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Saturn Through the Houses: Why You're Insecure

If Saturn through the houses are the what behind your insecurity, the houses are the why behind your insecurity. If you take your sign and combine it with the area of life (house), you will begin to see the root of your insecurity.

Saturn in the 1st House:

WHY you're insecure: Because it's VISIBLE. You can see it, and other people can see it. It is in how you physically appear and come across, without you even saying a word. You ultimately can't hide it.

Saturn in Aries in 1st: You may be the oldest person in the room when you try new things.

Why: Your BODY/AGE is visible evidence to yourself and others that you are behind in life.

Saturn in Taurus in 1st: Your body doesn't match the "ideal" you see everywhere. You may feel your body shape is too thin, too heavy, or just never the "right" shape compared to what society makes popular or "in" at the moment.

Why: Your PHYSICAL body doesn't match the collective "standard" so you feel insecure.

Saturn in Leo in 1st: You walk into a room and nobody looks up. You're invisible. You see others who automatically walk into a room and the spotlight immediately goes on them and you are left in the dark.

Why: your PRESENCE doesn't command attention like you wish it did.

Saturn in Gemini in 1st: People perceive you as socially awkward or that you don't know how to talk to people. You may feel like you don't know how to talk to others.

Why: your MANNERISMS/COMMUNICATION STYLE is visible to others and you feel inadequate because of the natural way you communicate.

Saturn in 2nd House:

WHY you're insecure: Because you have MATERIAL LACK. You may tie your worth to what you own (or what you don't own).

Saturn in Taurus in 2nd: You keep expired food because throwing it away feels like throwing away security.

Why: Actual SCARCITY around basic resources validates the fear or you have a scarcity mindset.

Saturn in Sagittarius in 2nd: Your friends travel and you stay home because you can't afford it.

Why: MONEY is the barrier preventing you from growing and discovering yourself in long distance or foreign environments.

Saturn in Leo in 2nd: You check your bank account before going out to see if you can afford to be at the right places.

Why: Your FINANCIAL STATUS determines if you're good or special enough to be seen at certain places.

Saturn in Gemini in 2nd: You're smart and intelligent but you can't figure out how to make money from your "smarts"

Why: inability to EARN MONEY despite being intelligent or having the right credentials makes you feel insecure about whether you are as smart as you think.

Saturn in 3rd House:

WHY you're insecure: Because of how you THINK, SPEAK, LEARN, or how you were compared to siblings. Your mind or your voice becomes the site of inadequacy and you may feel you aren't being understood.

Saturn in Gemini in 3rd: You rehearse what you're going to say before making a phone call. Even to order a pizza.

Why: COMMUNICATION itself feels intimidating. You fear saying the wrong thing so you overcompensate by scripting every interaction.

Saturn in Leo in 3rd: You have brilliant ideas but someone else always says them first and gets the credit and "glory".

Why: Your VOICE isn't heard or valued. By the time you speak up, the moment has passed and you're invisible again.

Saturn in Aries in 3rd: By the time you respond in a conversation everyone has moved on to the next topic.

Why: Your PROCESSING SPEED feels too slow. You're always playing catch-up mentally and it shows.

Saturn in Cancer in 3rd: Your sibling was labeled the "smart one" and you were not

Why: SIBLING COMPARISON created a wound around intelligence. Your family said you weren't intelligent enough so you believed it.

Saturn in 4th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because your FAMILY, HOME, or ROOTS failed to provide safety or belonging. The foundation was shaky, so everything built on it feels unstable.

Saturn in Cancer in 4th: You feel like a guest in your own home, even after living there for years.

Why: HOME was never a safe space growing up. You never learned what true belonging in a family feels like, so you can't create it now.

Saturn in Capricorn in 4th: Your parent was your drill sergeant or mentor, not your father or mother figure.

Why: FAMILY meant rules, judgment, achievement, and legacy. Not warmth. You learned through your upbringing that love was conditional on achievements.

Saturn in Aquarius in 4th: You're the only one in your family who thinks the way you do. You've felt like an alien since childhood. You're the black sheep of the family.

Why: Your family rejected or didn't understand why you were different. You were the black sheep and never felt you belonged.

Saturn in Aries in 4th: You were always compared to others in your family who "did it first". First to walk, first to graduate, first to get married, etc.

Why: Your family reinforced that you're always going to be behind. You internalized "second place" as your identity.

Saturn in 5th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because CREATIVITY, ROMANCE, and having FUN feels like something you are not worthy of. Your self-expression gets shut down.

Saturn in Leo in 5th: You stopped drawing after one person said "that doesn't look good."

Why: CREATIVE EXPRESSION feels too vulnerable. One criticism was enough to convince you that you have no talent and that you are not enough to pursue your creative impulses.

Saturn in Scorpio in 5th: You've been on three dates and you're already imagining all the ways they'll betray, abandon, or break you.

Why: Romance equals exposure to pain. Letting someone in romantically feels like handing them a weapon they will eventually use against you.

Saturn in Virgo in 5th: Your art is never finished because it's never "perfect enough" to show anyone.

