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would you like a sip of some sweet refreshing vegetable juice

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Im not a gemini inm

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There was a fucking spider on my leg

probablynot404

Anxiety & Helping Someone Cope. I didn’t want to make it overwhelming or too long remember, so I kept it to the main points that benefit me greatly when I’m experiencing an attack. 40 million of Americans alone suffer with anxiety; it’s a horrid feeling when you know someone just wants to help you but you cannot even construct a simple sentence at the time, so please share this in hope that it benefits even just 1 person. Muchos love.

citrinecoven

🌿Anger Magick🌿

Crystals, herbs and tips to help you deal with anger, anger issues, etc..

🔮Crystals for Anger🔮 🔮Ajoite: converts anger and agression into positive energy, makes one more receptive to feelings, brings happiness and joy. $ 🔮Aragonite: converts agression and anger into positive energy, grounds holder, raises energy levels. $ 🔮Kyanite: converts anger and agression into positive energy, removes frustration and confussion. $ 🔮Magnetite: converts anger and agression into positive energy, grounds holder, removes negative energy. $ 🔮Opal: converts anger and agression into positive enegry, frees the mind, body and soul. $$$ 🔮Peridot: converts anger and agression into positive energy, removes jealousy. $$ 🔮Sugilite: converts anger and agression into positive energy, helps understanding, clears the mind. $ 🔮Witherite: converts anger and agression into positive energy, grounds holder, makes bearer self-aware. 🌿Herbs for Anger🌿 🌿Chamomile: Used to calm down and relax. Best used in form of tea. 🌿Ginseng: used as a mood enhancer, taken as a supplement. 🌿Lavender: used to calm one down. Can be used in many forms. lotions, oils, sprays, smell sachets,… 🌿Kava Kava: used as a mood enhancer and improves sleep, best used in form of tea. 🌿Peppermint: soothing herb that helps calm down anger. Can be used in form of tea but also peppermint candies. ✨Tips for Anger✨ ✨Meditation and yoga help against anger. ✨Express your anger, but only after you have calmed down. ✨Forgive! holding grudges will only bring you more anger over time. ✨Take three deep breaths when you feel anger building up to release tension. ✨Stay active! Go for a walk, get some excorsice or do a chore to distract your mind. ✨Write a journal or letters to yourself about your anger. *Never be afraid to seek professional help if you feel like your anger issues are not getting any better or if they are getting out of hand.*

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sabertoothwalrus

I saw this post and spontaneously had the idea of a pond nymph falling in love with an old garden statue

thevirgodoll

“Many people don’t know how to handle their strong emotions. Our wrong perceptions can make us angry or fill us with despair. To see clearly, we must calm down. When we’re overcome by strong emotions we’re like a tree in a storm, with its top branches and leaves swaying in the wind. But the trunk of the tree is solid, stable, and deeply rooted in the earth. When we’re caught in a storm of emotions, we can practice to be like the trunk of the tree. We don’t stay up in the high branches. We go down to the trunk and become still, not carried away by our thinking and emotions. We don’t say or do anything; we just focus all our attention on the rise and fall of our abdomen, our trunk. This protects us from speaking in anger and saying something we may regret.” -Thich Nhat Hanh, How to Fight

iamalishawhite

SPIRITUAL FITNESS IDEAS

All ideas listed can be done on a daily basis at any time of the day, even if your not “spiritual” you can include them in your self-care routine and alter them to your liking.

🦋 Prayer | Alternative: Journalling

🦋Meditation | Alternative: Spending time alone.

🦋Grautude list | Alternative: Tell someone you appreciate them.

🦋Take a walk in Nature | Alternative: Buy yourself some flowers

🦋Crystal Healing | Alternative: Listen to relaxing music

🦋Reiki Healing | Alternative: Dance around your bedroom

🦋Spiritual Baths | Alternative: Take a bubble bath.

🦋Yoga | Stretch your body out

🦋Delete, Mute, Block people on socials that don’t serve your highest good | | Alternative: Spend some time off socials.

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How to become a Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

today i’m going to tell y’all how to actually become your dream girl, aka your desired self.

one thing i HATE about “dream girl” tumblr is how judgemental they are! they have so many stupid rules, saying that to be a dream girl you can’t be this, you can’t have that and spew a lot of hateful rhetoric that is rooted in bigotry. (i.e misogyny & classism.)

first of all, this is your reality. as in, you can do whatever you want. so using that logic, we can be whoever we want.

first things first: decide who your dream girl is.

i want you to imagine your desired self. go beyond your wildest dreams. who is dream girl? what does she look like? what does she do for a living? ask yourself questions like these to start your imagination, and either type out it on a device, or write it down on a piece of paper.

feeling uninspired? watch tv shows, go out with friends, read books, watch youtube videos, scroll on social media. whatever makes you feel inspired! i would really recommend making a pinterest board. pinterest is AMAZING for inspiration.

if you’re really stuck, let me ask you some questions!

what does being a dream girl mean to you?

what does this woman look like?

what is her dream job?

what’s her salary?

where does she live?

what is her house like?

