Important Notice To MJ Fans
Now that I have gained your attention and trust, listen carefully to what I have to say. And please, you have to listen carefully before reacting defensively or in a self-preserving manner (and please don't block me, it's better to talk). And I know that it's hard when you have build your entire identity over something, to realize you've been living a lie all this time. You are not stupid, intelligence offers no protection against emotional control. I don't judge you for grasping to it, but I'm saying this for your well being, it's better to let things go and form your own identity and find healthier hobbies.
Michael Jackson is not the man you think he is. He was likely very intelligent, and a master of manipulation, very good at pretending to be the victim. Everyone who knew him have all been jumping ship now. You can't simply discredit everyone and only believe in his words, you are under his spells, in an echo chamber. Lisa Marie Presley, the woman who got the closest to him, exposed his controlling and manipulative behaviors. The kid that all fans "trusted", Omer Bhatti, removed his MJ tattoo, Macaulay Culkin is nowhere to be seen. Paris, his own daughter, is reported to be collaborating with the accusers. At some point you have to face the facts and the big picture. It will only get worse as new things are revealed and as more people stop being scared of the NDAs and The Estate.
I'm not ignoring the fact that MJ had a damaging childhood that made him who he is, in all it's complexities, but what he did as an adult can't be excused. This is a sad fact that abused kids will often become abusers themselves. It's true that his mental development was affected and kept him in a childlike state, but he still physically matured and got sexual impulses.
"But he looks so kind, look at his eyes, they look so pure"
Yes, this is often the case with guru and cult leaders. They are very charismatic, have a calming voice, a transcending gaze, a strong aura, and a great capacity to create emotional attachment. Plus they will always remain enigmatic by giving unclear answers, and they will always remain in your mind as you question things and hold emotions for them. MJ was a prodigy in many ways, but he also studied hard. I'm sure fans remember seeing some of the books he read like The 48 Laws of Power (based on Machiavellian principles). He studied emotions, and how to tune them like an instrument. He created an illusion so emotionally satisfying that fans have been doing anything to defend it, even against damning evidence. How many times did he say he was a messenger of god (in a more or less subtle way)? How many times did he told you to ignore the "lies" and the media? It's likely that his days as a Jehova Witness also inspired him to be a cult leader himself.
"But he did so many charitable work, it can't be"
Yes I think he genuinely wanted to help others sometimes, but because of cPTSD from his childhood, it was easy for him to dissociate and to compartmentalize his actions to feed his unmet needs and desires.
"But the FBI found no child porn at his house!"
It doesn't matter, because there are many types of pedophiles. Michael Jackson was a "fixated" pedophile, and this type rarely collect child pornography. They focus on building a relationship or emotional connection with a child. Still, they may collect legal art books and photography of children (which is the case for Jackson). Fixated pedophiles often appear childlike themselves and live child centered lifestyle. His own biological children may not have been prayed upon, since this type of pedo rarely target their own family. This is likely why his children saw him as a good father (until now at least).
You have to come to the realization that you have been cherry-picking a lot. All that you've know about him is simply what he wanted you to believe. Everything has been hiding in plain sight all along.
Any group who ask you to ignore opposing views and to stop asking questions, are a cult. The fandom have asked of you to reject everyone who have spoken bad about him, even minor comments, and now there is no one left except his own voice. They said "don't believe this maid, she has stolen from him before, she just want money". "Don't believe his sister!", his own sister who knew him better than anyone else...
"But Jordan Chandler refused to testify, and Wade changed his story!"
Michael Jackson often targeted boys who were fans of him, so the grooming was easy. The boy would happily spend time with him and accept anything, and the boy would not want to admit anything to harm his idol or their relationship. Do you realize that MJ would have probably ended up in jail if Wade Robson had admitted to be molested at the 2005 trial? It's very common for groomed kid to stay loyal for years even after becoming an adult, him changing his story after his abuser's death is pretty normal.
Honestly, I could go on and on demystifying every argument, but I won't unless asked about it. I've been on the fence about him for years because the first trials were pretty confusing, and when in doubt we prefer to believe what make us feel better. With the movie being released I thought it would be good to try to reach the remaining fans and understand their feelings. And I'm telling you, you are going to feel better once you remove this weight off you. Once you realize the truth, everything will fall into place and you will stop hurting for him and about how the world "mistreated" him. The constant doubts and questions keeping you awake at night will disappear. At last, we can heal together and support the real victims and his own children who now have to live with a terrible reality.
Let me help you get rid of your addiction.
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