Why: What you create must be flawless, or it proves you're not good enough. You'd rather create nothing than create something that is not up to your impossible standards.

Saturn in Libra in 5th: You change your entire personality on dates to be more "likable."

Why: Romance requires games, back and forth, and performance, not authenticity or being your true self. Being your authentic self feels too risky. What if they don't like the real you?

Saturn in 6th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because WORK, HEALTH, or DAILY ROUTINE becomes how you measure your worth as a person. This is toxic productivity culture.

Saturn in Virgo in 6th: You work through illness because taking a sick day means you're "weak" or "lazy."

Why: PRODUCTIVITY equals your value. If you're not working, you feel worthless.

Saturn in Pisces in 6th: You have chronic health issues that doctors can't diagnose, and they make you feel like you're making it up.

Why: Your body betrays you in invisible ways and the lack of answers makes you question yourself.

Saturn in Capricorn in 6th: You've burnt out three times but you keep returning to the same work grind.

Why: Work is your identity. Slowing down or stopping feels like becoming a nobody.

Saturn in Aries in 6th: You're the slowest worker on your team and everyone notices.

Why: Your work pace makes being "behind" visible every single day. You can't hide that you're slower than others.

Saturn in 7th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because RELATIONSHIPS make you feel inadequate. Being in a relationship proves you are worth something.

Saturn in Libra in 7th: You're the last of your friends to get married. At every wedding, someone asks "when is it your turn?"

Why: Your relationship status is treated as social proof of worth. Being single feels like being a failure.

Saturn in Aries in 7th: Your partner got their dream job while you're still figuring out your career path.

Why: Competing or comparing yourself to your significant other makes being "behind" a constant daily reality. You feel as if you are the lesser one in the relationship.

Saturn in Scorpio in 7th: Even after years together, you can't fully open up to your partner. There's always a wall.

Why: Being vulnerable equals danger. Letting someone all the way in is not your forte.

Saturn in Aquarius in 7th: You want partnership but commitment feels like losing yourself or being trapped.

Why: Relationships mean sacrificing freedom. You fear loaing your individuality and what makes you "you" in the relationship.

Saturn in 8th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because DEEP INTIMACY, SHARED RESOURCES, or TRANSFORMATION requires surrender and trust.

Saturn in Scorpio in 8th: You have separate bank accounts even after 10 years of marriage.

Why: Sharing bank accounts means trusting your partner fully. It feels like handing over the keys to your financial freedom.

Saturn in Taurus in 8th: You won't accept financial help from your partner even when you desperately need it.

Why: Dependence means losing your autonomy. Owing anyone anything feels like being owned.

Saturn in Gemini in 8th: You can talk about surface topics for hours but freeze when someone asks "how are you, really?"

Why: Talking about deep things or emotions exposes what you can't articulate. You don't have words for your feelings, so intimacy feels impossible.

Saturn in Cancer in 8th: You cry alone but never in front of your partner or those who you should trust.

Why: Vulnerability equals the risk of abandonment. If they see you break, they might leave.

Saturn in 9th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because EDUCATION, BELIEFS, or WORLDLINESS becomes the measuring stick. Higher learning or philosophical depth is proof of whether you're "enough."

Saturn in Sagittarius in 9th: People talk about their study-abroad in France and you stayed in your hometown for college.

Why: TRAVEL is visible. You didn't get to explore the world, so you feel like a small fish in a big pond.

Saturn in Gemini in 9th: You avoid deep philosophical conversations because you feel like you "don't know enough."

Why: BELIEF SYSTEMS require the intellectual depth you think you lack. You can do small talk but not "big ideas."

Saturn in Capricorn in 9th: You went to college only for the degree, and you feel like a fraud when you get a job.

Why: Education was a credential, not genuine wisdom/skills. You have the diploma but not the depth/experience for your career.

Saturn in Cancer in 9th: You can't travel or pursue higher education because family obligations keep you home.

Why: HOME and FAMILY prevent GROWTH. You're stuck while others expand, and your family may be the reason why.

Saturn in 10th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because CAREER, PUBLIC IMAGE, or REPUTATION is how the world judges you. Professional success becomes the only metric of whether you matter.

Saturn in Capricorn in 10th: You got the promotion you worked years for and your first thought was "now I need the next promotion"

Why: CAREER SUCCESS is never enough. There's always someone higher, someone more accomplished.

Saturn in Leo in 10th: You did all the work but you never got the public recognition for it.

Why: Recognition determines if you're "special" or valuable. Without visibility, your work doesn't count.

Saturn in Aries in 10th: You started your business at 35 when everyone else started at 25.

Why: Your career makes being "behind" public and permanent. You're a decade late and everyone can see it.

Saturn in 11th House:

WHY you're insecure: Because your lack of friends, community, and belonging to a group is proof that you feel something is wrong with you.

Saturn in Aquarius in 11th: You're too weird for the "normal" kids and too normal for the "weird" kids.

Why: Belonging to a friend group feels impossible.

Saturn in Leo in 11th: Your friend group is incredibly popular but you as an individual may not be as popular.

