuses for yourself, you have turned your back on the lesbian community and told them that they are not important. cheryl’s story specifically relates to experiencing comp het and for roleplayers to refuse to allow her to be her truest self reflects the refusal of society and individuals to allow lesbians to be their true selves. that is why this hurts, and why so many lesbians in the rpc are taking this seriously.

but this issue is not isolated to riverdale. lesbian roleplayers are confronted with rules/guidelines pages that specify the mun’s dislike of f/f relationships every day. if f/f relationships are allowed, they are subject to specific rules and hurdles that must be jumped over. why do we exclude lesbians, both muns and muses, at every step of the way? why do we feel the need to qualify them as the other?

bisexual muns and those portraying bisexual muses must be better. if your muse is a bisexual woman, but you will not roleplay f/f then change your muse’s sexuality or do not roleplay as them. stop giving lesbians in the rpc false hope that you will interact only for you to characterize them as “ship wh*res” or force-shipping. this is unacceptable. 

lesbophobic statements like the below should never be included in your rules/guidelines pages and you should unfollow people who do this.

i really do not care if you think this is dramatic or unfair. people i care about are hurting because of you. lesbians deserve to come to the rpc and have fun. they should not be confronted with lesbophobic rhetoric supported by others in the lgbt community. i’m done.

[asterlsks-blog]

anyway fun fact that lou miller is a flaming hot lesbian, kinsey 6, never-seen-a-human-dude’s-penis gay and she has virtually no interest in cultivating even platonic relationships with men. she’s in it for the ladies

[itsnotpatsy]

I KNOW THIS IS HARD FOR SOME PEOPLE TO GRASP BUT

NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE ANY INTEREST IN MEN SOME HAVE NO INTEREST IN MEN AT ALL

[ravenresources]

send “you okay?” to find my muse sitting alone on a roof at night.

[asterlsks-blog]

anyway is it just me or are the ~* make kindness cool again ! *~ people literally always bitches

[asterlsks-blog]

i fucking die when people come for @itsnotpatsy bc they have NO IDEA what they’re getting into

[plotbunnie]

Nonverbal RP Starters

I’m finding it difficult to find memes for nonverbal characters ( be they mute, or just not fond of talking ) so I thought I’d make a few!

Neutral

☝️ Tap my muse on the shoulder

👉 Point to something for my muse to see

🤙 Bump into my muse

😊 Sit down next to my muse

🤨 Sit down across from my muse

📓 Push/Slide [an object] across a table to my muse

✍️ Pass my muse a note

🙄 Roll their eyes at my muse

🚪 Tap on a table/door/wall/chair to get my muse’s attention without speaking

Aggressive

🐺 Growl at my muse

😬 Snarl/show teeth at my muse

😠 Death Glare at my muse

🙌 Push/Shove my muse

👊 Punch my muse

👖 Kick my muse in the shin

👠 Stomp on my muse’s foot

😵 Knee my muse in the gut

💀 Knee my muse in the groin

🔪 Point a weapon at my muse

🖕 Flip my muse the bird/a similar gesture

👔 Roughly pull my muse down by the collar

💢 Bang on a door/wall/table to get my muse’s attention- angrily

Angst

👩‍⚕️ Put pressure on my muse’s wound

🌡 Push my muse down to give them medical attention

🥣 Bring my muse soup/medicine when they are sick

🤢 Hold my muse’s hair back/Rub my muse’s back while they are sick/throwing up

👐 Hold my muse when they are badly wounded/dying

👁 Wake my muse up during a nightmare

🐱 Hold my muse after a nightmare

😭 Hold my muse when they are crying

😢Touch my muse’s shoulder while they are crying in secret

💧 Wipe away my muse’s tears

💥 Try to calm my muse during an overwhelming emotional moment

⛈ Find my muse after some kind of trauma

Soft

👕 Tug on my muse’s sleeve/shirt/skirt

🐈 Lean against my muse’s side

🤝 Hold my muse’s hand

🤗 Pull my muse into a hug

🐕 Rest their head on my muse’s shoulder/knee

🐶 Nuzzle my muse with their nose [specify a location]

✋ Touch the back of my muse’s hand

🤝 Reach for my muse’s hand to hold it

👗 Fix/Straighten my muse’s clothes

😴 Stand by the bed to see if my muse will let you under the covers with them

🛌 Crawl under the covers with my muse

🥪 Set a plate/tray/bowl of food down for my muse

😚 Kiss my muse on the cheek

Playful

🌸 Put a flower in my muse’s hair

✨ Playfully shove my muse’s shoulder

💃 Pull my muse onto a dance floor/up to dance

🤞 Come up beside them and tap the shoulder opposite where they’re standing

😈 Jump out of the shadows to scare/startle my muse

😛 Stick their tongue out at my muse

😱 Make a silly face at my muse

🤭 Tickle my muse

👃 Poke my muse’s nose

💪 Pick my muse up

Sensual/Sexual

💘 Pull my muse in for a rough kiss

💕 Pull my muse in for a tender kiss

💞 Pull my muse in for a messy/desperate kiss

💖 Lean in to give my muse a sweet/chaste kiss

❤️ Lean in to give my muse a tender kiss

🔥 Pull my muse down by the collar/by their clothes - in a sexy way

😉 Pull my muse in by the hips

😲 Smack my muse’s butt

💋 Kiss my muse’s neck

👌 Push my muse down and give them a massage

👙 Pull [an article of clothing] off my muse

👀 Push my muse down on the bed

👄 Pull my muse onto the bed

[jojoroxye]

[asterlsks-blog]

jojoroxye‌:

“It made newspapers around the world because I DID NOT retouch the image. Gasp, you can see she’s a real person and all the more beautiful for it. My job is to photograph people so they look real, not like they’ve just made of wax.”