is she single or in a relationship? if so, describe her partner in detail.

what does she do for fun?

what are her hobbies?

how do others perceive her?

how is her mental state?

what is her personality like?

how does she dress?

how is her relationship with her family like?

what are her friends like?

describe the average day of the dream girl.

don’t feel pressured to desire a certain thing that you actually don’t want. you are unique. your “dream girl” is unique to you. just because you see 834778393893 blogs talking about how they’d like to live the hedonistic high life surrounded by materialism, doesn’t mean you have to. i mean if you want to live that way, be my guest!

the “dream girl” isn’t a fixed aesthetic. this isn’t about anyone else. this is about YOU. so if your dream girl is you living in a pretty cottage in the middle of nowhere surrounded by art – that is YOUR dream girl. or if your dream girl is a woman who wears suits and is a ceo – that is ALSO a dream girl.

anyone can be a dream girl. and i mean, anyone. don’t listen to those stupid ass blogs that say shit like “you can’t be fat or skinny if you want to be a dream girl.” “you must act like this or you must have this” oh my god, PLEASE SHUT UP. i swear to god if i see another post like that i will lose my damn mind. don’t listen to those blogs! you are beautifully & wonderfully made. :)

the big secret, how to actually become a dream girl.

okay, if you have been following me for a long time, you know what i’m about to say next. there is no secret. HA, FOOLED YA!

the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl.

yup, it’s that easy. just assume that you have everything you want. do not see your desired self as a fantasy, but as a reality. as a fact. wishful thinking will not do you any good.

as neville goddard once said:

“health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.”

affirm for your desire. and when you affirm, affirm from a place of knowing. don’t view affirming as some kind of technique, but as present fact. at the end of the day, your assumptions manifest. so assume you are your dream girl.

“i will be is a confession that ‘i am not’ the father’s will is always ‘i am.’ until you realize that you are the father (there is only one Iiam and your infinite self is that i am), your will is always ‘i will be.”

when affirming, you can either use separate affirmations like:

“i have my dream job”

“i look like xyz”

“i have the perfect boyfriend”

you can use general affirmations. i personally find these easier because you only need one affirmation, because they cover everything you want. and don’t worry! your subconscious knows exactly what you’re talking about when you use a vague affirmation, because we assign meaning to our thoughts. if both you and you friend used the same affirmation, you would both get different results because you both want to manifest different things. understand?

that being said, here are some of my fav general affirmations:

“i am a dream girl!”

“everything in my life is perfect”

“isn’t it wonderful”

“i am happy”

“i live my desired life.

etc.

(oh, and one last thing. you don’t even need to believe in your affirmations. affirm & persist anyway, until you have your desire. so for those of you who struggle with belief, it is okay to be sceptical! don’t be so hard on yourself. you can be in the shittiest mood, have intrusive thoughts and lack belief — but as long as you are persistent in your affirmations, you’ll be fine. after all, that is the law.)

you don’t have to affirm if you don’t want to. i know affirming isn’t for everyone. instead of affirming, here are some alternatives:

visualization

scripting

subliminals

praying

spells

placebo effect (yes, you can use it to manifest)

manifestation techniques (369, 5x55, etc)

so here you go, folks! remember, the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl. no, you don’t need to lose weight, buy a prada bag or invest in chanel.

you already are your dream girl already!

here are some nice posts by me, relating to the topics, as linked below. happy manifesting, my loves!

https://bit.ly/3ixfmu2

https://bit.ly/3hNyTY5

https://bit.ly/3BpaIHm

https://bit.ly/3wNgpet

themirroredmoon

Methods of Spell Work

To Banish: • Burning to ashes and sweeping away the ashes • Cast out a window, down a cliffside, etc • Bury it and spit on the spot

To Bind: • Wrap in black thread • Cover in wax or other material • Seal in jar and hide in dark spot

To Hide: • Wrap in ribbon • Place in a (painted) black jar or other container • Cover in cloth or other material and bury

To Encourage: • Plant or bury near the front door/steps • Plant or bury near a window • Place near a window

To Communicate*: • Anoint a candle • Leave out an offering • Meditate • Open the front door and/or windows

To Glamour: • Leave under the full moon • Work with its reflection

To Cleanse: • Bury in salt • Burn herbs and pass through the smoke • Let it bathe in the moonlight

To Protect: • Leave sigils/wards on doors and windows • Carry sigils/wards on every day items (keys, phone case, etc) • Enchant jewelry with protection spells

*: Communication with deities, spirit guides, etc

aspiringbenedetto

Spell to Cure a Headache

From The Things We Do: Ways of the Holy Benedetta

Take a paring knife. Make the Sign of the Cross with it over the forehead of the person who is suffering from a headache. While doing so, recite "In nomine Patris, et Filii, et Spiritus Sancti". Repeat this 5-7 times.

When using the knife, you cut away any cords of enchantment tying the headache to the person. When making the Sign of the Cross and reciting the invocation of God, you call on God, Christ and the Holy Spirit to chase it away and heal the person.

I've done this before for my roommate, and it works!

Dio benedica!