Why: You're present in the friend group but you may not be known to others outside your circle.

Saturn in Gemini in 11th: You go quiet in group settings because you can't keep up with fast-moving conversations.

Why: By the time you think of something to say, the topic has changed.

Saturn in 12th House:

Why you're insecure: Because you are your own worst enemy.

Saturn in Gemini in 12th: You replay a conversation from 5 years ago at 3am and literally cringe.

Why: Your MIND torments you in private. Your own thoughts become a prison you can't escape, and nobody knows you're suffering.

Saturn in Leo in 12th: You secretly believe you're special in your mind but you don't express this belief outwardly.

Why: Your hidden persona contradicts your public persona. You feel like the real you are special, remarkable, and unforgettable, but you refrain from expressing this belief outwardly. You have a hidden alter ego.

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Saturn Through the Signs: Insecurities

*Saturn highlights where we feel insecure, self- concious, and doubtful. Through these insecurities, Saturn teaches the importance of patience and self trust. The sign you have your saturn in will tell you what you are insecure about and how it manifests.

Saturn in Aries: Insecure about being the last one to finish and feeling behind. Insecure about not acting on their desires and someone else beating them to the punch. Insecure through comparing others’ “firsts” (first car at age 23) with their own timeline of “firsts” (first car at age 25).

Saturn in Taurus: Insecure about food, clothes, and voice. These people could feel insecure about the amount or type of food they have. This could potentially signify food restrictions or just food insecurity in general. They could potentially not have the amount of clothes they want or the resources necessary to get them.

Saturn in Gemini: Insecure about their social life and intellectual abilities. These people could feel they don’t have a good amount of friends or that they are lacking in their social life. They could have few friends and feel insecure about that. They may not speak much or have an insecurity about saying the wrong things or not feeling smart enough.

Saturn in Cancer: Insecure about their family life or home. They could have a family history they are insecure about, or maybe they had a rough upbringing that makes them feel they do not belong anywhere. Could feel “homeless” internally.

Saturn in Leo: Insecure about being seen and recognized. They feel as though they aren’t important or are overlooked. There may be an insecurity stemming from feeling like they are invisible, like nobody sees them for who they are.

Saturn in Virgo: Insecure over feeling incompetent. These people feel as if they are not good enough at performing their duties. They could have performance anxiety and feel insecure about not being perfect and getting things wrong.

Saturn in Libra: Insecure about their relationship status. They may be in an unsatisfying relationship and not leave it out of obligation and not wanting to be alone. May appeal to the male/female gaze out of societal expectations.

Saturn in Scorpio: They feel insecurity from the type or amount of secrets they hold. They may be insecure about revealing things about themselves that leave them feeling exposed. Insecure about not having close relationships while keeping others at arm’s length.

Saturn in Sagittarius: Insecurity around not feeling “worldly” enough. May be stuck in their hometown and not have the ability or resources to experience new places. Insecure about not feeling educated enough or getting what they wanted out of their education.

Saturn in Capricorn: Insecure about their career. These people may feel their career isn’t adequate to society’s standards. May be insecure about telling others what it is they do for their career and measuring success by society’s standards and not their own.

Saturn in Aquarius: Insecure about how different they think. Feels torn between wanting to be, think, or act differently and being normal. Insecure about sharing things they think other people won’t “get.” Insecurity about feeling lonely despite claiming they don’t need friends.

Saturn in Pisces: Insecure about having privilege and not having to suffer like other people. May be insecure about not being a victim like others and being out of touch with humanity’s collective suffering.

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12th House - The You When Nobody is Watching

If the 12th house had a quote, it would be, "You are your own worst enemy." The 12th house is the "you" when you are falling asleep. It is the you when you are alone with your thoughts, the thoughts that torment you or keep you up at night. It is the you that nobody sees except you. You are painfully aware of this part of yourself, so aware that it causes you pain.

If the 1st house is seen, then the 12th house is unseen. By unseen, I mean those moments where nobody is there for you. It is just you and you alone. It is what plays in your head as you cry yourself to sleep. It could be about a person, a place, or maybe it is just a feeling. Whatever the case may be, there is a sense of sorrow attached to it.

With the sign of Cancer here, the wound is around family, childhood, and the mother. You may find people with these placements thinking about these themes before they go to sleep. Maybe there is a sense of sorrow associated with the mother or with their childhood upbringing. With Gemini, the mind itself may be what brings the sorrow. We may see these people experiencing sorrow around communication, not speaking their mind or constantly replaying conversations.

With the planets, it is a different manifestation. An interesting one, which I see quite a bit in big-time celebrities, is Saturn in the 12th house. This placement is mysterious in the sense that nobody will ever know what plagues these people. Saturn here makes the individual suffer in silence with deep-seated issues. They do not vocalize their struggles and prefer to deal with them alone. Because each Saturn house shows where we receive karma, Saturn in the 12th house specifically shows that the individual is their own karma. It does not get any more painful than that. This could mean that the sorrow is self-inflicted and comes from a deep, long-standing wound that crystallized over time. It is not something that can be cleared up with a few visits to a therapist.