Photos ©Steve Forrest 

[tragedysins]

[asterlsks-blog]

when lou and tammy won’t stop talking about how gay they are so i'm stuck reblogging sex memes to get them to leave me alone. *eye roll*

[lesbimemes]

Lesbian Sexual Sentence Starters. Some strong language included.

“You’re so tight, baby.” “I’ve been looking forward to fucking you all damn day.” “I can’t stop thinking about your fingers inside of me.” “Let me watch you fuck yourself.” “Spread your legs so I can see all of you.” “Your mouth feels so nice against my pussy.” “Show me those nice tits of yours.” “Your nipples are awfully sensitive…” “Get over here and sit on my face. Now.” ”I wanna eat you out until you’re screaming at me to stop.” “Look how wet you are.” “Are you aching for me?” “I went lingerie shopping just for you…” “Your ass looks amazing.” ”Slip those to the side and let me fuck you.” “Send me a picture of you touching yourself.” “I touched myself while thinking of you.” ”I’m so fucking wet for you.” “Let me mark you.” “I want to taste you.” “That feels… really good, baby.” “Bend me over and take me.” “You take it so well, my love/my sweet girl.” “Fuck me until I can’t think anymore!” “You’re my little whore.” “Beg for me like the little slut you are.”  “Don’t keep Mistress waiting.” “What would (insert name) say if they saw you like this?” ”You scratched the hell out of me… do it again.” “I’ve never cum so hard in my life.” “Lick up your mess.”

[asterlsks-blog]

-- sex headcanon nobody asked for !

lou is very much a TOP. this is partially just the way she tends to have more fun, because she’s a dominant person by nature and would rather give than receive. that said, it also has its roots in trauma –– she’d been harassed, groped, and pinned down on several occasions by male cousins when she was in her early teens, and was sexually assaulted not long after moving to nyc. she’s got this repressed very deep and basically never discusses it, but it’s definitely influenced her feelings about being constricted or trapped in any way. basically she can’t cope with it, and she immediately ends any sexual encounter she feels is ‘ getting away from her ’, so to speak. but she LOVES getting someone else off, it’s so incredibly fun for her –– she does really enjoy sex despite the complicated feelings.

in very, very close relationships, there are exceptions to this. if you’ve genuinely earned her trust –– this happens rarely, so far only with debbie and tammy –– she gradually gets comfortable receiving, so things get more reciprocal. getting lou in a place where she’s actually submissive is both terrifying and somewhat therapeutic for her; in very particular circumstances she’ll actually ask for it.

[rpmusings-galore]

“I am made of bullets; shrapnel. You are solar flares and soft lips - better creatures could love you, I know. But now they’ll have to get through me.”

— my love should wear a warning sign, damn right I remember you     |e.j.| (via ihopewestay)

[asterlsks-blog]

prfessionalthief‌:

Lou touches her and it’s vindicating. It means she’s forgiven for the absolutely atrocious act she committed. For marking in a way that hurt, not a way she would in any other manner of something real. She feels like she’s allowed to apologize to herself for it. Which is hard, because these days Debbie feels like she has to forgive herself for any handful of actions she performs or things she says. Or worse, things she doesn’t say. Any number of things. Handfuls of thought and thought and thought. She’s spinning wheels like no one could believe and it’s beginning to become exhausting. It’s taking a hell of a waking toll on her.

She breathes out. Finally. It’s like letting the world slide off her shoulders for a second. She takes Lou’s hand and draws it into her grip, presses it to her torso right in the middle, Just below her breastbone. She holds it there, fingers spread against the soft t-shirt she lounges in. “Here’s where it is when I’m scared. Kind of like how a fist closes. When it’s too tight and you don’t know you’re making a fist at all. Knuckles turn white and your palm goes numb. But your hand does too. Gets the kind of thing that’s like trembling but you can’t feel it, so you can’t stop.”

She lets go of Lou’s wrist. It feels that way now— tight. Trembling. Scared. Like she shouldn’t be talking about this. Like maybe this is taboo somehow. Out of the realm of possibility. She breathes past it, trying not to let the muscles tense, and peers into blue eyes patiently, “is that how you mean? Explain it like that?”

She feels like she’s been allowed something precious, a butterfly landing on her forearm or the most precisely dazzling moment of a sunset. This hand on Debbie’s stomach, little fingers closed around her wrist, and for half a second her eyes flutter shut. How easy it is, briefly, to pretend this is something else –– an innocent touch, something soft in bed with a lover rather than this gentle probing into trauma. But she catches big, glittering eyes with her own and here she is remembering why they’re talking.

Lou’s hand is frozen, unmoving, barely shifting with Debbie’s breath. She’s terrified if she reminds her it’s there, Debbie will pull back and she’ll be relegated to a place behind smooth jokes and deflection all over again. The description is so vivid that Lou recognizes it all in her own body in an instant, realizes Debbie isn’t so much recalling a place she once visited as she is surveying the landscape before her –– that right now, both of them are scared.

“That’s exactly how I mean. That’s perfect.” She chances movement –– thumb stroking gently down her stomach and back up. When she speaks it’s always carefully chosen, but now even more so –– it’s mental math she can do instinctively. How to not frighten the bird off her perch. “And nearly six years of that. I’d be exhausted.”

[asterlsks-blog]

real talk: who wants to plot with my little attention monsters (lou or @thefnce or any of the muses on my multi @seenindarkness ) ??