12th house issues take years, if not a lifetime, to resolve. It will always be the nagging buzz in the back of your mind that you have learned to cope with. If an individual has 12th house placements, they are more aware and cognizant of their sorrows and fears on a consistent basis. Their sorrows almost, in a sense, shape them. The key to this house is simply to dive deep and release whatever is holding you back.

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Hi I was wondering if you could help me figure out an astrology placement of mine. So I have a Sagittarius sun conjunct Pluto on my ascendant, and I also have a Taurus moon. I was wondering if this would give the same or similar effects of a Scorpio sun and a Taurus moon. Since Pluto is the ruler of Scorpio, and it’s conjunct my sun Is this like Sun-opposite moon?

Hey, of course! It is not the exact same thing; however, it would give similar effects as those placements with a bit of a twist. Your Taurus moon craves stability and comfort, but your Sun conjunct Pluto, seeks transformative experiences and adventures that shape your identity and how you present yourself (1st House). Scorpio suns more so embody that energy, but Sun conjunct Pluto in Sagittarius more so magnetizes that transformative energy via experiences to themselves.

Think of it like your Sag Sun conjunct Pluto visiting the underworld for a few days to have a Sagittarius-coded getaway trip and comes back changed/transformed because the experience was so intense and writes about it in their YOLO bucket list diary, whereas a Scorpio sun just lives in the underworld. Nothing changes them because they live there; they ARE the underworld. You don't live there, you are just visiting for the #experience and possibly becoming more emo in your expression/appearance (1st house Pluto) because of it.

With your Taurus moon, it is in a bit of conflict with that sun conjunct Pluto placement because your sun wants to experience transformation, but your moon is like, "I want to stay at home in my comfortable, predictable environment and eat my favorite snacks in my snuggy blanket." So emotionally, you seek that consistent, stable energy, but your identity seeks transformative experiences and adventures. It is at odds similar to the sun in Scorpio opposite the moon in Taurus; however, you are just adding the Sagittarius energy to it. If you want, you can look into Sun in Scorpio opposite Moon in Taurus interpretations, but apply that Sagittarius energy to the Sun.

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what placements would you enjoy teasing in a day to day conversation and why!

Aries: I'd tease Aries by bringing up every single project they started and never finished 💀. We'd be at dinner and I'd casually go, "Hey, remember when you were gonna learn how to speak French? What happened to that?" And when they try to defend themselves, I'd pull out my 78 day duolingo streak just to be #petty. When they get mad, I'd just say, "Oh sorry, did I trigger you? I bet I could learn it better and faster than you.”

Taurus: I'd tease Taurus by moving their stuff an inch every day. Just slightly… moving something inch by inch every day. Their coffee two inches to the right, their favorite bath and body works fragrance - three inches to the left in the shower, their comfy pillow - one inch to the right.

Gemini: I'd definitely text them back like a crackhead and change the subject constantly; spelling errors and all. I'd definitely blast their phone with like 47 messages each back to back:

“Omg”

“Did you see that new post?”

“Oh wait nvrmind”

“Ugh i dont wanna be here”

“Wait omg we shld tottaly…”

3 hours later…

“Girl!”

“Omg I have to tell you what happen -.”

-random meme with no context-

“Wait, did you have an exam today?”

Cancer: I'd tease them by totally misreading their energy intentionally. They'd passive aggressively sigh while reorganizing their bedroom cabinets looking like they are pitying themselves. I'd be like “oh my god are you okay🥺? You seem great😄! Like I lovvve your energy right now😍!”

Leo: Just say “great lighting!” to their instagram selfie post without praising their existence.

Virgo: Just load the dishwasher wrong in front of them. Put the large plates on the top rack and the small plates on the bottom rack, leave the glasses facing up and not down, mix the spoons with the knives, and leave a little bit of food on the utensils and put it in the dishwasher while they watch.

Libra: Make plans, and second guess them the moment y'all are both ready. I'd be like “wait, I don't know about this place anymore. What do you think?” Watch them spiral.

Scorpio: Breadcrumb them by saying something deeply scarring happened to you when you were a child. When they beg you to elaborate so they can trauma bond just say “nevermind, I can't.” 

Also just randomly stare at them for a minute and a half like a creep. 

Sagittarius: Ask them where they see themselves in 5 years. 

Hint: They have no idea and you may send them into a quarterlife crisis in real time. 

Capricorn: Schedule “mandatory fun time” with them on their google calendar and make an excel spreadsheet with their least favorite font, randomize the colors, and make the formulas wrong on purpose.

Aquarius: Just tell them how you've seen so many people like the same weird, underground artist that they like on instagram. “Oh my god you like “xyz” they are so popular! 😝🤩.” Watch them totally drop that artist💀. Or tell them their super weird haircut reminds you of some mainstream artist that everyone knows. Reply back  “cool” when they desperately try to tell you about the mysteries of the universe.

Pisces: Tell them that it's not the energy in the sky that made them late to their event, but the fact they never set an alarm that made them late.

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Hello. I hope you are doing well. I saw you were doing readings and I was wondering if you could do my chart. I've had some others here read it but I find that everyone really brings their own wisdom so the more the merrier. I also have a couple of questions about some of the placements. Anyway if you're interested, here it is.

Ascendent ♐ Sagittarius

Sun: Gemini ♊ in 6th

Moon: Pisces ♓ in 3rd

Mercy: Taurus ♉ in 5th

Venus: also Taurus ♉ in 5th

Mars: aquarius ♒ in 2nd

Jupiter: Leo ♌ in 8th

Saturn: Gemini ♊ in 7th

Uranus: pisces ♓ in 2nd

Neptune: aquarius ♒ in 2nd R

Pluto: Sagittarius ♐ in 1rst R

North node is Taurus in 6th R

Lilith is another Taurus in 5th

Chiron is Capricorn in 1 R

Fortune is aquarius 2

And vertex is cancer 8

I know that's a lot. My questions are mostly, is it totally over with Saturn in 7th? Definitely been a cloud on relationships. Also what are like some strengths and weakness? I know that a lot of my personal planets are very mutable and I lose focus a lot but like what's good? Finally is there anything on the chart that seems interesting or that you don't see much?

Again thank you!

The first thing that really jumps out in your chart is all the flexible, go-with-the-flow mutable energy you have, especially in your "big three." With your Sun and Moon also in mutable houses, you're likely super adaptable and quick to respond to things that show up in your life. But don't worry about being too scattered, that is just who you are! Regardless, it is balanced out by your big six, where your Mercury, Venus, and Mars are in fixed signs. This adds a layer of stability to your personality, which grounds your more flighty energy. The real saving grace here is having your Mercury and Venus in Earth signs. This really grounds your way of thinking and what you value, keeping things practical and down-to-earth.

Okay, so something that intuitively stuck out ot me was the link between your Sagittarius Ascendant, its ruler Jupiter, and your nodal axis (think: your life's purpose). Your Ascendant ruler, Jupiter, is hanging out in your 8th house, which connects directly to your South Node in Scorpio. The cherry on top is your Pluto in your 1st house. Putting this all together, it looks like you're naturally wired for transformation. You probably handle big, life-changing challenges better than most people. Your path to growth and good fortune (thanks to Jupiter) is all about shining a light (Leo) on topics that are usually kept in the dark (8th House), bravely facing your own shadow side, and becoming an inspiration for others. As you do deep, inner work, you'll just naturally glow with a confidence and generosity that people find magnetic.

Lastly, Saturn in your 7th house is definitely not a bad thing. Saturn is that strict teacher we all despise, but ultimately wants us to be the master of a certain subject. In your case, that subject is English. Think of Saturn as your English teacher. Since it's in Gemini, its lessons are all about communication, and due to it being in the 7th house, your lessons will show up in your relationships. This might show up as attracting partners who are a bit... "dry". Maybe they are dry texters/talkers, not consistent enough at communicating to keep a relationship, not intellectually stimulating enough for you, or maybe they are too unserious. Or, on the flip side, you may embody these qualities.

Either way, Saturn here wants you to learn the balance between light-hearted and more whimsical interpersonal communication and more serious, consistent, and grounded communication. Your lesson is to simply embrace more flexibility and fun in your conversations. It's all about finding that sweet spot between deep, serious talks and just being lighthearted, sharing memes, and going with the flow. Nailing that balance is key.

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In honor of the start of Scorpio season, I will be making a series of posts centering around Scorpio placements and aspects.

First up is: Venus Square Neptune in Scorpio

Let me start by saying this is a wildly attractive but deeply painful placement to have. These people may have an alluring aura, but there are some hidden complexities involved. Venus is already considered to be in detriment in Scorpio, so adding Neptune to the mix just increases this sensitivity.

Withdrawal from others due to past pain or betrayals is a theme here. This is the "guarded heart" placement. There is likely to be some painful backstory to these individuals that involved betrayal, rejection, and emotional pain in regard to their interpersonal relationships. This could be friendships or romantic partners.

These are the type of people to open up to someone about something traumatic or deeply vulnerable and have it used against them or be rejected because of it.

They may end up feeling like they are too much for most people and become guarded as a result. They may believe, "I can't share all these parts of myself because they will not see me the same or love me because of it." This is where the secretive nature of Scorpio Venus comes in. The secretive-ness is a form of self-protection. That feeling that something unsaid is simmering just beneath the surface is attractive and is what makes Scorpio Venus appealing. However, it will take a lot of vulnerability, which Scorpio Venus is afraid of, to actually show that side of themselves.

Now, when you add Neptune to this, specifically the square, it adds an extra layer of hurt. So this makes these people extra sensitive in relationships. They may internalize hurts and blame themselves in true Neptunian fashion and think, "Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm too much. Maybe I'm being too intense." They may feel like their natural capacity for deep, sensitive and almost spiritual love always ends in disappointment, hurt, and may make them feel like it's too risky opening up ever again.

These may be the types of people to experience what is known as limerence. The way their significant relationships "end" may make them feel like it's not necessarily over leading to thoughts of "what if?". This is especially the case for Venus retrograde in Scorpio individuals with this aspect.

The key to this aspect is to realize that your capacity for deep, healing relationships is not something to feel burdened by. It is a gift to bring your whole authentic self; the good, the bad, the light, and the dark to your relationships. It is a gift because you inspire those you are closest with to bring their good, bad, and ugly. That is truly what makes this placement unforgettable.

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The Science and Magic of Manifestation: My Step-By-Step-Guide to Manifesting

Have you ever wondered how manifesting works on a scientific and spiritual level combined? Do you also wonder how you can manifest things more effectively? Well, today is your lucky day. I'm going to teach you not only how science and spirituality meet in this practice but also my method to manifestation.

Before we begin, please familiarize yourself with the teachings and practices of Neville Goddard, Napoleon Hill, and Edgar Cayce ("the sleeping prophet"). A quick google search or ChatGPT question will give you all you need. This is your reading assignment.

Alright, folks, class is in session:

We are all aware of the infamous third eye. It is famously associated with the sixth chakra, otherwise known as the Ajna Chakra.

Now, here is where things get interesting: Imagine a straight line drawn back from in between your eyes to the middle of the inside of your brain. This is where your pineal gland is located inside your brain, just slightly higher.

Now, doesn't this sound familiar?

The third eye somehow is "coincidentally" located in the same spot as the pineal gland. Folks, it is safe to assume that the literal embodiment of the third eye is your pineal gland.

This is the key to manifestating.

Now, your pineal gland produces a hormone known as melatonin. Melatonin can only be produced significantly in the dark/at night. Specifically when your two physical eyes are closed.

How wonderous is it that the physical embodiment of your third eye is only active when your two eyes are closed? This means your third eye can only be "open". when your eyes are closed.

Let's go deeper:

Your pineal gland and producing melatonin is the key to manifesting your desires. However, there is one more system that is responsible for manifestation: your RAS (Reticular Activating System)

Your RAS (Reticular Activating System) is located in your brain stem and literally controls what information your brain focuses on. So, this is the physical embodiment of the spiritual terms: "You control your own perception of reality."

This is the reason why it can be difficult to manifest for many people. They are trying to manifest during the wrong part of the day at a time when their body is not producing melatonin and their RAS is not consciously primed for their manifestations.

In putting two and two together, here is my step by steo guide to manifesting things instantaneously, backed by actual science and spirituality:

1. Wait until it is nighttime and you are ready to go to sleep.

2. Get in your bed and turn off all the lights. (It should be dark and quiet in your bedroom or wherever you are sleeping)

3. Close your eyes.

4. Start saying in your mind exactly what it is that you desire. (In your first attempt at my method, say: I will have a great day tomorrow)

5. Believe that you will have a great day the following morning and repeat it.

6. Allow your mind to drift where it wants while holding on to the manifestation (in this case: I will have a great day tomorrow)

7. Fall asleep

It is really that simple.

I will explain why:

When you do this method, you will notice yourself getting very sleepy. Don't fight it. Let yourself fall asleep in the middle of it.

It is similar to when you try to pray and you find yourself falling asleep in the middle of your prayer. This is your brain being consciously programmed and directed by your own will, so it's no wonder you get tired.

In my method, your pineal gland is active and secreting melatonin, and your RAS is actively being primed to focus on what it is you desire. When you wake up, your mind will automatically draw to it, events and experiences that will make your day "good." Now, a "good day" is very subjective, but your subconscious will automatically know what exactly it needs to manifest in your reality to make your day good.

Now, if you are like me and like to keep track of your manifestations and lowkey forget what exactly it was you manifested the prior night, I encourage you to use an app (I use excel) and write down what exactly it is you are manifesting and the time/date of it. This allows you to track when your manifestation comes to fruition. It will feel like magic.

Feel free to leave a comment on your results or leave a like if this was helpful.

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Hey there!

I saw that you said free reading and I was wondering if you could give me one? 😁

Yes, absolutely! Just message me with the following information:

Birthtime (ex. 6:09 pm)

Birth Location (ex. Manhattan, New York)

Date of Birth (month/day/year)

Email address

I will use what you give me to create a comprehensive reading for you. Once I am finished with your analysis, I will email you the report.

Looking forward to it!

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Jupiter Astro Observations

"Momma, I AM the Rich Man"

We all know what Jupiter popularly represents in astrology: your husband.

However, in this era, women are not prioritizing their lives around getting married. If you dont believe me, look up the statistics.

I think as astrologers, we must take current social and political movements that are happening so we are always contextually accurate. If we dont, we risk the thought of being seen as irrelevant and outdated in our interpretations - I'm not just talking about transits.

It's like being a meterologist and reporting on the weather without a specific location. How will you know if storms are coming if you don't even know where you are?

That meme by Jaden Smith "like can we talk about the political and economic state of the world right now?" lowkey aged like wine in this regard.

I believe the interpretation of planets in astrology should evolve with the times. 250 years from now, if we haven't already destroyed Earth, Jupiter will not be interpreted the same way as it does now. That same sentiment holds true now.

The traditional interpretation of Jupiter would be relevant to you if you were living in the 16th century when you would have been married off to a man for survival bc you couldn't even legally get property in your name. #ClockedIt

Think "Bridgerton" & "Queen Charlotte: A Bridgerton Story"

As a whole, women are currently more focused on their education, careers, personal growth, financial independence, and emotional well-being. It's all about expansion and broadening your horizons. Sounds very Jupiter- like, right?

We out here being what our mothers, aunts, and grandmothers could never be, so why would Jupiter be about your mans?

If it's anything you take from this post, girl, YOU ARE the rich man.

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Scorpio Venus and How They Attract

I've seen so many posts about scorpio venus that are so abstract. What do you mean by "You attract others with your willingness to commit"?? Anywaysss, let's get into how it may manifest on a realistic and tangible level:

This placement can inspire those who are attracted to them to experience a depth of feeling they've never had before. This is a water sign placement, so the attraction will likely start at the emotional center from others. Water placements are largely subconcious, so this is the reason behind those mysterious feelings that individuals attracted to scorpio venus can't quite pinpoint rationally.

It's not like a fire sign venus where the attraction from others starts from immediate surface level chemistry. With fire sign venus attraction, it's more of an obvious apparent reason for the start of the attraction: how luscious your hair looks, how beautiful your smile is, how you laugh, how good your body looks, or anything that ignites a sense of physical attraction or passion.

But, there is something about Scorpio Venus people that makes individuals who are attracted to them feel like: "There is something about that person that makes me feel something internally that I can't quite pinpoint." Again, it is a water placement, which deals with the subconscious emotional state. So, for people with this placement, just know those who are attracted to you may feel something deeper for you that is not obvious on the surface. This is where that obsessive energy you frequently see people tie scorpio venus energy to comes into play; the naturally emotional and subconcious reactions you bring out in those who are attracted to you could cause these responses.

Keep in mind that scorpio rules over anything related to power, mystery, intrigue, or anything below the surface. Yes, anyone can have those traits, but if they are not a Scorpio Venus, individuals who are attracted to them will not be drawn to them for those reasons. For instance, say someone is a Scorpio Sun with a Libra Venus. Yes, they may embody the aforementioned traits through their personality, but the people who are attracted to them are feeling that Libra Venus energy.

To further elaborate on how this manifests with aspects to other planets, let's take Scorpio Venus square Neptune. This would take the already mysterious attraction of others who are interested in you and add a touch of illusion, spirituality, or confusion to the attraction. This would make the Scorpio Venus person have people drawn to them react in a "I feel mysteriously drawn to them, and it's confusing me, but I also feel something spiritual that is drawing me to this person."

To close, scorpio themes are not to be taken lightly. It is not a bubble gum, lollipop, and gum-drops pleacement. Hidden motivations, secret reasons for attraction, and taboo initial attractions may be common for these people since they bring out that subconscious emotional state of others.

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Natal Oppositions in Astrology and Dating

This is a generational post specifically geared towards those you know/are dating who have Uranus (born between 1995 and 2003) and/or Neptune (born between 1998 and 2012) in the sign of Aquarius with Leo personal placements (sun, moon, mercury, venus, and mars). However, even though I am tailoring this post specifically for Gen Z, this will also apply to individuals with natal oppositions from personal planets to Neptune in different signs. It will just have a different... 🤌🏾 "flavoring."

Here is the tea on dating an individual with heavy Leo placements born between the previously listed years:

I'm ngl it's giving decepticon. Let's break it down, though, first. Leo energy is about ego, confidence, self-esteem, and just overall fun and great vibes. On the surface, this is a really great thing. Of course you'd want to be around a lively, fun, and great vibes type of person, but if we take a closer look at other things in the chart we may get a different story; especially in regard to dating.

In regards to natal oppositions to personal planets, we can see a tendency toward deception. Whether that be self-deception or just flat-out intentional outward deception. This could manifest outwardly as a guy who makes you feel really good about yourself but is really just acting out what he thinks you like for the purpose of winning you over. For instance, say a guy you are dating has personal planets in Leo opposite Neptune in Aquarius. We can see numerous things here:

1. He takes in society's ideals of masculinity from the internet and tries to project such ideals to dating partners even if that is not who they actually are.

2. This guy may actually be quite insecure in his masculinity and tries to conform to society's ideal version of such. You could hear them purposely say things like, "I am a provider and protector" because they know so many of us Gen Z ladies listen to the viral Sprinkle Sprinkle lady, aka Shera Seven. If you know, you know. If you don't, look her up. Again, I am taking those Aquariun themes (internet, large groups, community, "followers") and applying it.

3. They may actually not be purposely trying to deceive you and could possibly just be someone who lies to themselves. This could be the person who may be bordering on the delusional side in terms of self-concept. This is particularly the case if the sun and mars are in leo in opposition to Neptune in Aquarius. Their intentions can come across as quite performative. In essence, performing authenticity for the person they are dating.

Whichever way you spin it, just be cautious around those with these types of placements. No, not everyone with this placement is doomed to be deceptive to themselves or others, but there is a stronger likelihood of it. The lesson for these people really is finding the middle ground between expressing yourself authentically and keeping society's online ideals in mind to form a more balanced integration of the two.

[astr0gir1]

Hey! I'd love to know more about my 8th house lilith in aquarius placement, what do you think it signifies?

Hey, thanks for the ask! First, let's take it back to what Lilith represents: refusal to submit to "the man" or, in general terms, refusing to go along with "the patriarchy." This interpretation will differ depending on your gender, but if we are to interpret it from the female perspective, we would see where you might act on your natural impulses, but be met with criticism from those with ingrained patriarchal beliefs. For instance, with lilith in the 8th house in Aquarius, you may take a more unique approach to dealing with matters related to joint resources that trigger a negative response from those who are caught up in strict gender roles. To illustrate a few scenarios, let's say, for instance, you move in with a boyfriend and insist on using an app to keep track of both his and your expenses. Your partner's family suggests that you are not letting him take the lead on the finances in the traditional way and need to listen to him instead of doing it your way despite your way being more efficient and progressive. On the positive side, this placement may represent someone who initially recieves a bit of pushback from "the patriarchy" for their unique and innovative way of dealing with 8th house themes (joint resources, taboo subjects, secrets), but eventually it becomes something you gain empowerment from. The key here is realizing that the key to empowerment for you looks different and non-traditional than someone else related to 8th house themes. Maybe instead of doing traditional talk therapy, you do a deep internet dive on attachment styles, join online communities related to 8th house themes, attend online therapy sessions, etc. All of this to say that where women of the past were reliant on traditional and patriarchal approaches to 8th house themes, your lilith in Aquarius in the 8th house says, "Screw that" and you find empowerment through becoming self sufficient through innovative means.

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The Numerology of 1

These are the trailblazers of numerology. Having one in your chart makes self-actualization and exerting your willpower of great importance in your life. These are the people who are either naturally self-sufficient or are learning to be so. You may find it hard to collaborate with others, or others naturally follow your lead. There could be something unique about you that makes others say, "She is her own person." This is also the lone-wolf number, and you may find yourself having to do many things alone in your life. I encourage those with this placement to be more assertive about their desires and goals. This is the "Just Do It!" placement. Literally, you will find yourself when you just be yourself. Be 100% authentically you, and I guarantee you will find success and prosperity. Copying others will not get you where you know you want to go. You have a strong intuition; use it. The color red is important if you want to strengthen this energy, and root chakra meditations will enhance this energy. How and where this energy naturally manifests can be seen in more detail through your astrological birth chart.

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Pluto in Sagittarius

This one goes out to all the Gen Zers with Pluto in Sagittarius. This placement gives heavy judgmental energy, I'm ngl. Pluto rules over transformation and destruction, and in the sign of Sagittarius, this has to do with beliefs and culture. There may be some form of extremism for people with this placement. Religious extremism, political extremism, anything having to do with belief systems - you name it. This is the type of person who makes conversations about world issues with their family and friends quite uncomfortable or, on the flip side, enlightening and transformative. This is the [insert something controversial you believe in]... "Change My Mind" placement. How you go about vocalizing your beliefs has to do more with your particular Mercury sign, and its aspects; however, there will still be a major focus on issues having to do with other cultures around the world or even just pop culture in itself. Maybe you don't feel as if you fit in with your immediate culture, and you seek to find refuge in another culture. Further, you may find your beliefs are at odds with those you share a similar culture with. You would likely see these people vehemently defend their beliefs; I'm talking about people who would quite literally "die on that hill" of whatever they are being vocal about. Strong conviction and belief in justice are strong with this placement, and it is not uncommon to see individuals from differing cultures with this placement engaging deeply with other cultures to get an understanding of them. Also, this placement gives heavy biblical era vibes. I lowkey feel like if your Pluto is in Sagittarius, you may have had a past life(s) in another culture and may have decided to experience a different culture this life for your soul's evolution and growth. I would pay attention to a foreign culture that immediately grabs your attention or one that you feel mysteriously drawn to, as it is likely instrumental to your growth.

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Chiron in Capricorn

So, for this position, watch out for those who are trying to "guide" or "mentor" you. These are the types of people with this placement to quietly get backstabbed by someone you thought was in your corner, supporting you in your goals. Because Capricorn rules over control and institutional forms of power, you may see this play out in large institutions or even structured organizations. Maybe someone in an influential position of authority in an institution or structured organization said they would help you, but ultimately worked against you. Some early manifestations of this may include an individual in college seeking guidance from an authority figure, such as their advisor. Only to find out that said advisor told them the wrong information, and now they are delayed in graduating by a whole year. Envy and jealousy in terms of your personal achievements are real issues here. I'm telling you, watch out for "authority" figures, as they may be your biggest opps. The lesson in this is to become your own authority figure. You do not have to seek out "guidance" from authority. Listen to your intuition and follow your own first mind, as those with this placement instinctively know how to achieve their goals their own way.